my husbend hids porn in the car and drives arournd with it and he always say i whish you would do that iwant know is wrong for me to belive he looks atron with some one else
2007-07-15 08:25:34 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Porn is dangerous in many ways...
I believe that it pollutes the marriage bed.
If he loves you and only you, then he needs not the images of others to turn him on.
Can I ask, without you becoming angry...what "IT" is that he wants you to do?
I mean, I have done or been forced to do many things...
Forced--- into Anal and threesome by my 2 EX's
Done----- Oral and vaginal with a loving husband
So, if you e-mail me...I may be able to talk with you and help you.
I know this is painful, my 2 EX- husbands were both sodomites...that was the ONLY way they would have sex with me.
BOTH were porn fanatics, and wanted to live out their fantasies through hurting me.
(One beat me, and the 2nd burned me with my curling iron during the sex act)
I pray for you to find hope and blessings
2007-07-15 08:48:55 · answer #1 · answered by Midnight Winter WOLF 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your post is barely intelligible.
Your husband is COMMUNICATING with you.
He is telling you what he wants and needs. Either LISTEN to him, or...if you absolutely refuse to do whatever it is he wants, then you better think about divorce because these things are like a volcano.
The pressure WILL build. Not today, maybe not tomorrow, but all the while it builds, and eventually he may run across some woman that WILL satisfy what he wants, and his desire will overcome everything else (most likely) and he will cheat on you (most likely).
So...get with the program lady. Take a few outside your own self and give consideration of the real world and understand your husband is in the first stages of cheating on you....BUT...he's giving you hints of what he wants and that he WANTS it from you. Either lose the cold-fish attitude or face the fact that he and you just aren't as compatible as you thought.
If the guy is wanting/asking for something that is just totally unacceptable/repugnant to you, then you/he made a poor decision to get married/hooked-up in the first place.
This is why you spend time with someone...to get to know them and understand what makes them tick and find out what they like and don't like....and then go for there.
I wish you luck and hope you can figure out what it is that's going on for both your happiness.
2007-07-15 08:37:24 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
I would be on guard. Porn is very lethal and can only take him down the wrong road. Keep your eye's open and PRAY for him to be set free of this addiction.
2007-07-15 08:31:24 · answer #3 · answered by Margie 2 · 1⤊ 2⤋
it's not cheating if a guy looks at porn it's not like he's doing anything with another girl all guys look at it atleast once in their life
2007-07-15 08:33:27 · answer #4 · answered by goodies make the boys jump on it 6 · 1⤊ 1⤋
so what watching a little porn,has nevefr hurt anybody
maybe you need to think about doing a little yourself!
2007-07-15 08:37:07 · answer #5 · answered by rpoker 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
well tel him unlucky yr not like that and if u were u would not be wit him any way so tel him to put a sock in it and enjoy u for what u are
2007-07-15 08:31:02 · answer #6 · answered by DIANNE E 2 · 2⤊ 1⤋
ask him to stop and if he refuses then seek counseling for both of you. he may have an addiction that he needs to get help for.
2007-07-15 08:35:34 · answer #7 · answered by Lov'n IT! 7 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Why do you believe he looks at Ron with someone else ?
Who is Ron ?
Who is the other person that also looks at Ron ?
2007-07-15 08:36:16 · answer #8 · answered by Earwigo 6 · 0⤊ 2⤋
i think if he hides these films is because he watches them.but do not be drastic.he could be watching them with his friends,if he is very young.otherwise he could watch them where he works.if both my ideas can not be correct then he watches them with someone else as u suspect.
2007-07-15 08:32:49 · answer #9 · answered by ? 2 · 0⤊ 2⤋
That's awful.Tell him to get rid of it or you will leave him.
2007-07-15 08:44:50 · answer #10 · answered by chezliz 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋