My bf's mom is controlling. Hes 19 and a senior in high school. She controls him and wont let him get a license, makes him go to bed around 10 here lately, yells at him over sports and wont let him go to college to where he wants. I need help...he wants to go to college where he wants, how can I help him with this?
2006-10-31 14:36:20 · 6 answers · asked by Amanda C 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
He wants to move out badly, but since she controls his bank account and everything, how can he successfully do it and enroll at the college he wants to attend?
2006-10-31 14:40:02 · update #1
ohh and yeah...his mom is rude towards me and claims that because he doesnt like ND, he is ruining the family although he hasn't talked bad about them or anything. She wont let him cook, clean or nothing, so he's completely clueless...he asks her to teach him these things, but she yells at him about it.
2006-10-31 14:41:20 · update #2
sounds like his mom has some serius attachement issues. she needs to cut the cord and let him be a big boy
2006-10-31 14:38:13 · answer #1 · answered by ang. 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There is nothing you can do besides be supportive of him and help him to stand up for himself. No one should be forced to go to a school they do not want to go to, if he lets himself be forced to go there he'll only be unhappy and it will ruin his college experience. He's 19 so he isn't obligated to listen to his mom, if he wants to get his license he should get it, and he should choose his school. He should respect his mother but he needs to talk to her openly and honestly about how he feels and hopefully she will listen.
2006-10-31 22:40:38 · answer #2 · answered by D P 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
God Bless his Mom. Just wait and see how disciplined and well mannered this kid grows up to be. Other moms should take lessons from this mom.
The only way you can help is to support his mom.
2006-10-31 22:39:26 · answer #3 · answered by redstorm 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He needs to tell his mom he's over 13 now and needs to grow up.
2006-10-31 22:40:49 · answer #4 · answered by keithr2003 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He is of age now,, he needs to choose between money or freedom,,
2006-10-31 22:45:35 · answer #5 · answered by kitkatish1962 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
MOVE OUT!!!!!
2006-10-31 22:38:30 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋