Singles & Dating - 31 October 2006

I was at a Halloween party this week end and I got kind of tipsy. While in my drunken state I accidentally slept with my best friend. The worst part is I know that he has been wanting us to start dating very badly. (Our other friend went as far as to say that he loves me) but I have always viewed him as kind of a brother. I feel so bad! What do I do now? How can I let him down nicely?

2006-10-31 14:50:15 · 23 answers · asked by Sarah 1

ok me and mygirlfriend have been going for about two months and two weeks or something like that. and she has been a ***** to me lately and i am fed up with it but she says she still loves me and still insist we have sex. what should i do. i also have this other girl that is really nice to me like everyday but im afriad to just dump my gf and go out with her cause she will feel like a rebound girl. in other words i love both of them and i dont know what to do.

2006-10-31 14:47:40 · 6 answers · asked by Brad C 1

My bf and I are having an argument. I just had a baby, so I'm not allowed to have vaginal sex yet. But, my bf and I share a birthday, so I want to give him a bj for our birthday. I am not nearly as experienced as my bf, and although I was able to make an ex-bf *** when giving him a bj, and I managed to make my current bf *** twice doing it, I usually get tired first or he gets frustrated, so we just use it as foreplay and then go straight to regular sex. Well, I've been chewing gum to strengthen my jaw, watching the movies he's given me, and looking up pointers online. It started out well, and he said I was doing good, but then out of the blue, he pulls away and tells me to "Stop. Just forget about it." I take that to mean that I'm so bad at it that it isn't even worth the effort, so I don't want to try it ever again. He thinks I'm overreacting, and his "solution" is that we bring in a third person to "show" me how to do it or to use it to "start" him. Who should be upset here?

2006-10-31 14:47:36 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous

My question is for all you people that hate being single because you tend to have a lonely feeling.

Being single is not ALL that bad, I mean its drama free in the relationship department (okay maybe not fully but its less dramatic).
but, being single also brings me the lonely feeling which I hate!
I know alot of people will say "well go get a boyfriend...."
it's not that easy for me, I don't and can't talk to guys easily and the ones I can get along well with are already taken.

so my question is what helps you get the lonely feeling to get away? it can be anything. any suggestions would be great, thanks.
or any tips to talk to guys better/easier would be appreciated also.

2006-10-31 14:46:51 · 9 answers · asked by ♥Butterfly Kisses♥ 4

Im a junior in college and im in a long distance relationship with my boyfriend. We see each other about once a month and i really love him. Recently he has become more spiritual and decided that we should be celibate until we get married. I have every intention of being with him and i am also a chrisian so i understand why he chose to do this. He asked me if i would go along with it because it was a decision that involved the both of us. I felt like saying no because i love sex but knew that it was the right thing to do. Its gonna be so difficult. But i want to know what you all think and what you would do and anyone being celibate with their partner how is it working for you?

2006-10-31 14:46:51 · 7 answers · asked by lovesickprincess 1

youre kissable and cuddly

your lovable and sweet

you thrill me every minute

and seep me off my feet


your charming and disarming

you inpire and impress me

and thats why i love you.......

2006-10-31 14:43:22 · 10 answers · asked by dominic c 1

a girl d0ggy style an she had lots of zits on her butt would this put you off . or would you like grab a pen an have a game of dot to dot

2006-10-31 14:42:33 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous

I love my boyfriend but there is this guy who is extremely attractive but 8 years younger than I. My boyfriend is also younger but only by 3 years. I love my b/f very much but he seem to be torned between myself and his ex girlfriend. I have been holding on trying to make my relationship work because I know all relationships have their ups and downs. The guy who is persistent in asking me out is aware I have a b/f and I told him I don't cheat. I am however very attracted to this guy who is 29. I am concerned that he is only interested in a sexual relationship. He is Greek and never been with a black woman I am assuming. He also wants kids, I don't. My b/f is Puerto Rican and I have to say I love him. My heart say stay in it but I am worried if I snooze I might lose out on something worthwhile. What should I do?

2006-10-31 14:42:00 · 9 answers · asked by Sassy Shut Your Mouth 5

this never seen me talk with on chatt and says he loves me, i mean don`t understand he say their no such need to see u coz i can feel u in my heart, he says u r very polite, humble, self made girl.this is enough for him , should i say yes or no

2006-10-31 14:40:15 · 5 answers · asked by asshi 2

In my high school, evryone who has a game has to dress up to look 'professional.' What do you think?

2006-10-31 14:39:29 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous

SHE is NOT sitting close to me in class and we didnt have conversation before. how can I start? Is it OK to ask her if she has a bf or not in the first conversation or should i ask later?

2006-10-31 14:38:45 · 6 answers · asked by goody_goody 1

if a girl is happy in her new relationship . . would she still be calling her ex that she dumped for this new guy every couple weeks? . . .even though he hasnt answered or sent her something back in 4 months? and she still tries to contact him . . also . . can girls act completely happy on the outside and really be torn up on the inside? is there any way to tell if a girl is feeling like that? . . and if she wanted her ex back why would she still be with me and acting fine? why wouldnt she go back to him? maybe because she dumped him and doesnt know if he will take her back? they did go out for 2 1/2 years so i dunno . .. whats goin on?
and she hasnt told me that shes been calling him . . . and we have been dating since april and have been in an actual relationship for like 2 months . . . how long would she use me as a rebound if thats what i am? wouldnt it be over by now? it been about a month since she called him now since she was calling him. . . so maybe she will stop . . .
then just today she sent an email to him . . . it was this

hey! i just wanted to tell you that i hope you had a good birthday. i was going to call but i figured you wouldnt answer like usual or stop by and give you a card but you would have probably acted like you werent home lol. so i hope you had a good one. it would really mean a lot if you just sent something back lettin me know how ya were doin and stuff...i'de really appreciate it (name)! kayyy bye. . .

so if he hasnt responded to her since june why is she still trying to get ahold of him . . . when he hasnt responded since june?

Additional Details

34 minutes ago
and then she just sent this message to him today


"look i know that you are getting my messages...i really just dont understand why you cant even say hi or something?? can you honestly please just give me a reason, like if it still upsets you or something, i mean thats fine. i just figured you could atleast do that for me...so please?"

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21 minutes ago
i should also add that she has been calling/texting him since the begginning of july . . . he tried to get her back for 2 months after she broke up with him. . . they broke up for no reason . .. she just told him she wanted to date around .. . . and she texted him on what would have been there two year anniversary and reminded him of it.

2006-10-31 14:38:41 · 9 answers · asked by osb2904 1

I'm just taking a pole.

2006-10-31 14:37:51 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous

We have issues I invite him some where he says he will be there but he does not show up. Lately we have been working long hours. He recently changed is work schedule so that we could have more time together so I thought. He hangs with is friends when he has free time but, he says its my fault because I'm always tired. He never bought me any thing for any hoilday not even my birthday.

2006-10-31 14:36:47 · 7 answers · asked by Ms. Yado 3

we have went out befor but i broke up with him cause we never talked he told me that he was to siy.now we talk a lot more but i'm scared if i go back out with him we mite not talk. what should i do?

2006-10-31 14:36:30 · 5 answers · asked by blue_kelsey_dezi 1

My bf's mom is controlling. Hes 19 and a senior in high school. She controls him and wont let him get a license, makes him go to bed around 10 here lately, yells at him over sports and wont let him go to college to where he wants. I need help...he wants to go to college where he wants, how can I help him with this?

2006-10-31 14:36:20 · 6 answers · asked by Amanda C 1

2006-10-31 14:36:09 · 3 answers · asked by vo11 1

For the past 3 days my ex bf has been talking sh*t about me. And today in front of his crush and me he looks at me and his crush and says to his crush Steph means nothing to me. She never did. Even though him and I daited for 1month and 3weeks. And I hurt him.

2006-10-31 14:36:07 · 6 answers · asked by Steph1490 4

Why feed you words of intimacy and compassion?

When you yourself are beyond the meaning of words.

Many spend fortunes upon treasures made of this world.

Why do that when you yourself are beyond this world and any treasure that lays upon it.

Know, you yourself are a treasure, a gem that sparkles brightly and lights up the deep depths of the hearts of man.

The sound of your voice is peaceful like the soft whispers of the ocean at night.

Lord knows just being able to call you my own, is a Godly blessing within itself.

2006-10-31 14:35:13 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous

OK, there's a girl at school. Let's call her "Jane". She somehow found out who I like. Jane just happens to be the biggest blabber-mouth in the entire 7th grade! I need help! I am so affraid she will tell him. She doesn't reallly like me that much and I am so freaked!

2006-10-31 14:34:05 · 9 answers · asked by Meme 2

soo he cheated on me.. coz i didnthave sex wid him and he is wid this other gal. okay so @ first, he showed me her website with her pix and her EMAIL.. he wasnt cheating on me @ tat time but now i m thinking of writing tat gal a LONG EMAIL explanning everything.. so do u think it gonna work??? well..i dunt want him back..its just tat i cant stand cheaters :(

i loved tat guy a LOT..trust me A LOT

2006-10-31 14:33:41 · 19 answers · asked by meee 2

there is a guy i like and i dont know what to do about it. im always thinking about him and i have trouble concentrating in class. what should i do??????????

2006-10-31 14:33:33 · 7 answers · asked by azvball31 1

Aright well I was just at my school 6th, 7th, and 8th grade dance for halloween. I am in the 7th grade. OK well anyway there was this girl I really liked and asked her to dance. She was just like ok. Then we go to dance she puts her hands on my shoulder and we start talking and then she was just like why dont we wait. It was tthe end of the dance and she new it. I have never felt this humiliated in my life. How will I ever get a girl in my school, this is really important to me. Please Help me even If i cant get this girl i want some1 though.

2006-10-31 14:30:52 · 13 answers · asked by Chuck Cartalono 2

Been going out with her for a month and we had sex and everything is good. I asked her out but she said she wants to wait a little longer and she told me not to take this in a bad way. Anybody please explain what she might be thinking.

2006-10-31 14:30:46 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous

think about him all the time.

when i masturbate i think about him.



i drive past his house every hour

i call his house and hang up when he answers because he makes me so nervous

i take pictures of him when he's getting his mail.




i send him dead flowers.

is this love?

2006-10-31 14:28:26 · 32 answers · asked by Anonymous

2006-10-31 14:27:00 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous

hello im about to go out with a policeman from winchester england hes a sergeant named dale i think he is nice but im scared as got hurt before by a cop does anyone know him, and what should i look out for his 6 foot 6ish with blue eyes and works in burglary or robbery i just dont know if i can trust policemen what do you think

2006-10-31 14:26:49 · 8 answers · asked by fame 1

For the past 3 days my ex bf has been talking s*it about me and blamming me for things I didn't do and he has been making fun of me and asking my friends if they like me. Why would he do all this? He is in my Math class and we have mutual friends.

2006-10-31 14:25:10 · 11 answers · asked by Steph1490 4

ok im almost sure this guy i like also likes me,.. but im not exactly the most confident person. also i work with him so i mean there is some boarder lines i shouldnt cross how do i ask him out with confidence, and without getting in trouble with my boss. also without looking to eager?

2006-10-31 14:24:42 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous

ive been datin him for 2 months. but we have been talkin and not datin anyone else for 7 mo before we even went out.do i tell them i love him?

2006-10-31 14:22:57 · 12 answers · asked by erin 2