If you've been abused by others, could you please let us know what's helped you deal with your feelings on it?

Answer 1

Confront them. Truthfully it seldom gets solved legally, but go through the process anyway because it is empowering to fac them. When you sit and do nothing, they still have control of your life long after they're physically out of the picture.
Even if you don't take legal action, confront them anyway (take a friend with you)

Answer 2

the fact that God has punished them and he has done such a good job of it ...amen