think about him all the time.
when i masturbate i think about him.
i drive past his house every hour
i call his house and hang up when he answers because he makes me so nervous
i take pictures of him when he's getting his mail.
i send him dead flowers.
is this love?
2006-10-31 14:28:26 · 32 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I'M 18
AND HE'S 29
AND I'M OKAY WITH IT:)
2006-10-31 14:30:48 · update #1
sounds like obsession and infatuation, NOT love. If it were love, you wouldn't need to ask if these things mean you are in love. Love is something that is a two way street and these things sound kind of like stalker material. If i were you, i'd back off because what you are doing is completely illegal!
2006-10-31 14:31:45 · answer #1 · answered by Earthy Angel 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I think to be honest you have become obsessed and you are not in love. Which I don't think you should be ashamed of though because everyone has probably done similar things and got carried away. I think you need to calm down and stop thinking about that person and move on.
Either that or at least get to know that person and becomes friends with him that is the only way you will know how you feel about that person. But at the moment it seems you are just living out a fantasy and that is defiantly not love. Although it is easy to get the two mixed up. I hope that helps.
2006-10-31 18:15:49 · answer #2 · answered by ? 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
You are certainly confused. Why dead flowers? To keep him from knowing you are interested in him, and yet have contact. Maybe you are stalking him which is the incorrect way to interact with a male you are interested in. You may be in love, but you are not in a position to have a meaning ful relationship with all your games and avoidance behavior.
2006-10-31 14:31:59 · answer #3 · answered by tiafromtijuana 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Em no hun its called lust and from what youve said its not healthy. I think you should take a look at your actions and youll see that they are not right. Trust me no guy will want you if you behave like that, not even if you looked like Jessica Simpson.
You need to stop torturing yourself and end this crazy madness. I reckon he is scared shitless of you! If some guy was behavin like you were to you,would you not be?
2006-10-31 15:58:10 · answer #4 · answered by mersie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
One word: STALKER.
That's just creepy.
And the fact that you're older than me makes it worse. When I first started reading I thought you were like 13 or something.
2006-10-31 14:57:50 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well you are closer to Love than most people who think they are on love are. But it verging more on Lust than Love which is pretty normal.
Hint: Fellows don't really like flowers even if they are dead.
2006-11-01 04:59:32 · answer #6 · answered by John Q 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
no your not in love, your just a kid with an obsession. Your probably worrying him, your worrying me if you send dead flowers !!! Get yourself a job or maybe just a friend.
2006-10-31 18:00:06 · answer #7 · answered by Jovi Freak 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Grow up
2006-10-31 15:07:24 · answer #8 · answered by Shredder 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you have all that and more your in love, also try to act more girl friend type instead of stalker type. Best of Luck!!
2006-10-31 14:32:07 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
No, that is not love. When you send someone dead flowers, that is a psychotic obsession. Please seek pyschiatric help immediately.
(The age difference thing is not an issue.)
2006-10-31 14:36:47 · answer #10 · answered by Rex 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋