my ex bf is spreading rumours that he and i had sex, but we reli didn't. what does that me? and he tells me to never talk to him again. i am confused what should i do, should i tell him to stop talking crap about me or just let it go? help me please
2006-10-31 15:45:58 · 11 answers · asked by Nina 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
If he's going to act like a *****, then you should too. Tell people who ask you about it that the reason you didn't have sex with him is because he was so tiny that you didn't even want him inside you.
Hey....I know that that may be catty....but if he's going to be a jerk, then you can too!!!! Don't even tell him to stop talking $hit about you...this will stop him dead in his tracks.
2006-10-31 15:49:59 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Girl feel good about yourself. That man is so hurt by the fact that you 2 broke up, he'll do anything to come out on top. He's telling people that you 2 had sex right? Flip the script on him, and make it bad on him. He's saying you had sex, you be like yeah we had sex and it was a waste of my time. See how much talking he'll do then.
2006-10-31 23:50:19 · answer #2 · answered by Pinky's Auntie 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Boys suck, they do stuff like that. you could spread rumors about him. But I'd just try and emabrras him somehow, or get the fact straight that it didn't happen. I experienced the same thing when I was in 10th grade. it hurt my feelings, and sex between us never happened! But I didn't do anything about it. I just hurt over it, and had no friends... I'm glad I'm not in High school anymore!
2006-10-31 23:49:21 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
That's an ****** thing for him to do. I'd tell him to grow up and get a life, one without me in it- so he should stop with the BS rumors. Say it to get it out of your system,after you make that clear, let him do whatever he wants because you don't need him anyway.
2006-10-31 23:49:21 · answer #4 · answered by Miss*Curious 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Let it go...you telling him to stop won't have any effect anyway (he'll stop when he's ready) so be the bigger person and ignore it...if someone inquires about the rumors, let them know he's lying and you guess he's got low self esteem after the break up...otherwise, just move on...it'll all pass soon enough...
2006-10-31 23:50:58 · answer #5 · answered by . 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think he's imagining too much...guys like him don't deserve your time.Just let him go..If he don't want you anymore, then why insist?I'm sure there are lots of guys in this world that are better than him.
2006-10-31 23:52:46 · answer #6 · answered by honeymay 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He's being vindictive...you need to tell him via letter/email/phone that if he keeps lying, you'll either:
1) reveal something bad about him
2) make up a lie about him
3) take further action against him for slander.
2006-10-31 23:48:56 · answer #7 · answered by FavoredbyU 5 · 1⤊ 2⤋
He's made it plain.....leave him alone.
Why continue to deal with a jerk.....he's clearly not worth your time.
2006-10-31 23:49:18 · answer #8 · answered by daljack -a girl 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
let it go. otherwise, you'll just provoke him. you should be the more mature one and just ignore it. he sounds like a real jerk.
2006-10-31 23:48:29 · answer #9 · answered by michielev 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
YES , HE MEAN FOR DOING THIS, AND YOU NEED TO CONFRONT HIM ABOUT TELLING LIES ABOUT YOU. DONT
LET HIM GET AWAY WITH THAT, OTHER WISE HE WILL'
CONTINUE TO DO THIS TO YOU.
2006-10-31 23:49:31 · answer #10 · answered by luckystar 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋