Singles & Dating - 25 September 2006

He feels the need to masterbate after we have sex.He looks at porn all the time.I'm not a ugly chick,I'm very hot not to toot my own horn here,but I've asked him if I'm not enough for him that he needs to do these things.He say's yes I'm more than enough.I give it up to him when ever he wants.But I just don't understand.Help please.

2006-09-25 06:18:39 · 21 answers · asked by Mattshottie 2

I have been talking to this guy who I have never seen before yet (and the way he is acting, never will either), for almost a year now and we used to get along great but only cause he likes to spend all his time on the phone with me. The problem with me though is that I have a five year old daughter that I have to tend to from time to time and he feels like that takes away from his time with me. I told him that it would be better if he would just come down here so that we can all see each other and get to know each other better. Later on in the phone relationship, he changed to this guy that I don't have time for, but i can't seem to quit talking to him though when he calls(finally). I am 4 years older than he is and he is acting as if I'm supposed to do everything that he says, like we are married or something, i wanna know how is it that he can feel this way when we have not even seen each other yet and he doesn't want to even try. What should I do about this?

2006-09-25 06:17:09 · 20 answers · asked by ? 2

Is it normal for a man to want a woman to....

send emails without returning them?
be available everytime he calls and then get mad if she's out?
sit at home while he goes out?
not question his motives or intentions?
not get mad if he spends time with an ex?

Are most men selfish, or are some just too controlling?

2006-09-25 06:17:05 · 15 answers · asked by torn 3

i used to do the whole internet dating thing.. but i couldn't be botherd anymore because people were totally different behind the computer than infront of your face. i am just on face to face meeting nowdays the internet is not how i want to people anymore (well i don't mind meeting friends on here.. but nothing more)..

but hmm what do you think?? do you think internet dating is a good idea and is praticle? and do you think you can fall in love over it? (the internet).. let me know what you think :)

2006-09-25 06:13:43 · 36 answers · asked by uniqu3ang3l 2

he's not yet married...

2006-09-25 06:11:36 · 64 answers · asked by i crave yours 5

2006-09-25 06:11:17 · 11 answers · asked by lalalala 2

How do you talk to a guy at work who you find very very beautiful? I see this guy (usually only on the elevator) and I clam up. He makes me soooo shy. Ha... I think he's too handsome for me to be comfortable. WTF!?

2006-09-25 06:10:52 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous

This may not be the rite place to post this but im going to anyway. I watch a and e alot. I dont understand the world we live in. I dont undrstand way people who rape, kill, or abuse children (or adults) get less time for a person caught using drugs or selling drugs. (dont get me wrong i think there should be a price to pay for it) but rape, killing, and abusing is far worse that drugs. People that use drugs or sell drugs can be helped but people that kill or rape children can not. Why do they get less of a sentence or worse put back on the streets to do it again?

2006-09-25 06:09:17 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous

should i give my fella an ultimatum?
i have a 4 week old baby and on saturday night my fiancee went out to celebrate his birthday with his mates, he didn't come home until 2.30pm on sunday, he didnt ring or ext to let me know he wasn't coming in and I laid awake worrying all night, he text me at 7am to say he was crashing at his mates, when he returned home his excuse was that his mate had been arrested for drink driving so he couldnt leave his house as he wouldnt have been able to get in, also he had used drugs which is something we always argue about, so he hadnt wanted to come in and upset me. I feel really upset as i'm not sure i trust him...was he with someone else etc? his story doesnt seem to all add up, i feel i shouldnt be sat in the house looking after his baby while he's staying out all night. can anyone tell me if i'm being unfair, or whether i'm just being a doormat....and either way what should I do?! sorry to rattle on but i'm so confuzzled. thankies so much. xXx

2006-09-25 06:07:53 · 41 answers · asked by fowlersofyork 2

She said she is confused and she needs time to think about what is going on. She has a difficult time letting her ex boyfriend go and I found out that he was at her house recently. Is she letting me go or is she lettin him go...........Should I move on?

2006-09-25 06:07:39 · 20 answers · asked by Metzican 2

she was curious about being with a girl but she was complaning cause she said her boyfriend has a problem with my age he think i'm too young and that now we cant meet but like 3 weeks later he emailed me to see if i still want to meet her but he set up plan for her to see if she will be interested in me without her knowing that i was the girl online but me and the girl never met yet but me and him has she dont know about us he was it to be a sursprise but if the guy want to meet up with you to talk with out her for the secong time what do you think especially if he lictk me.. you no what i mean i think he is a nice guy in i'm liking him kind of but it feels kind of good cause she dont no and he dont want her to no but he told me whem he want us to meet together dont let her no we already no each other he ask can he see my body i was thinking something else when he did that what you think i'm confused here..help me

2006-09-25 06:07:15 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous

I am 22 and in college in Central Texas. Where can I find girls to date and how do I ask them out and tell if they are interested?

2006-09-25 06:07:03 · 8 answers · asked by TexasCowboy 2

their pants do you find it impossible not to stare and also an instant erection? also, what do you find more difficult to not stare at this situation with a girl bending over and her thong sticking out the back or a thin girl with big boobs and a tight shirt on?

2006-09-25 06:05:51 · 18 answers · asked by mark s 1

Why men trip if you try to talk to them about you sex relationship?
When you enter in to a relatioship the first thing that people alway agree on is to keep the communcation open. Agree!!!!
But as soon as you tell a man that the sex is getting boring they go crazy. They say things like you must be looking at someone else or having sex with someone else. How are you suppose to spice up a relationship if only one person is open minded. Help is need.
I really care for the person but the sex sucks! What can I do?

2006-09-25 06:05:24 · 5 answers · asked by funoburgmom 3

2006-09-25 06:03:14 · 21 answers · asked by blueyedimpledguy 3

...nose up their p*ssy?

2006-09-25 06:03:02 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous

VIRGO FEMALES PLEASE ADVISE. I'm 26, male. I met her 15 days ago. She's 28, married but separated for 4 months. In the first few days, I thought it's just a fling though I get jealous when she chats with other guys online and flirts with guys over the phone. Cuz I was frustrated, I thought if I have sex with sum1 else I wouldn't get hurt if she slept with sum1 while being with me. I had sex with a friend. But from that day on, my feelings for the girl I like only increased. I'm falling for her. She says she's addicted to me. We make love atleast 3 times a day weekdays& atleast 4 times in weekends. She asked me to move in with her. I said we should both move out from our flats and move in to a studio flat after 3 months. We are very very intimate now. We can virtually talk abt everything, including ppl we've been with in our past. Now she stopped using the ph and internet as much cuz she says she doesn't need to any longer as she's got me. Q: Should I tell her I slept with my friend???

2006-09-25 06:02:18 · 23 answers · asked by R. 1

But what if I am struggling to find Miss Right. Should I let my standards drop or not!

2006-09-25 06:01:01 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous

But what if I am struggling to find Miss Right. Should I let my standards drop or not!

2006-09-25 06:00:26 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous

Okay my significant other caught me red handed in the throws of passion with a jar of mayo.....what should I do...I have sworn off mayo as a start but I really need to get her back since it wasn't the same as far as getting some.....the experience with the mayo was a distant 2nd plus I didn't have to cuddle. The other difference was it just wasn't as warm(the mayo)

2006-09-25 06:00:23 · 13 answers · asked by Paul M 3

I mean, besides being handsome or have a well built body, How can a man could behave sexy for a woman

2006-09-25 05:57:17 · 4 answers · asked by Bruce W. 4

I broke up with my boyfriend today.I feel so bad that I broke his heart because he loved me so much and wanted to be with me.I didn't love him as much and I felt horrible because of that.Plus, my parents don't want me to have a boyfriend and when he asked me out on a date to the movies, I had to say no because they don't let me go on dates. He sent me two notes in class. The first:We've broken up,right? and the second painful one:" You were the one that wanted us to break up.Just so you can know!" That hurt. A lot.I felt like s b-tch,but he had to know because in the long run,it'd just get worse. Seeing him at school is very painful. He doesn't look at me anymore and in history class he was thinking about me the whole time and wasn't paying attention.We sit next to each other mopst classes...I still want to stay freinds,but he is so hurt...what can I do?

2006-09-25 05:54:33 · 24 answers · asked by Jennifer L 1

I recently met the perfect girl for me online. We have a lot in common and after exchanging several pictures we know we find each other attractive. We've chatted for up to four hours in the past and I think this girl may very well be my "soul mate". The only problem is that she lives a long way away from me. Is it possible to start out a meaningful relationship as a distance relationship? I definitely want to travel to meet her once we get to know each other and if we really hit it off I would move to her city eventually. How long should I chat with her before traveling to meet? I'm thinking a month personally. Is it possible to fall in love with someone that you've only chatted with online?

2006-09-25 05:54:32 · 9 answers · asked by Link 5

My boyfriend is having trouble coming out...he is still in high school and I have just graduated. He is very afraid what everyone else thinks. He is kind of part of the in crowd at school and was made fun of all through out middle school about how he seemed like he was gay. Things have gotten better for him now that he's in high school and doesn't want to fall back into that slump again. He is also afraid of what his parents think of him...his mom and step dad (whom he lives with) both have told him they have no problem with people who are gay and told him that if he was they would love and treat him just the same. For instance...when my sister brings over friends from school he wants to leave because he's afraid of being himself around me when they are here and think they would asume that he was gay, because he hangs out with me. (I've already come out). How do I get him to feel more comfortable in his own skin...I love him and don't want to break this off...Please Help

2006-09-25 05:50:17 · 20 answers · asked by Robby N 1

Three babies are in their mother's womb. One of them says, "I want to be an artist, so everyone will know what it looks like in here."
The next one says, "I want to be an olympic swimmer because I get so much practicein here"
Then the last baby says," I'm going to be a hunter, because if that snake comes in here and pokes me again I'm gonna chop that damned thing in half!"


A man enters a bar and orders a double whiskey on the rocks. The bartender asks him what is wrong? The man replies that he just found out his son are homosexual. The next day the man returns to the bar and orders a double whiskey on the rocks again. The bartender again asks him what is wrong? The man replies that he found out that his other son is also a homosexual. The bartender asks him if anyone in his family likes pussy? The man replies "yes, my two daughters."

2006-09-25 05:49:38 · 8 answers · asked by YAHOO SUCKS ASS 3

Okay me and my gf broke up(i'm a girl too) well today i came on the computer and i was doing somethings and soon as i was about to get off she comes on, and when we were dating i would always write her but i didnt and i was going to but than i was like well i should ask someone what i should do!

2006-09-25 05:48:40 · 21 answers · asked by *~*~BABY GURL~*~* 1

2006-09-25 05:48:03 · 19 answers · asked by dangerous_beauty 1

im just wondering if this is why i havent found someone. i do smoke cigs and i know it smells. but would u date a guy if he smoked. i mean if he was nice and really sweet and knew how to treat a lady.

btw i am a guy

2006-09-25 05:46:58 · 41 answers · asked by texasdaddy2009 3

Ok well for the last 3 months ive been seeing this boy. He has been telling me he liked me for like the last 2 months and ive been telling him i liked him for like the past month. Then last monday he asked me if id go out with him and of course i said yes. He would msg my phone all day while im in school and hes at work and even at nite while hes at work. He even new wen to msg me wen i had lunch and he would always ask me to come and hangout wit him and i always would. he would even let me drink with him sometimes. I was so happy and i thot he was happy with me to. Then all of a sudden las thursday he stopped talking to me he didn't msg my phone all day or nite so i msg him on friday nite i asked him why he didn't msg me at all and he told me he would rather just be friends bc of him working 2 jobs and he said he wouldnt have time for me but that never bothered him while we were just friends before we started going out. What would you think of the situation? Im 16 and hes 21. HELP

2006-09-25 05:45:03 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous

Well he makes me "come" the first time, however, his technique leaves my clit sore and when he goes to do it again it's more so painful then pleasurable...but I don't want to make it seem like he doesn't know what he's doing. How do I direct him to the right way of doing it where it will be pleasurable each and every time? You know....softer?

2006-09-25 05:44:09 · 22 answers · asked by Cathy 4