im 15. i have a girlfriend who is like a godess and she is so hot and stuff and i really like her and everythind, but recently ive come to find she's mean to basically everyone, she never has anything intelligent to say, and she cares way too much about herself and how she looks and dresses and stuff. basically, she is kinda slutty which is true even though it sounds incredibly mean.
theres a girl who is the total opposite that i kinda actually like...or love. she's a theatre girl in some of classes. she's really smart, not hot, but little girl cute, and she totally speaks her mind and happens to be totally hilarious. she always makes me laugh. i dont know waht to do...i think i liker her...but i cant cause i have a girlfriend
im so freaking confused somebody help. take a chance in being friends with this new girl? dump my girlfriend? dont tell her?
my girlfriends hot but this new girl is everything else i could dream of and shes perfect.
2006-10-31 15:25:56 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
looks arent everything. if you think you'd get along better with the theater girl, then u should be with her instead.
2006-10-31 15:29:10 · answer #1 · answered by nina 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well there you go silly, go for the cute girl who has some intelligence, your g/f now seems to be way into herselfand she will never ever change and will always be self centered. I hope that this self centered girl can get put into her place, she deserves it, give the other girl a chance you may be happier but please make it a point to let everyone around you know the reason why you are breaking up with self-centered girl get her back for being mean to everyone else.
2006-10-31 15:33:17 · answer #2 · answered by melissa052572 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Having a hot mate is awesome, but not if they're dumb.
You might as well date a rock that has lipstick.
You're only 15, you have a long ways to go before you meet "the one."
Dump your girlfriend and start talking to the other girl.
If the other girl doesn't like you the same way, don't be devastated.
You'll find another girl soon.
2006-10-31 15:30:26 · answer #3 · answered by Jean 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dump your gf and after a few months (take some time to appropriately "recover from the breakup") ask the cutie out. You'll be much happier with her in the long run, but be prepared...she may not feel the same way about you. Either way, dump the self-centered ego-maniac - she'll just drag you and your reputation down with her.
2006-10-31 15:30:10 · answer #4 · answered by ricktheirish1967 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you know the answer to this. You are so young and you only have one life to live so if your girlfriend is just being plain snoby to be mean then I say dump her. It sounds to me like you are more into the new girl and she sounds like a sweet person so give her a shot.
2006-10-31 15:34:01 · answer #5 · answered by Just_Curious 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you need to go for the dream girl. she may like you. and looks aren't everything who wants a girlfriend or boyfriend who is just hot and nothing else. she may look good now but in 30 years when the look is gone how will you guys stay together? see what i mean
2006-10-31 15:29:10 · answer #6 · answered by allie 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ok Ryan here's what I would do. Let your girlfriend down easy, and pursue the other girl. Because personality is far more important than good looks and a terrible attitude. Maybe your girlfriend will work on her personality once she has lost you.
2006-10-31 15:33:08 · answer #7 · answered by Crazy 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
We sometimes think the grass is greener on the other side but it is somethimes filled with the same weeds. Break up if you dont care about your current girl but not because you want another chick. what if she is not worth it ?then you will regret it. you will hurt your girl and eventually yourself.
2006-10-31 15:36:30 · answer #8 · answered by ShellyBelly 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your "dream female" replaced into in basic terms that. It replaced right into a dream which you created on your individual concepts and wishful questioning. That female replaced into utilising you, till she broke your heart. Forgive her and forget her as quickly as feasible. you will locate somebody who incredibly merits you, and somebody you are able to believe and admire, and he or she would have the ability to admire you, once you initiate respecting your self. undergo in concepts, there is likewise noted as no longer common love. study out of your previous errors, do in basic terms no longer repeat them returned. you should admire your self, and your individual dignity.
2016-10-21 01:50:35 · answer #9 · answered by saggio 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋