Other - Family & Relationships - 24 March 2007

I met this guy while at a photo convention thing about a month ago. We got along really well and lately we've started hanging out together. He hung out one night with me and some of my friends and we had a lot of fun. Then last night he called me up to ask if I wanted to go on the photo adventure with him. So we went and spent about 5 hours driving around the area and having lots of fun. We got to talk about different sorts of things while he had his iPod playing all these really good songs. We used each other as models in our pics that we took. I am thinking about asking him to prom the next time I hang out/talk with him. But i'm just really nervous because he goes to another school and he does not plan on going to his prom. But whenever we have hung out together, its always been fun. And theres obviously some interest of being at least friends since he hung out with me for so long without making up excuses to leave.
So should I ask him???
and how and what should I say?

2007-03-24 19:12:18 · 6 answers · asked by Cool_Tall_One 3

2007-03-24 19:11:15 · 14 answers · asked by divinemadness 4

My boyfreind and I have been together for eight months. Throughout our relationship we have discussed babies, parenting, etc. I have voiced my desire to become a mother on many occasions. You see, for the past two years, I have been yearning to start a family of my own. My heart aches when I see my freinds with their children. I became divorced shortly before my boyfriend and I got togther (from an abusive relationship) and although I wanted a baby, I subconsciencly knew I didn't want one with my ex-husband. My BF is the first man I've wanted to have a child / start a family with. Ok, so here is the problem. Yesterday he blurted out that he does not want children and does not want to get married. This is a desicion he'd made many years ago, he says. Events in his past can make me understand his opinion. I do love him greatly, but this hurt me deeply. I will not leave him because of this, but how can I cope or maybe make him somehow see things my way? I feel as if my dreams have died...

2007-03-24 19:05:46 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous

I dated this girl for 2months who claimed she cared about me. She told me that she was done with her ex whom she's dated for a year. While she and I dated, she kept telling me that her ex was begging to come back to her life.She must have resolved to seeing me exclusively if she is telling me this, I said to myself. Anyways, she recently told me that she had give her ex another chance to see if she could work things out. She also claimed that we had some diffferences that could conflict with our relationship. I asked myself why didn't she say this earlier? Why go back to ex after claiming closures? I really want to move on, but I must confess, I am hurt. Someone pleae take this pain away. What can I do now? I am placed in a situation in which I have to see this girl every day or at least once a week. Help!! Please help me

2007-03-24 18:58:34 · 8 answers · asked by Michael O 1

2007-03-24 18:52:30 · 2 answers · asked by SATJ12 3

me n my boifrend were talkin about random things 1 nite n kid names came up. im white hes black, obviously im not going 2 no how 2 name black kids. i was listing names n he was lyk..do u realize our kids will b half white n half black. so i reallly need help on some good names girls and boys

2007-03-24 18:50:11 · 20 answers · asked by urcandie101 1

My 1/2 duplex was originally built to be one suite. It is now two and thus has NO soundproofing. I can hear the neighbors alarm clock! They can hear mine. I can hear their t.v. channel and their arguements.. often word for word. My concern is that I am having a baby in a few months. They say the porch door in my enterance echos in their place. I am in the basement and it is cold. I turn the heat on, and they sweat and open their windows in a Canadian winter. These neighbors are moving this week, thank god, because they complained ALOT. I don't know who will my new neighbors will be. But my newborn will cry and wake up at night several times and they will hear everything as they will be right above me. I don't want to be tense with my baby crying and being more uncomfortable in my home then I was with these neighbors.I am a single mom and would move when my lease is up with a newborn baby and a 7 year old.I love my location now.It is for sale, also getting new landlord.What would u do?

2007-03-24 18:48:15 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous

i went to babysit the kids of the family i newly started working for. the 5 year old boy told me that his mom called me a bad a name bcoz she didn't like the work i had done when i was tutoring him.he started asking her right after he told me that what the word was. i do not think he was fabricating! he also said she slammed his homework on the table.
i just found this job and need money, but i was really disappointed by the mother's behavior. i feel totally disrespected...i'm wondering how i could find a good 20hours/week job...
do u think i should leave this job?
do u know how i can find a good 20hours/week job?

2007-03-24 18:46:53 · 8 answers · asked by saxoool 2

iv never gotten drunk before. what is it like the first time? how many beers will it take, and how was your first time? i want to here storys!

2007-03-24 18:44:00 · 1 answers · asked by breanna 2

Let's just say that someone very close to me once stabbed me in the back in the worst way. But 4 years have passed and now they want to enter into a business partnership. While the opportunity is tempting, I am still hesitant. Whats your opinion?

2007-03-24 18:32:31 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous

He's married and with kids.

2007-03-24 18:21:12 · 6 answers · asked by Diamond 1

2007-03-24 18:20:57 · 19 answers · asked by sven 3

Alright, there is this guy that come to my church to visit this weekend. Well there is this girl that is i guess you could say one of my friends, and she comes to church like once every 3 to 6 months. I like this guy and so does she. She is supposed to be comin tomorrow. She is the type to be a "fasty tail". She has already given him her number last night. He doesnt really like her, but i get the felling he likes her a little bit. He also likes me. I am just afriad that he will start likin her more than me. I like this guy a lot and this girl is all the time gettin a boyfriend and i feel that it is not fair for her to get him. What should i do???

2007-03-24 17:48:27 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous

My 1/2 duplex was originally built to be one suite. It is now two and thus has NO soundproofing. I can hear the neighbors alarm clock! They can hear mine. I can hear their t.v. channel and their arguements.. often word for word. My concern is that I am having a baby in a few months. The neighbors can even hear my baby's heartbeat when I listen on my machine! That is not loud at all. They say the porch door in my enterance echos in their place. I am in the basement and it is cold. I turn the heat on, and they complain that they sweat and open their windows in a Canadian winter. These neighbors are moving this week. I don't know who will my new neighbors will be. But my newborn will cry and wake up at night.. they will hear everything... I don't want to be tense with my baby crying and being more uncomfortable in my home then I was with these neighbors.. WHAT WOULD YOU DO?

i am a single mom and would move when my lease is up with a newborn baby and a 7 year old. I love my location now

2007-03-24 17:47:13 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous

i have a boyfriend!!!! and what's worse, is i think i'm falling for a girl at my school who's straight!!

2007-03-24 17:42:18 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous

should i still give a **** about my friends?

cause it ****ing bothers me everytime when they look at me study so hard and do so well and they like tell me,

"Why are you so different now? huh? Look at you....!"

I CANNOT STAND THIS. I wanna do things for my dreams.

i get extremely ignorant to the point i look like a proud person when i study or when i am totally focused on getting something done. My friends are not happy with this. I feel this will affect my love life somehow BUT ARGHHHHH..


and also they think ive changed or ****!? ARRRGHHHHh...im pissed.

and when it comes to looking for love when u got to make career-making decisions, should i totally abandon it if it disrupts and ****s up my decisions?

2007-03-24 17:37:11 · 1 answers · asked by Anonymous

What is the difference between real love and a strong obsession? Can a strong obsession last 3 years and still be just as strong?

2007-03-24 17:36:42 · 6 answers · asked by Sara D 1

i said yes, but now i dont to stay on that floor,i need to see outside, and frm that floor all i see is the sky,

how do i say nicely that i would rather stay on my floor that i am rooming right now in?


thnks

2007-03-24 17:35:33 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous

but im only 15 what do you guys think???

2007-03-24 17:33:00 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous

How old were you the first time you "did it"? Did you love the person you were with? How many of you waited until marriage??

2007-03-24 17:29:05 · 13 answers · asked by lisa M 1

We are in a long distance relationship for 7 months. I love him so much and he loves me too. He flew 2 thousand miles just to be with me for 6 weeks. We have been apart for 2 months. He will fly to be with me again in about 2 weeks. However, it seems to me he is having a stress problem. It might be from business, I guess. I was trying to make him talk.. but he didnt want to say it. I want to help him cuz I know he is a deep thinking person. When he get stressed he never return my message or call.. and it drives me nut. What should I do?

2007-03-24 17:28:11 · 4 answers · asked by PrisGal 1

Okay my soon to be husband is a really great guy. But he has a problem with drinking. Its like chips...Once he pops he cant stop. He takes care of our family and pays bills and so loving you couldn't even imagine.
I have told him many of times that he needs to slow down or stop and he tells me he will then goes off and drinks again. I need a way to tell him nicely that he needs help and needs to stop. Not only for his family at home, but for him. He is slowly killing himself.

2007-03-24 17:28:11 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous

are you a guy or a girl?
i'm 14 (fish in HS) and still haven't been asked out by anyone, and even one guy hasn't showed any signs that he's interested in me.
: *(
why do guys seem to only go by looks?

2007-03-24 17:20:52 · 14 answers · asked by anonymous 2

I did not think it was possible but it did happen. My best friends husband. I am friends with both but I love him. I am really friends with both, but thats beside the point. They were living with my because of hard times. She was arrested during that time and spent 2 months in jail. Him and I were together all the time during those months. In those months he flirted and I flirted and there was some touching. He tried to get me to have sex with him but I wouldnt. I didnt want to her hurt her, although I wanted him so bad. He told me during that time of the problems in their marriage and that if anything did happen that they split then he would want to be with me. I was so happy to hear that and I took it to heart. In my eyes he cant do anything wrong. I know they are having problems and that things might not work out. I think of him all the time. I have never loved a man like I love him. I do not know what to do. Should I tell him how I feel?

2007-03-24 17:20:31 · 17 answers · asked by stacyda20 2

i want to make my boyfriend a cd with oldies romantic songs but he knows alot of oldies songs so i am trying to make a oldies love cd with songs that arent that known can u help me if u know any songs

2007-03-24 17:08:32 · 10 answers · asked by ♥Juliett 3

I broke up with my boyfriend last night because he cheated on me for the 3rd time and a girl is pregnant with his baby. I am 24 and a senior and he is 23 and does NOTHING. I am in love with him but it still hurts so bad. I dont want to be with him but i cant stop crying and thinking about it. can you please give me suggestions on how i can get over this break-up?

2007-03-24 16:48:35 · 26 answers · asked by Bee 1

I get jealous so easily... over ex boyfriends that I dont even care much about, over girls my current boyfriend (who treats me wonderfully, I couldn't ask for better) has dated, even that my sister is more successful than me. Any tips on how to let go of the jealousy and be a little more laid back in relationships?

2007-03-24 16:46:01 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous

Im gay well bi I cant help it was born that way i knew i was attracted to men the day i could talk. Ive always been a chill guy that could just sit back talk cuddle by the pool and cry for no reason then laugh and gorge myself in chinese.But I hurt so bad inside because all my life ive been forced to be something im not.I've been forced to be something that im not. My dad has made me play football and basketball when half the time i had the natural talent to make the team but i was never reallly good or had the passion to play sports. Then when its time to go off to college he wont let me major in what I want he has picked a mojor for me he tries to map my life out he tries to tell me how to dress he goes as far *** to tell me how to eat a salad . Hes always comparing me to him when i was your age i did this was on this played baseball went all state for track blah blah blah blah.I cant ever do anything right i could make dinner perfect but here he goes ooo this shrimp alfredo is good
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21 minutes ago
but you need to add more cheese. Or hes like the steak is good but use more onions. Then he tries to teach me obvious stuff like how to plant something in the ground like I dont already know.Little does he know is im bi which hasnt hit him because he probably thinks there straight and gay he talks about girls so hes not gay and has a girlfriend though hes not masculine.Then I quit all the stuff hes been forcing me to do then he snaps and goes.You dont like sports your dont like cars you dont like anything regular guys like all you do is get on the computer and get on myspace.What is his problem hes just forcing me around and projects me *** his perfect little trophy son.

19 minutes ago
I just wanna buss out and tell him im gay my cousin came out and the family is going bazurk i dunno !! What should I do why does my dad compare hiself to me,why does he dictate my life,why does he try to change me,

17 minutes ago
I just wanna break out and say I love guys and girls im more intrested in Chanel glasses and Dolce & Gabbana Clothes im obssed with fashion andNew York Fashion week I like to chill with friends crack jokes swim and cry I like to live life and stop pretending to be some thing im not and IM GAY IM GAY IM GAY !!!
Hes driving me crazy wat to do and why is he doing this

2007-03-24 16:44:19 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous

I have had a crush on a man for the last two years but we have both been in a real serious relationship but now we are both single which have made my feelings grow even more for him. I'm not sure if he likes me back or not and I am real nervous to find out. He sends me mixed signals because he will flirt and laugh and joke with me but he never actually makes a move. What make the situation even more complexed is that he is my ex of two years BEST friend. What should i do i mean i know there is some rules you never break but should you really put boundaries on love and past up something that could be really good for you just because of what other people think.

2007-03-24 16:44:16 · 3 answers · asked by Ms. Stickey Ikey 1

wen i say old , i mean like 30's and older.
What is it about younger girls?

2007-03-24 16:42:45 · 20 answers · asked by criss_in_da_house 2