My boyfriend says he loves me, and takes GREAT care of me emotionally, but he does look at other women and has cheated 2x during our relationship...but I LOVE LOVE him to death.
On the other hand, I just met this guy, who is OK, nothing is going on, but he is a true sweetheart, not the kind to cheat, and keeps telling me that he cares A LOT for me and that he wants to build a future, and all the other things I never heard from my boyfriend...the only drawback is that I just met him AND he is not as successfull as the BF.
What would you do, ladies?
2006-10-31 15:47:08 · 11 answers · asked by FavoredbyU 5 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
First off Money does not matter near as much as true Love. True Love can be the hardest and most impossible thing too find. Next, your boyfriend has cheated on you, Do you honestly think that anyone who truly loved you could cheat on you ? I would say go with the new guy, but you should break up with your current BF first. All relationships need too have a solid foundation, built on a unmovable rock. If you do not break up first then the new relationship is not going too have a honorable foundation too stand on. Even though your current bf treats you good, buys you things, or whatever, if he is cheating or has cheated then you certainly do not need nor deserve that. But do not allow yourself too stoop too the level he did and allow something too happen while your in a realationship, that will only make matters worse for everyone involved. Good Luck
2006-10-31 16:04:22 · answer #1 · answered by The Red Dragon 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I will say this first and foremost and you may not like it, but your boyfriend DOES NOT care for you and your feelings if he has cheated on you TWICE in your relationship.
So what if the new guy isnt as "succesful" as your current boyfriend. Is he driven? Does he have a plan?
What would I do? I wouldn't be with a man who cheated on me, so guy number to would be looking pretty good right now.
2006-10-31 15:52:07 · answer #2 · answered by moderncutthroat 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i am not a lady, but if your current bf cheated even once, drop his *** on the street right now. period. i cant STAND assholes like that, he loves you for the flesh, i dont know your name, lets say its sarah, if you leave him, he will be losing a girl, if you leave the new guy, he will be losing sarah, as you will mean something in particular ......
my girlfriend lives 588 miles away, and has lived that far for 2 years, and we have been together that whole time, and i have not once even thought about cheating, the clerk at mcdonalds was cute to me and it made me feel bad, i cannot STAND pigs, men who treat women as nothing more than sex really make me angry, and if you are considering keeping your current bf after he cheated on you then i have a feeling why us nice guys who like holding open doors and holding out chairs dont get a chance in a lasting relationship
sorry for anything offencive, i do not mean it in any way, shape, or form against you ....... yes against yur bf however and if he has a problem with it ........... gah nvm, im ranting too much
i sincerely apologize for my attitude, but go with the new guy, i garuntee you will not regret it, i have an inside feel for the gentleman, and i also have insight into the pigs and jerks who cheat for i have known quite a few in locker rooms and/or warehouse work and parties ....... i hear things that make me sick
2006-10-31 15:57:01 · answer #3 · answered by scaman 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would dump the boyfriend. Stay single and see the other guy and see what he's about. I rather be with a guy who doesn't cheat. So what if he's successful,he will give you a disease if you continue to stay with him. He may have cheated more ran twice. Good luck
2006-10-31 15:56:43 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Isn't this a prime case of the good guy gets nothing? you like the bad guys for the excitement i guess and you women really don't mind that we guys cheat on you as long as you get the excitement, right? why are you still with this guy if he has cheated twice at least and you know he is going to cheat again, and again, and again, and again, and again......
2006-10-31 15:53:14 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Main thing in the life is a trust if you can trust you Boy Friend then maintain that relationship else better to say Good Bye.
2006-10-31 15:53:13 · answer #6 · answered by Anu 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would dump my bf and go with the nicer one.Cheating is cheating no matter how many times he did it, hes probably going to cheat on you again.Because by you going back with him the 1st time he cheated you made it seem like it was ok thats why he cheated on you again and will do AGAIN.
2006-10-31 15:51:19 · answer #7 · answered by abelssexywifey 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
this guy may not be as financially successful, but he really sounds like he may be more successful in the relationship department, and in the long run, that's a lot more important. your boyfriend has cheated twice! you owe it to yourself not to put up with that. you deserve better, and it sounds like this guy you just met may be exactly that, better!
2006-10-31 15:58:11 · answer #8 · answered by atiana 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm probably more like the 2nd guy.
So break up and go for the nice caring gentleman. :)
But be careful, for what you may see now may not be his real self.
Ask your close trusted friends to judge both of them.
2006-10-31 16:52:00 · answer #9 · answered by aLTered_eGo 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
break up with the other guy and love the other guy that loves you and cares about never break up with any one ok god
2006-10-31 15:51:13 · answer #10 · answered by wierdow 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋