Other - Family & Relationships - 15 July 2007

I love my boyfriend, been with him for just over a year now. Some of my mates hate him now, and are saying he has changed. There is this party thing next saturday night, but I can't go, but my mates and my boyfriend are. They are all planning on "killing him" in other words they're gonna start on him and kcik him in. They are my best friends, and are begging me not to tell him, they want it to be a suprise. But i want to tell him, what should i do? im so confused!!! please help me out here!
x peace x

2007-07-15 10:49:22 · 1 answers · asked by harlequinromancex 2

I want to learn Japanese REALLY badly. Why? I don't know exactly. I guess it's because I'm really getting into it. I watch a little anime, and my favorite singer sings in Japanese/English. I guess, I just think it's beautiful and think that learning to speak it would be enjoyable.
I'm learning Latin right now, and my parents want me to know how to speak a speakable language. My school does not offer Japanese, but does offer Italian and Chinese. Most people don't like Chinese because the teacher is very mean. I might like Italian, and I might pick it up easily if I know Latin, but I don't have a passion for Italian.
I'm considering getting the Rosetta Stone series for my computer. My parents would like me to learn Chinese since they think I'm only young once and I should get to know something for my future since we have excess trade with the Chinese, but I really want to learn Japanese instead.
What I'm asking is: what do you think I should do? I don't plan to do Chinese business.

2007-07-15 10:45:47 · 5 answers · asked by My Name Doesn't Fit Here 4

My fiance agreed to take care of four things: Mow the yard, clean the cat's litter box, vacuum, and keep the living room picked up.

But he's such a procrastinator that he doesn't get those things done until I start bugging him.

And he doesn't like to clean up after anyone but himself. He doesn't mind picking up his trash off the living room floor, but if I leave a mess on the computer desk, he won't touch it. He says I have to clean up my own mess.

But I get stuck cleaning up after him in every other part of the house. I put a laundry basket right next to his dressor, yet he still throws his clothes on the floor a foot away from the basket. And I don't just clean my dirty dishes, I clean his too.

I'm tired of being a nag, and I don't like that I clean up after him, but he won't ever clean up after me. What should I do differently?

2007-07-15 10:31:17 · 12 answers · asked by Zoey 1

He's mentally handicapped, but it's not severe. He thinks I'm supposed to find him one. What do I tell him? He's 25 I figured out long ago that he probably wouldn't have one, but I don't know what to tell him.

2007-07-15 10:25:31 · 5 answers · asked by nursesr4evr 7

Well I have liked this girl for a long time now, and i saw her changing in school so i peeked, And i dont normally do this im a strong beliver in female rights, but anyway, she found out i liked her and that i was spying on her when she changed. So she invited me round to her when her parents wernt in and asked me ''So you like me then?'' and then i unwillingly admitted i did, and she was understanding, and heres the strange thing, she started taking off my clothes and her cloths and before i know it im naked and shes half naked..she starts to toy with me.. in a sexual way teasing me ect. she had me against the wall and out came her friends from her bedroom door, and they laugh, suddenly i feel a sharp pain in my groin and then i had relised she the girl i liked has kneed or kicked me there, i fell on the floor and then she continued to sqeeze and kick my male area, and her friend held me back and also attacked my area.. and after that they took pictures and i was left Imasculated.Help

2007-07-15 10:20:54 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous

hurt

2007-07-15 10:17:43 · 1 answers · asked by sharon c 1

my brother's best friend is one year older than me and we are pretty good friends. but then, one day he cam up to me and told me that "he knew i liked him". i did not know where in the world it came from but i was freaked out b/c i really don't like him. he told the whole school and most believed him. now, alot of my mom's friends and even my brother in law think that i like him and it makes me so mad because i really don't!!!!!!!! i hate his guts now(i know that's not very good to do but in this situation i can't avoid it)!!! what should i do?! and what should i say to him!?? please no stupid answers! i really need help on this!

2007-07-15 10:16:38 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous

i heard that you become REALLY attatched to that person and i was wondering if anyone has ever gone through this or personally know someone who went through this, to what degree, and how it affects those involved.

2007-07-15 10:03:42 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous

Okay, I just want a part-time job to get by with while I'm attending college and I have been considering Target and Wal-Mart. The obvious choice is Target and I would love to work there but my boyfriend's ex-wife works at a Target (not the same one I'd be applying for). I should be able to work where I want, right? I shouldn't care what she thinks but I guess my immaturity is kicking in! Someone give me some reassurance or advice! Thank you

2007-07-15 09:52:05 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous

if ur gf or bf dies,
would u be true to them miss them with pride,
or would u move on,,, so u can be happy,,,,
wail ur love things about u even though he or she is death,,
would u move on or would u stay with him or her.
and miss them as they miss you.... r.i.p to all the missed ones.

2007-07-15 09:39:18 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous

What does it mean??

2007-07-15 09:18:57 · 1 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-07-15 09:16:06 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous

my husbend hids porn in the car and drives arournd with it and he always say i whish you would do that iwant know is wrong for me to belive he looks atron with some one else

2007-07-15 08:25:34 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous

is it wrong if a 13 year old girla dn an 18 year old guy want to date and spend the rest of there life together and her dad thretens to beat him with a baseball bat its not right i dont think i mean we both know we LOVE each other and we know its against the law but is it wrong for us to date in your oppinion

2007-07-15 06:45:22 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-07-15 06:43:56 · 11 answers · asked by shruti 1

I understand that the Bible says no sex before marriage
but is that when the penis touches the vagina physically eg no condom because I think when u have a condom on that the rubber doesnt allow them to touch physically eg skin by skin??

2007-07-15 06:34:11 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous

how much does a decent funeral cost for an 9 year old boy???

2007-07-15 06:15:43 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous

I have this boyfriend and he gets jealous of everyone I talk to and pay attention. Its like all my attention has to be focused on him at all times, but I do not get the same satisfaction.

2007-07-15 05:53:37 · 4 answers · asked by ? 1

My boyfriend and I have a month old son. Our relationship have been going on for a year now. His previous marriage nine years ago is now being process for annulment. He has two sons. What bothers me is he has not told his father and two sons about me and my son or about our relationship when he promise he would several times in the past. We had a real fight a month ago and he wanted out but I warned him that I am going to sue him for breach of promise & immorality because he did promise to marry me even before i got pregnant and because we worked at the same office where he is known to be a playboy and married. So now we are still together. Somehow I'm thinking he's just with me because he is afraid to lose his job and retirement. Help please. What is the best way to deal with my problem? What is keeping him from telling his children? Or can I just tell them myself?

2007-07-15 04:36:30 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous

I need some outside opinions here. Unbiased if you will...

5 years ago, I graduated college in the Midwest. I left my home state to come to California for a defense job. At first it was all crimson and clovers...new job, met a new girl, fell in love. We had a beautiful daughter whom I love very much.

Fast forward a few years. We are now splitting up. Some of it due to the fact I want to leave CA very bad. I don't have enough room here to tell the whole story, however the congestion and rudeness of L.A. is more than I can stand. My daughters mother will not leave as her family is here. I understand that. However, I have beem offered good positions back home that would provide a better life. Housing, good schools, low commutes, etc.

I can not stand living in L.A. I hate it soooo much. However, I love my daughter so much I dont want to leave. And I mean it, I really really really hate L.A. life but I'm responsible for my daughter.

What to do? Take care of my needs or hers?

2007-07-15 03:56:30 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous

After having worked hard and planned your life the way you want it, did it turn out the way it was supposed to or better? Did it work?

2007-07-15 03:00:45 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous

ok i like this guy and he asked me out like at beginning of school year when i first had a crush on him, i said no cuz i was too busy with school.ok later on the year he asks me out again then he dumps me 2 days later.sometime around the last week of school, he asks me out AGAIN. ok back then he had a crush in our class called amber. she's really popular, and hes unpopular like me. he said he still liked me but liked her better. few days later one of my bff tells me he likes this other girl but asked me out cuz he don't want her to know he still likes ariel, this other girl.cuz he asked both amber and ariel out and they both turned him down.so far i'm the only one who he asked out that said yes. so anyways should i dump him or should i just keep going out with him?plz help thx guys

2007-07-15 02:59:32 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous

One emotion everyone in the world is aware of... LOVE.

Whether its love for; friends, family or romance.... we all have the able to love someone.

but what about when love turns sour? ... you get dumped. your sister says she hates you.... your parents are disappointed... your friend back stabs you. Love hurts doesn't it? Everyone gets heartbroken at one point...

How can you or do you get over the pain of a broken heart? When you are in love... how do you stop yourself from loving the person?.... Basically... whats your scoop on love.. what do YOU have to say about yourself & love...

2007-07-15 02:42:07 · 11 answers · asked by TeRi 1

Hey there. So, i've been w/ someone for 7 months. We don't live together, but he's here alot. I have 2 kids, 9 & 10. They are great kids...but I am not a tough disaplinarian..I leave that to thier dad (he rules w/ an iron fist..I don't ..) So, this guy says he's in it for "Me" he fell in love with me...and he says the kids are his biggest 'issue'. What do you do when you are so in love with a man...but he doesn't have kids of his own, he's almost childishly jelous of my kids and says if he moves in (which is NOT the plan right now) that they will not come first in a home he pays for. (He told me to work PT for summer and he is paying for a home he does not live in because he thought it would be best for the kids if I am at home..I start FT the week school starts) The biggest issue he says is 'respect' and 'disapline' ....Where do I go with this? He was rulesd by an iron fist too...but when he is with them..he is soooo good with them, better then thier own dad...my kids worship him.

2007-07-15 02:38:33 · 15 answers · asked by Jess 1

2007-07-15 01:32:09 · 12 answers · asked by mia 1

2007-07-15 01:28:21 · 6 answers · asked by violatordepeche 3

for some reason i really wanna commit suicide right now... someone stole my money and my card and i lost about 3,000
i am having more problems like week knees that could be a hindrance to my activities and people are treating me differently... problems that i can't do anything about.. these are problems in school.. and it's kinda unfair cuz i can bring my problems in school at home and i can't bring my problems at home to school... help

2007-07-15 01:04:46 · 15 answers · asked by PcH 2

2007-07-15 01:04:40 · 12 answers · asked by ¸.•*´`*•.¸ ℓανєη∂єr ¸.•*´`*•.¸ 6