Aright well I was just at my school 6th, 7th, and 8th grade dance for halloween. I am in the 7th grade. OK well anyway there was this girl I really liked and asked her to dance. She was just like ok. Then we go to dance she puts her hands on my shoulder and we start talking and then she was just like why dont we wait. It was tthe end of the dance and she new it. I have never felt this humiliated in my life. How will I ever get a girl in my school, this is really important to me. Please Help me even If i cant get this girl i want some1 though.
2006-10-31 14:30:52 · 13 answers · asked by Chuck Cartalono 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Slow down dude. You are only in 7th grade. You'll have plenty of time for all of that later. Have fun man. Life will be so full of chicks you won't believe it. The thing about chicks your age is they are so stupid...well they don't get any better. They are always making stupid decisions and wasting time on losers. What you have to do is wait until the right one comes along and you'll be fine. Work on being just really good friends with them. Then after their prom date makes them feel horrible, they'll come running to you to cry on your shoulder, well guess what...That's when you will have a major advantage. They will assume you are truly worried about their feelings and you can bend them to your will. They'll fall for it and do anything you want.
Its very rare that you will find a girl that truly deserves your respect. When you do, you'll be thankful, but until then have fun and don't sweat the small stuff, and believe me some little wench being totally stupid at a dance in 7th grade won't compare to what she'll get from the stupid loser she gets hooked up with in high school. Then when she goes on to college, that stupid little trick she pulled on you won't work on the entire football team. She'll be humiliated and learn to live with it because she won't have any other choice. Its called Karma. Stupid choices brings about just desserts.
Don't take my word for it. Look at every prom queen you can find on www.mydeathspace.com. Tell me they were all nice to dudes in junior high school.
2006-10-31 14:33:00 · answer #1 · answered by letum_ante_dedecus 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
WOAH there buddy. You're in 7th grade. SEVENTH GRADE! I'd never ever danced with a boy until 9th grade.
I would just wait. You never know when something will happen and your life will change. Besides, when you get to high school, for the most part you might not even want a girlfriend
2006-10-31 14:54:53 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Just be you. You know what? That girl probably has feelings for you. She is just a little too embarassed to show it. You don't NEED to get a girlfriend, but it is enjoyable. If you like a girl, give her some signs that you like her, and if she doesn't get it, ask her out! If you REALLY REALLY REALLY like a girl and she doesnt have the same feelings for you, dont sweat. Its fine. Wait a few months, and she will probably end up liking you after awhile. Hope this helps.
2006-10-31 14:35:56 · answer #3 · answered by get_er_done 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Well, cheer up. One important thing here, you are in your young years. Plenty enough time to find Miss Right. I wouldn't want to rush it. If you push to have just any girl, the right one might pass you by. Enjoy being single while your young. Going steady you miss out on so much in life.
You have plenty enough time to have a steady girl when you get older.
I am sorry she humiliated you. That was terrible. There is someone out there that has their eye on you, you just haven't noticed it yet.;)
Don't give up and Keep on smiling.
2006-10-31 14:37:56 · answer #4 · answered by Dawn 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Gregdude - Relax....I went through the same thing when I was in 7th grade. As us guys get older, the more interested the ladies get in finding someone like you. Keep in mind that love is never on time. Also learn this four letter word when things dont turn out right..........NEXT!!!
2006-10-31 14:36:59 · answer #5 · answered by rokdude5 4 · 1⤊ 1⤋
what is the rush little man, why don't you get together with your friends a act like immature little 7th graders and make memories instead of putting yourself in adult-like stress situations
you only have one opportunity to be young don't blow it having to chase around little girls, that is what 11th and 12th grades are for, more especially college, best meat market ever, so study up and enjoy today, tomorrow will be there before you know it...
2006-10-31 14:38:50 · answer #6 · answered by mohvictor 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
lol ok. Take this one step at a time, i was there once so i know how you feel. There will be so many more girls out there, you just have to find them. Also one humiliating moment is just a moment, in a week it will all blow over. So don't worry and enjoy your life.Best of Luck!!
2006-10-31 14:37:44 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
wow, she was really mean to you. but hey, you're only in 7th grade, don't worry. just get past junior high first, then you can start to worry about all the dating stuff-oh, and if i was you, i wouldn't even talk to that one girl again-she snobbed you and did it really rudely, don't waste your time on people like that. and don't be embarassed, she should be the one embarassed, not you. plus, chances are no one seen what happened, and even if they did, they'll forget by tomorrow anyway-trust me, it'll be okay-
2006-10-31 14:39:38 · answer #8 · answered by *MaE* 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Stop...think and breathe, and breathe deeply.
Now, this was about her...not about you. Sometimes girls have things that happen that we cannot explain to a guy.
We do things and change our minds...and sorry, it happens for the rest of your life....or should I say rest of our life.
So smile at her and relax, it's not about you. Smile at other people too....and practice smiling every time you pass a mirror.
2006-10-31 14:38:17 · answer #9 · answered by May I help You? 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
middle school is such a diffucult time everyone is stuck between being a child and an adult my advice is to not let it get you down. very few realtionships go anywhere in middle school anyways. enjoy spending time with your friends :)
2006-10-31 14:39:02 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋