Singles & Dating - 31 October 2006

Is there any way to ever trust anyone else again after being hurt and deceived in a past relationship? I am a good girl (loyal and extremely honest) and my EX was a real ***hole and hurt me very badly. I didn't know he was lying to me and now I am so afraid that I can be so easily duped. How can you EVER trust a man again?

2006-10-31 15:59:38 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous

i met this girl on an online dating site last night. we talk on messenger, saw each others pics (shes very cute), and then she said "im going to my room now i think, but you can call me if you want". so i ask for her number, call, and we talk for about 20-25 minutes about school, family life, san fran, halloween plans, clubs, drinking, etc etc. at the end she says "so can you call me tomorrow night" i said yes, we both say goodnight.

so now its the next night. im looking forward to talking to her again. its 9pm...she said she was taking her younger siblings trick or treating at around 7pm for like 2 hours.

when should i call her? i dont wanna seem desperate or needy lol...help girls!!

2006-10-31 15:59:18 · 17 answers · asked by seth c 1

I just got strung along and dumped several times by this man. He told me back in July that he wanted to break up because he couldn't handle the idea of being "stepfather to a child with a disability" because my son has Asperger's Syndrome. Well, he wrote me an email 2 or 3 weeks later saying "I suffer as my heart longs for you," so I called him (stupidly) and asked him out. Since then, it's been me begging to have sex (ridiculous, as most people consider me quite beautiful!) with him and him being reluctantly horny. Finally, we agreed to stop trying to even be friends, much less "friends with benefits," because the truth is I'm madly in love with him and he's just not that into me (though he claims to love me). I'm humiliated at having chased him for so long. But that's my pattern: if I am into a man, I cling and smother the relationship. How can I stop this pattern and find love? How do I keep away from him? What if he calls?

2006-10-31 15:59:13 · 5 answers · asked by nondescript 4

2006-10-31 15:57:05 · 13 answers · asked by ? 6

we have mutual friends and must be civil to eachother once in a while. we broke up 2 years ago or so, and i finally am over it as of this past summer. however, when we have to spend time together, i'm always the one asking him the questions about his life. he has not initiated the slightest exchange since we broke up. he is absolutely emotionless around me.

I didn't cheat on him, I just told him he lied to me and I couldn't be treated a certain way and I told him to leave my house. since then he's been an icicle.

if he didn't care, wouldn't he be a little more receptive? you know, normal? i have a feeling things will never be normal between us.

I guess my question is:
What could be the reason he is acting like this, and what could I do to make the situation more smooth?

i know he is not interested in me and that's not what i'm fishing for. it's just really uncomfortable to have an "enemy" around when hanging with friends. it's like a super-dislike

2006-10-31 15:55:54 · 12 answers · asked by carlaerickson 5

and then she saw me again,and told me she wanted me back,should i accept her or not? considering they already did it.what should i do with my cousin who took advantage?

2006-10-31 15:55:22 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous

My friend is going to introduce me to this girl I have had a major crush on since school started. The problem is I got to meet her tommorow during lunch and I am shy as hell. What would be a good thing to say to make a good first impression? Also what would be good to say to start a conversation ?

2006-10-31 15:49:59 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous

I Have a Question I want to ask...
Okay, I Have a boyfriend who is totally consumed with TV and Materialistic things that its driving me crazy. but that's not the problem, the problem is he talks about Female Celebrities and how pretty they are all the time and Compare me to them, and of course I turn out --- "Okay" ex. Beyonce the r&b singer he absolutely gloats over, Jennifer Lopez, Halle Berry the Actress. and he has this "Thing" for lighter complected females and it makes me feel bad because I'm a soft brown complexion(not that i am ashamed) and it makes me think, why did he choose me to be with if I'm the Opposite of what he dreams of? SO, the question I am asking, should I give him the boot and leave him alone. Or should I just forget about the whole thing because it's silly. I Really truly Love Him, I would die for him, but I have doubts that he loves me the same way. Please Help,

Sign.....

Cinnamon_Lips

2006-10-31 15:49:42 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous

(im 23/a guy)..ok my friend i had a crush on for more than a year and a half is single now and she told me she wants to makeout with me because she said friends are the best kind to do that with. I want your opinion of what to do, what can I get away with, can i makeout with my shirt off or simply when can i take off my shirt? Ok just need advice....

2006-10-31 15:48:59 · 9 answers · asked by flyboy7683 2

If you are being an @$$, I tell you. If you did something dumb, I tell you. If you say something that hurts me, I tell you. Straight forward...nothing mean or too nice. I just tell you.

I expect the same in return, though!!!! If I did something dumb, I want you to put me in my place and tell me I did something dumb. If I say something that is hurtful, I want you tell me that I'm acting like a *****. Is this so hard to ask???

Yet some guys that I date think that I'm being mean to them...why is this??? I just tell them that they're being an @$$ and to knock it off or whatever. I just want them to know so that they can correct the way in which they handle things with me so that communication can open up more between the two of us. I don't want anyone to candy-coat things when I do something dumb, I just want to know. Why is this so hard to accept??

I just want to be up-front with my guys. I want them to be up-front with me.

2006-10-31 15:47:22 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous

My boyfriend says he loves me, and takes GREAT care of me emotionally, but he does look at other women and has cheated 2x during our relationship...but I LOVE LOVE him to death.

On the other hand, I just met this guy, who is OK, nothing is going on, but he is a true sweetheart, not the kind to cheat, and keeps telling me that he cares A LOT for me and that he wants to build a future, and all the other things I never heard from my boyfriend...the only drawback is that I just met him AND he is not as successfull as the BF.

What would you do, ladies?

2006-10-31 15:47:08 · 11 answers · asked by FavoredbyU 5

Because my stuff is gitting old. If u know what i mean.

2006-10-31 15:46:52 · 5 answers · asked by am_solf_king_we_tod_it_420 1

my ex bf is spreading rumours that he and i had sex, but we reli didn't. what does that me? and he tells me to never talk to him again. i am confused what should i do, should i tell him to stop talking crap about me or just let it go? help me please

2006-10-31 15:45:58 · 11 answers · asked by Nina 1

Ok i am tryign to see if the guy i am pretty sure i luv really luvs me too. (BTW me and this guy aren't together any more but thats another story so don't bring that up in here plz)
i randomly asked him the other day what is my fav color and he got it right... i asked my sister and she didn't know and neither did my mom... but he knew it... so is their other Qs that you think would be good to kinda of test how well he knows me??? (Any questions at all you think i should ask him plz i need help on this) thanx!♥

2006-10-31 15:45:35 · 12 answers · asked by I Luv Joel Madden!! 6

does it mean she likes me?

2006-10-31 15:43:11 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous

Today I flipped him during class and we went tirck-or-treating and we jokingly insult each other. Does that mean that he likes me or not? I really want to start seeing him and going out, but we go to different schools. Can you help?

2006-10-31 15:41:49 · 10 answers · asked by Tempest6768 2

Ok so long story short my ex is across state finishing up school.She means the world to me I know she loves me but we are not together right now How do i know if she is the one and if we can make it work?She was home this summer and we had a great time spending nights with each other bu now she is gone back to school.We are growing distant and i want to do something b4 its to late.I really believe she is the 1 but im so analitacal i over analyze everything so i dont know if im making to much outta nothing what should i do?

2006-10-31 15:38:55 · 11 answers · asked by ryanrivers911 1

I feel like taking a break from persuing women.im not saying i like guys . i still find women very attractive. im just tired of all the crap and head games. And how women want to date the guy who treats them like mud.Plus i dont seem to be a real chick magnet. Has any other guy or girl felt the same way and how did this break work out for you?post here or message me.

2006-10-31 15:37:46 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous

I know the obvious, but tell about the things that can be changed/fixed for turn-offs and suggestions for improvements (such as brush your teeth if you have bad breath lol).

2006-10-31 15:35:42 · 19 answers · asked by michielev 2

2006-10-31 15:34:58 · 9 answers · asked by anglekj 1

i gave my girlfriend a paper crane

she seemed surprised that i made it

and she said it showed my sensitive side

is this a good or bad thing


im thinking of just going to paper flowers instead is that better

2006-10-31 15:33:11 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous

2006-10-31 15:32:00 · 4 answers · asked by momo 2

2006-10-31 15:29:07 · 49 answers · asked by Anonymous

My boyfriend of a year broke up with me last night because he was sick of the relationship being one sided and waiting for me to be ready to tell him how I feel.He said he loved me but couldn't do this anymore knowing he loved me more than anything and I didn't feel as strongly about him.If he truly loved me as much as he said he did why did he walk away?

2006-10-31 15:29:06 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous

What do they want? What makes them think of a date as good? What are some pointers (especially for the 1st one) on how to make a good impression and what not to do that would blow it.

2006-10-31 15:28:44 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous

okay so if u remember i asked about dating my friend on saturday since we were going out on sunday well......
it went great actually! we were in the movies for a while then we held hands and then i eventually ended up leaning against him with his arm around me and yea...he actually kissed my head/forehead/cheek....but i DIDNT kiss him.
ur probably thinking wtf! buuut i had thought about it but now i realize i should have...



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im 17 hun....lol

2006-10-31 15:27:48 · 6 answers · asked by coolgirllove2 1

im 15. i have a girlfriend who is like a godess and she is so hot and stuff and i really like her and everythind, but recently ive come to find she's mean to basically everyone, she never has anything intelligent to say, and she cares way too much about herself and how she looks and dresses and stuff. basically, she is kinda slutty which is true even though it sounds incredibly mean.

theres a girl who is the total opposite that i kinda actually like...or love. she's a theatre girl in some of classes. she's really smart, not hot, but little girl cute, and she totally speaks her mind and happens to be totally hilarious. she always makes me laugh. i dont know waht to do...i think i liker her...but i cant cause i have a girlfriend

im so freaking confused somebody help. take a chance in being friends with this new girl? dump my girlfriend? dont tell her?

my girlfriends hot but this new girl is everything else i could dream of and shes perfect.

2006-10-31 15:25:56 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous

we've been living together for 4yrs and have had good times and bad times but in the last 3 months our relationship has been at a stand still , we have fallen into a rut and cant get out of it , you see she doesnt want to have sex ( thats been happening for 2 months ) she doesnt want to do anything new , she want to go out with her friends and drink and go home and sleep so now im not seaing her alot either i work alot so inbetween my working her working and her drinking its hard to spend time with her , and she wont stop her drinking i've already talked to her about that , but i just dont know what to do about it .... i really miss our sex , i really miss what we had , so any advice on what to do ??? would be great

2006-10-31 15:25:04 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous

lets say she dosnt know i exist then what should i do

2006-10-31 15:23:04 · 13 answers · asked by alwhit10 1

What does SHE want?
3 months ago i spent alot of time together with this girl, but never officially was dating she wanted to stay single. I wanted to be more but she wasnt ready cause she still loved her ex boyfriend. Things turned nasty when i found out she slept with her ex boyfriend, and then another one which happened to be my friend. After all this occured i stopped talking to her for 3 months. She did her own thing without communicating to me what she planned on doing. Even though we talked about the possibiltity. She said she doesnt want a boyfriend at all. I have her on msn but has been blocked forever and her names are always like I feel so bad and stuff with what has occured. I am stubborn and have not given into her pretty face. And her name is like i would do anything to hear your voice again? What does this mean after all that has happened? She saw me the other day and was making out with my friend righ tin front of me? ya immature.. i no but what do you think she wants? i just dont get it.

2006-10-31 15:21:21 · 16 answers · asked by canuck131986 2