He feels the need to masterbate after we have sex.He looks at porn all the time.I'm not a ugly chick,I'm very hot not to toot my own horn here,but I've asked him if I'm not enough for him that he needs to do these things.He say's yes I'm more than enough.I give it up to him when ever he wants.But I just don't understand.Help please.
2006-09-25 06:18:39 · 21 answers · asked by Mattshottie 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
It could be that he is addicted to porn and to masturbating. Sounds weird, doesn't it, but it happens. I would continue to talk to him about it, discuss it, so that he knows where you stand. The talking about it will also force him to look at whatever he is doing and to explain it to you, but, most of all, to himself. It could be that he isn't aware of what is going on. You can help him to put limits on his masturbating by (for example) asking him not to do it for three hours (just a suggestion) after you had sex, because that makes you feel bad.
Good luck.
2006-09-25 06:37:14 · answer #1 · answered by suki's mom 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-07-16 23:18:56 · answer #2 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't worry, men sometimes needs to release tension by himself. And porn gives a very good outlet to do it. Its definitely nothing personal against you, I'm sure he's still very attracted to you.
Its like this... some men, have a very high sex drive, and in reality, you cant give him sex every time he wants it, or you would have no life. SO in the days when you're not feeling to well, its good for him to masturbate to porn... its better than finding it else where.
2006-09-25 06:23:43 · answer #3 · answered by almostdeadman1 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's perfectly normal to masterbate from time to time...although he shouldn't let it get out of control. You should explain to him how you feel...tell him "hey...this makes me feel unwanted or that I'm not good enough" Try some new and exciting stuff in the bedroom...change things up a bit and see how he reacts. Overall you need to let him know how you feel.
2006-09-25 06:24:38 · answer #4 · answered by Robby N 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
some time people just want to do some alone time. there is a different between a sex toy , and a lover. sextoy is a self indulging pleasure for a guy or a girl and just want some alone time or you can join them in the beating there meat session and watch porn with them that if it ok or for the guy or girl. a love can be there when your sick or ill or ur out of a job. a sex toy is only there for when your horny and just want you me time alone or me time with ur partner aka you can watch but no touchy. dont be afraid if he ***** him self in the *** it quit pleasurable and omg wonderful he still love you but you keep up this insecurity **** up and hes out. for me i ditch ur *** because of it. and trust me.btw it not illigle to have more then 3 wives and trust me 3 way might be up ur alie
2014-03-29 17:13:50 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should learn to appreciate porn and get into it. My ex used to masturbate all the time to porn and it never bothered me. It got him fired up for the real deal. Watch it with him or get something you might both enjoy. I'm sure you're enough for him, but most guys do it.
2006-09-25 06:21:58 · answer #6 · answered by caramellatte 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
As a guy who masterbates to porn-- Dont take it personal-- guys masterbate out of frustration and bordom. It doesnt mean were not satisfied. We just meed a different stimulus---all the time!!
2006-09-25 06:25:31 · answer #7 · answered by ? 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He has a high sex drive and this is just another aspect of his sex life. If you can't beat'em join'em. If you are not willing to do that move on b/c he won't stop and you are going to continue to take it personal when it's not personal it's another way he handles his business *lol*
2006-09-25 06:41:32 · answer #8 · answered by onedzire27 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i love my wife very much and sex is great.---- but i also like my me time everyone has fantasys and thats good i play mine out with my hand and a porn and love my wife other men act them out for real and dont really love thier wife so i say be happy becuase it sounds like he does what i do some time its nice to fantasize let him he must love you cuz with u and all that jacking i find it hard to belive hes cheating it is healthy so relax and try it yourself. Peace and dick grease baby!!
2006-09-25 06:40:55 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
hey babe my husband is the same way. SO if you find out please let me know. Oh btw his family has a history of porn addiction . Yeah it sucks and my hubby swears my sex is f-ing awesome but he still feels the need. Is he by chance taking depression meds. let me know.
2006-09-25 06:25:37 · answer #10 · answered by leaves_of_autumn171311 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋