Singles & Dating - 31 October 2006

I like this junior at my school, he's really nice and funny and smart. We're both in FFA, but I don't think he knows I exist. He never talks to me, and I'm too shy to talk to him myself, how do I get his attention?

2006-10-31 16:32:47 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous

I really want to, but don't know how. Can U help me?

2006-10-31 16:31:30 · 12 answers · asked by Just Me 1

I have a Russian girlfriend who seems to feel that kissing should only begin after a long courtship period, if at all. I am wondering just how different Russian and American courtship practices are.

2006-10-31 16:30:20 · 11 answers · asked by drjona 1

I am in a dilemma.

my gal suspects that i distrust her by posing another guy to test her if she might be interested in him.

she also wonder too, i believe, that i flirt with other gals.

i do have other female friends, but i took them as pure platonic friendship and my conversation with them is plain as bore. but they does like my company cos my conversation with them is always clean. perhaps that is why they find refreshing from other guys who seek them for sexual advances.

I like to talk with the gals cos i found that they have relationship problems and i hope that i can help them on this. i enjoy doing this as i know ppl appreciate my listening ear and i do hope they could marry faithful husband and not those who flirt or sweet talk.

how will u feel or react if u are me? gals or guys input much appreciated.

i am looking forward for a marriage with my gal and to be faithful to her and keep to marriage vow is something a cherished dream for me since i was 15, i am now 33. tks.

2006-10-31 16:28:25 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous

2006-10-31 16:27:11 · 20 answers · asked by DOMINATUS 3

Heres the story.... my ex girlfriend broke up with me a year ago. after a few months i met a great girl and we went out for 3 months. then the ex girlfriend started to contact me and wanted me back. i broke up with the new one to see if the old one changed. we dated for 4 months and she screwed me over and cheated on me big time. a few months went by and the other great girl i had wanted to get back together. i have been dating her again and things are better than ever.

the other day i went on the shitty ex's myspace account and she had new pictures of her and her boyfriend (the one she cheated on me with) on there. now she is emailing me and text messaging me to see how i have been and stuff. do i reply back and tell her i have been great and i am dating the good girl again or do i ***** her out and tell her to leave me alone and that she cheated on me?

any help would be greatly appreciated

2006-10-31 16:27:08 · 7 answers · asked by pele3844 1

I have been dating the same guy for 6+ months. We are both 20 something virgins. We have a very good relationship, he seems to really like me, and I really like him. The other night we doing our usual make out at my apartment before we went to bed. I offered to give him oral sex; he said he did not want it. The next day I asked him about it and he said I surprised him by asking, and that he did not want to do that because it would be demeaning to me. Is it possible that he cares so much that that really is true. What should I do if anything? What would you do?
Please don’t respond with “He’s Gay” I know he is not or “He’s just not into you” because I my self thought that but when I really thought about it, it’s not true either, we have such a good base relationship; I know how he really feels about me.

2006-10-31 16:26:38 · 32 answers · asked by lissapony 2

I have been hanging out with this guy for a couple weeks and today he told me that he thinks I'm getting the wrong impression because he is not ready for a serious relationship. He told me that he really likes me and likes hanging out with me...but he still needs time to recover. Does he honestly feel this way and do you think he may still want a relationship over time? I just dunno what to do now. Please help!!

2006-10-31 16:24:21 · 7 answers · asked by Dewdlebug 1

GUYS! First of all do you like hugging??

If you initate a hug with a girl, does that mean you feel anything for her??

What about a side hug vs. a frontal hug.

Are there certain girls you would side hug and not hug frontally and vise versa?

A guy I know always hugs me really close and it's always a frontal hug and a good tight hug.....does this mean anything??

Are there different meanings or implications to a hug??

THANKS!

2006-10-31 16:23:45 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous

If I told you that is a fantastic costume you are wearing.

2006-10-31 16:23:11 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous

So the sexual tension is right there and very aggressive. But I believe he wants something more from me like a relationship stuff, but I don't see him as a BF material. This guy is very attractive, very hot and pretty nice, but he has no steady job or even a goal in life. I just don't wanna mess with that--at least not now. I know sex will complicate thing. All I want is a hook-up, but I feel that if he doesn't feel the same way, it will be very hard and awkward when we work together. What do you think?

2006-10-31 16:21:51 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous

We've been talking online for 3 months and I won't be able to meet him til January when he gets back from Iraq. He'll visit here for one month then he will go back. I know I am falling in love with him but I am afraid if we have sex within the month he is here he won't feel like he had to work hard to get with me, then he won't appreciate me. I am really attracted to him and I want him as a best friend and lover...whats ur recommendation guys?

2006-10-31 16:21:04 · 16 answers · asked by ? 2

my friend got involed with a guy name well. when they started they realtionship he told her he din't want no children,beside she acknowledge his wishes and respected them. asssuring him that she had a physical condition that prevented her from being pregnet. now here the problem they broke up 3 months later and life is never without a suprises, and interstingly enough, she reavealed she was pregnet. according to her she met with him to restate his desire not to be a father and discuss the possibilty of adoption, but talks quickly broke down. well i relly felt bad for the guy because he recived a second suprise knowing he already had the first! he found himself served with child support papers! he was order to pay$475.00 a month and in addition half of all realted health care expenses for the child. the judgement forced him to sell his car and move with a roomate to meet expenses. poor guy!:( should he be forced to pay childsupport? even when he told her he din't want kids??

2006-10-31 16:19:23 · 15 answers · asked by g2daezo 1

I would walk away from her in a heartbeat, but she has some deep down issues w/ trust and commitment. I know if I did she would only blame herself and add to her self-abasement. WTF would you do if you really did care for them?

2006-10-31 16:19:15 · 4 answers · asked by randyken 6

A few girls who like me won't leave me alone and keep bothering me and now other people are starting to notice. Now it is becoming a problem because the girls I do like are starting to think I like the girls who won't leave me alone. I have already made it clear I don't like them and I am being nice about so far. So what do I do?

2006-10-31 16:19:03 · 11 answers · asked by ??? 4

I was at Target and I almost ran over an attractive married woman. When I said excuse me, she just looked at me for 4 awkward seconds and gave me "that look". I just walked away but she followed me (very closely) with her kid! Should I have gone for it despite her being a married woman?

2006-10-31 16:18:24 · 11 answers · asked by JOhn M 1

2006-10-31 16:15:47 · 25 answers · asked by cravala 1

I believe guys and girls can be just friends..but I can't find any guys that just want to be my friend. Its too wierd for me..Even close guy friends that I thought were my friends seem to disappear. I don't mind if they have GFs so why should they care if I have a BF I really don't get it.

2006-10-31 16:14:04 · 7 answers · asked by drop_it_likeithot 1

I started losing feeling of my gf approximately six months ago (we have been together for 2 years) I did not break up with her because I didn't want to hurt her. Instead I changed my attitude towards her and etc. Now that she can't take it anymore and broke up with me. I really don't want to commit in this relationship; i'm just not ready. Am I really bad?

2006-10-31 16:12:39 · 18 answers · asked by itguru5354 1

This guy and I have been kind of playing eachother, saying that we didn't want anything serious, but we are really close friends too. Then we kissed, and I realized that I want our relationship to be either dating or nothing, I cannot just play around. It has been 2 weeks, and I have no answer from him. We text each other and he says he wants to talk in person. But we don't live in the same town. I just want to know how he feels. This is really frustrating me. What am I suppose to do? Are all men this incapable of telling a woman how he really feels?

2006-10-31 16:10:18 · 21 answers · asked by lizzy 2

Okay so here's deal... I lived with/dated this guy for 4+ months, and we broke up cause of drama between mutual friends... Well about a month later we started seeing eachother again, for about 2 months, then he just quit calling, and I haven't herd from him in like 6 months or so... I found his profile on myspace, and I want to e-mail him, but I am scared... I mean I am not even sure why we arn't together... I am in LOVE with him, but I never told him how I felt... I have dated sever other guys since him, but I always come back to him... Since I last spoke to him, I have moved 300 miles away... Am I just crazy, or could I be in LOVE with him..... I am so confused.. and I need help as to what I should do....

2006-10-31 16:09:28 · 6 answers · asked by ஐ♥Kaylee's mom♥ஐ 4

There is this really friendly girl at school that I want to ask out. While I've casually spoken to her several times around school, we have only hung out once. We went golfing together recently, but it was with one other guy (so that wasnt quite a date).

She seems really friendly and maybe is into me, and I want to try to "seal the deal" by taking her out. Is it premature to just go up to her and say "hey, wanna see a movie this friday?"

2006-10-31 16:07:44 · 11 answers · asked by sjlantry 1

My girl want to go away from, for some stupid reason. I tried to explained her, tried to please her. Nothing works. Now I am getting wild these days. I know 100% she is very happy with me, she is avoiding me only because her family will not accept me. How stupid of her..
I cannot let her accept the fate and feel sorry later. Am i doing justice to my love? Or should I let her go?

2006-10-31 16:07:04 · 11 answers · asked by Ramses-the son of light 3

My boyfriend of 2 years went to have dinner with friends, (guys and girls) and even though he did invite me (he knew i couldnt go anyway) i felt kind of wierd, cause he never goes out with GIRL friends.... should i be alright with this if its only once in a while or listen to my jealous feelings and tell him honestly i dont like it....
(people say guys are like little kids, they test you to see how far u allow them to go)

2006-10-31 16:05:00 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous

Ok I use to go out with this guy named Brandon and we broke up about three weeks ago. Well one of my bff's liked him and after he found out he started liking her. Now today (halloween) he asked her out and she said yes. Do you think that I should forget about him and move on or wait for him... someone please help... in ahead of time <33 ya and thx!

2006-10-31 16:04:45 · 18 answers · asked by soccerkickchic23 2

Is it just me or does it seem that guys are jerks!!!! What is the most romantic thing a guy has ever done for you??? haha i need to be reassured that some guys aren't all assholes

2006-10-31 16:04:03 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous

okay,

im in need of help.

is there a name or sickness of when you're afraid of white guys?

i think it has a name but im not sure.

please help........


im going to the uk very soon..

2006-10-31 16:03:48 · 12 answers · asked by Um, okay. 1

2006-10-31 16:03:18 · 3 answers · asked by solid as a rock 1

Okay, here's the deal. The Sadie Hawkins dance at my school is a couple of weeks away and I wanna ask this one guy to it. I asked him last year and he said yeah, we had a fun time i guess. But the thing is, is that i wanna ask him in a creative way, not just "hey will u go to sadies with me?" lol. yeah, but then again, im scared that he would say no....haha. have any suggestions? i need help.

2006-10-31 16:02:39 · 8 answers · asked by wow 1

I have only been with my boyfriend for like 3 months and already we end up spending our time together at home just sitting on the couch. I need some cool ideas of things we can do on week nights that are fun and get us out of the house, we cannot be stuck in the no where to go rut after three months help!!!

2006-10-31 16:00:16 · 9 answers · asked by preped_up_princess 2