For the past 3 days my ex bf has been talking s*it about me and blamming me for things I didn't do and he has been making fun of me and asking my friends if they like me. Why would he do all this? He is in my Math class and we have mutual friends.
2006-10-31 14:25:10 · 11 answers · asked by Steph1490 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
He definately wants your attention even if its in a negative way. He seems hurt about the break up and wants to reason it by finding ways to blame you for it and make you look like the bad one. Definately talk to him when you have a moment and give him clear examples as to how he is being nasty towards you. Explain if anything his behavior only reflects badly on him. Who'd want to date him now that he has has dissed an ex?
Don't worry stay strong, bite back the next time he says something. keep it short and conscise and that should help discourage him.
2006-10-31 14:33:06 · answer #1 · answered by Qrious 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
He is immature and has nothing better to do. Tell him what I said.
Don't let him bother you, ignore him babe, and show him who has the real class! He is just showing how ignorant he is and that is not normal. For you, I would focus on my work and just relax, ur single babe, cute, young, and obvisouly alot more mature than he is. So when he says all these things, tell him to grow up, be a man, and get over the fact that you don't like him anymore and you are going to find a better guy than him. Yeah you guys have mutal friends, but I'm sure they see who is the real friend. Be yourself and just watch what you say about him, I wouldnt even bring him up, talk to him, just pretend he isnt there! hope this helped! God bless!!!
2006-10-31 22:30:30 · answer #2 · answered by old 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Your ex is a "boy" and he's acting like a "boy".
You can't change who he is or what he's doing so just try to ignore him. Your real friends will stand by you and the others can drop off the earth.
Everything in life is a lesson....this is a hard one.
2006-10-31 22:30:25 · answer #3 · answered by daljack -a girl 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
He sounds very immature and this is his way of lashing out; this sounds really junior high with him asking friends if they like you etc. I assume the way you found this out is your friends are repeating what he told them (because they like you), tell them you are really sorry they got caught in the middle like this and you don't want to talk badly about your ex, its just too much negative.
2006-10-31 22:35:40 · answer #4 · answered by OPTIMIST 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Chances are, he's just having his own problems. Just talk to him about it, cause I had the same problem like last week, and i asked him about it and he just appologized and told me why. Most likely it's just some problems of his own, and he's being hostile towards you, and trying to get your friends against you.
2006-10-31 22:31:55 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
I think you should confront him. Ask him what is his problem with you? At the most, he may be having problems at home and is taking out his anger on you at school. Or there may be other reasons behind it.
2006-10-31 22:27:47 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
He's angry and hurt. Unfortunately, this is a natural occurrence for many breakups and divorces.
2006-10-31 22:28:23 · answer #7 · answered by tiafromtijuana 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
want you to break out with him, this is what you wrote in your question.
Just do wantever you want to act. Told him off.
2006-10-31 22:26:24 · answer #8 · answered by Vangelis 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
he doesn't like you-so he is trying to convince your common friends with him on not to like you as well...
2006-10-31 22:28:49 · answer #9 · answered by chandni 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Read this book: "he's just not into you"
2006-10-31 22:29:42 · answer #10 · answered by Harlequin 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋