Ok so long story short my ex is across state finishing up school.She means the world to me I know she loves me but we are not together right now How do i know if she is the one and if we can make it work?She was home this summer and we had a great time spending nights with each other bu now she is gone back to school.We are growing distant and i want to do something b4 its to late.I really believe she is the 1 but im so analitacal i over analyze everything so i dont know if im making to much outta nothing what should i do?
2006-10-31 15:38:55 · 11 answers · asked by ryanrivers911 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
First thing is, you need to talk to her. But I have always believe their ex's for a reason.
2006-10-31 15:42:33 · answer #1 · answered by kira 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't really know what you mean by: "We are growing distant." Is this something that you "feel" or have observed in a way to give it validity? Your "lead in" says a lot. You already consider her your ex. I don't know enough to speculate if you're making "much outta nothing." In general, long distant relationships are difficult to maintain, but not always. Perhaps you could tell her that you feel this, & see how she responds. It's impossible to know how another person feels unless we communicate how WE feel, & give them a chance to express their own feelings. You said you know she loves you. If so, you should be able to be open with her.
2006-10-31 16:08:47 · answer #2 · answered by Valac Gypsy 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
don't stress about it. If you were meant to be together then it will happen down the line. Probably not soon though so be patient but meanwhile date around don't sit around obsessing. Chances are she'll be with a few guys at school too, you'd be gullible if you believed she's just waiting for you. There are lots of available men at school so get used to that idea and move on for now.
2006-10-31 15:45:08 · answer #3 · answered by lea 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Relax! Stay in touch, see her when you can, send her cards or small gifts when appropriate. If it's the real thing, distance won't matter and you'll find a way to be together when school is done.
2006-10-31 15:41:49 · answer #4 · answered by ricktheirish1967 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think that if u like her you should tell her how u feel, u can make it work out. i mean my bf and i have going out for a long time and he lives in a different city, but i still make it work, and it is the best thing that has ever happened to me
2006-10-31 15:43:22 · answer #5 · answered by Nina 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'll really make it short; she your ex for one of two reasons. Either she's an idiot or you are. The votes are still being counted.
2006-10-31 15:43:05 · answer #6 · answered by older, not wiser 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Quit thinking and just go with your heart. If you think she is the one tell her then you can go to the next step of your relationship.
2006-10-31 15:43:49 · answer #7 · answered by Y 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
YOU SHOULD JUST TELL HER HOW YOU FEEL AND THAT
YOU WANT TO TRY TO WORK IT OUT, BUT DONT GET
YOUR HOPE HIGH IF THIS DOES NOT WORK OUT/BECAUSE
IF IT DID NOT WORK OUT THE FIRST TIME. THEN IT MAY
NOT WORK THIS TIME. YOU KNOW THAT WHY THEY ARE
EX FOR A REASON.
2006-10-31 15:43:30 · answer #8 · answered by luckystar 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Only you know. Do some soul searching, and share with your chica.
2006-10-31 15:41:49 · answer #9 · answered by DBL L 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Stop having sex with her sister.
2006-10-31 15:43:11 · answer #10 · answered by Sean W 1 · 1⤊ 1⤋