My boyfriend and I have a month old son. Our relationship have been going on for a year now. His previous marriage nine years ago is now being process for annulment. He has two sons. What bothers me is he has not told his father and two sons about me and my son or about our relationship when he promise he would several times in the past. We had a real fight a month ago and he wanted out but I warned him that I am going to sue him for breach of promise & immorality because he did promise to marry me even before i got pregnant and because we worked at the same office where he is known to be a playboy and married. So now we are still together. Somehow I'm thinking he's just with me because he is afraid to lose his job and retirement. Help please. What is the best way to deal with my problem? What is keeping him from telling his children? Or can I just tell them myself?
2007-07-15 04:36:30 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
he doesnt intend on them knowing, you have NO relationship
here's your sign!
2007-07-15 04:40:23 · answer #1 · answered by bronzebabekentucky 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yeah he's trickin you alright
but not for the sake of tricking you...he has other reasons
i think u summed it up quite nicely
however, if you keep making empty threats, he eventually will stop believing you....so next time u make a threat, follow through, that way he'll know you are serious.
2007-07-15 12:21:08 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
That's a pretty funny trick alright. You're supposed to marry him first, then have the kids. I'm not saying that from a religous standpoint, i'm saying it from a child support/alimony/half of all his stuff standpoint.
2007-07-15 11:41:28 · answer #3 · answered by KidCuervo 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
well if i were in your shoes i would play hard to get and just see if he tries to make the first move.you shouldnt be involved in a situation like this when the child gets older its going to be harder for him to hide. so the truth is goin to come out somehow. but if excuse for hiding his other family which is you i would get out. money isnt everything. but if you play hard to get and if he tries he really cares about you. he might be trying to avoid arguing between you and his wife/ex whatever isholding him back.
2007-07-15 11:42:15 · answer #4 · answered by grumpyjen28 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋