How old were you the first time you "did it"? Did you love the person you were with? How many of you waited until marriage??
2007-03-24 17:29:05 · 13 answers · asked by lisa M 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
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Yes.
No.
2007-03-24 17:51:38 · answer #1 · answered by Poppet 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am 17 and I am still a virgin and though I am not strongly against sex before marriage, I am planning on waiting just because I want to go to university and start a career as a professional and I feel that that would be a little difficult if I had a child to care for as being a parent is a full-time responsibility. My boyfriend and I have been together for over 2 years and we are very much in love and we have talked about sex and have mutually decided that now is not the time.
2007-03-25 02:42:37 · answer #2 · answered by hahtnamas 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Just after turning 22, which was about 3 months ago now. It just never came up before in my life. We are not married and have been together for less than 6 months as of right now. When I "did it", it was with someone I love very much and would love nothing more than to spend the rest of my life with (HE even brings up the "kids subject" and runs away with it)
Sex (unlike what other people may say or think) is not the "end all, be all" of life. However, it's meaningful if done under YOUR terms and not by force or coercion, but done as something borne from love.
2007-03-25 03:03:09 · answer #3 · answered by Jessica C 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I was 18 my first time. I didn't wait till I got married, but I am married to him. I had other opportunities before and after that, and I almost slept with a couple other guys, but it just didn't feel right at the time. My husband is the only one I ever slept with, and I am very thankful for that.
2007-03-25 00:50:31 · answer #4 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i waited till i was 20 and to me that was close enough to marriage the funny thing about sex is the fact that untill you have done it a couple of time you don't have the desire to do it every day but once you get a liking for it your addicted.
and with him for a year. yeah i loved him and i don't regret it but it does anoy me the fact that he was my first and it didn't last but hey you can't have everything.
2007-03-25 00:56:04 · answer #5 · answered by kaceek21 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i was about 13 going on 14 when i first "did it" and yes i was terribly in love with the guy i was secretly dating for about a year and a half. for some reason, i never thought about waiting until i got married because when you're in love, you'd always, always wish (and sometimes even think) that the person you're with at the moment would be that last person whom you would go to bed with.
2007-03-25 00:35:18 · answer #6 · answered by vanilla zaraberi 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Married, in love, 23 years old, still married and we still love each other.
One of the best series of decisions in my life, especially waiting for my husband and remaining a virgin.
Many younger people today are going to regret having sex at such a young age when they get older.
2007-03-25 01:06:46 · answer #7 · answered by Sue F 7 · 1⤊ 1⤋
16 and been with the same guy for almost 9 years since.
2007-03-25 00:44:48 · answer #8 · answered by Sara D 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Too young. If I could take it back, I would. I wish I would have waited!
2007-03-25 00:42:06 · answer #9 · answered by AO 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
wat can i say? im 16 and i havnt got laid yet, dont really care anyways cuz the one person i really love is straight so it's never gonna happen...i've got bigger things to think about than sex right now. plus, y have sex if u dont love and care about the person? that's just my personal opinion. (btw, this is what pisses me off about that old 'all gays and bis are promiscous' stereotype, its not true, dont get sucked into believing it.)
2007-03-25 00:43:36 · answer #10 · answered by choux pastry heart 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
i was 14 and right now im still with that person and yes i love them
2007-03-25 00:35:24 · answer #11 · answered by Ashley M 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋