i have a boyfriend!!!! and what's worse, is i think i'm falling for a girl at my school who's straight!!
2007-03-24 17:42:18 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Okay, I'm over it!!
2007-03-24 17:51:29 · update #1
did this come to you in some sor tof dream or what? How do you just find out? I think your boyfriend would think it's rather hot to have a lesbian girl friend. If you are wanting to break up with him you may have to do something with another girl in front of him, to appease him.
2007-03-24 17:46:45 · answer #1 · answered by ithek_thundervoice 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
LOL, you just found out you are a lesbian? Did someone tell you or how did you discover this? If you think you might be, be honest with your boyfriend. But if the other girl is straight, what is your point? You going to try to convert her? Ha. Sorry, you are so confused, you don't just become a lesbian, and you don't go after straight people. Do some reading on this subject or find a gay person and have a long talk.
2007-03-24 17:46:01 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ooooh. Sounds bad...
That's quite a predicament. High school (which I presume you're in) can be tough and although you should stay true to yourself, it probably would be a safer bet to break up with your boyfriend for reasons unknown (to him...) and not act on your crush.
Once again, I know this seems like a naive, harsh answer, but High School can be really rough on you if you're different. All you wanna do is get through it with a diploma and as little torture as possible right?
2007-03-24 17:46:25 · answer #3 · answered by Catherine K 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You just found out? Do you mean to say that you've just admitted to yourself? This doesn't just happen overnight.
You need to break up with the guy, and don't come on to any girl unless you know for sure she is also a lesbian.
2007-03-24 17:47:26 · answer #4 · answered by T Time 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well... You're obviously gonna have to end it with your boyfriend... I don't know what to tell you about falling for a straight girl. I had a crush on a guy who I knew was gay, but I just couldn't accept the fact (he wasn't "out" yet). I became his friend and just was happy to hang around with him.
2007-03-24 17:49:18 · answer #5 · answered by Sarah R 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
this happen all the time...don't stress out. first decide whether you're still in love with your boyfriend. if no, you have to tell him you're not interested anymore. second, if it's ok tell your family and friends... only at the right time, and decide whether you can live with your consequences after telling them.....and the problem with the straight girl....forget her...it's impossible to turn a straight girl gay. be her close friend ...
2007-03-24 17:48:36 · answer #6 · answered by kenneth x 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
don,t worey about it if yore a girle than thats kife i am a lesbian and i love it.
so domt your boy frennd and fimd a lesbian and go out withe her
hey if you fellin brave try and turn the girle your falling for into a lesbaian
2007-03-26 09:46:19 · answer #7 · answered by Luke G 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You make it sound like you got a letter in the mail informing you of this! How can you be sure you're not bi-sexual or that this isn't a passing attraction?
2007-03-24 17:46:05 · answer #8 · answered by Emily Dew 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do you want to be happy? forget all this lesbian stuff. Be normal.
2007-03-24 17:47:23 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
how did u find out you're a lesbian?
2007-03-24 17:45:23 · answer #10 · answered by J 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋