but im only 15 what do you guys think???
2007-03-24 17:33:00 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
If you are asking us for advice, then you are not ready. There is plenty of time for that, and if he is pressuring you, then he doesnt really love you. Dont give it up for a jerk, there are sooo many nice guys out there!!!!!! Please go find one, or better yet, forget the guys for now, and hang out with your girlfriends!!!!!!!!
2007-03-24 18:05:09 · answer #1 · answered by laura D 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Personally, I wouldn't. Though I am not a firm believer in waiting until after marriage to have sex, I think that you have to make sure that you are ready for the changes in your life that could result. At 17, I am still a virgin and I am planning on keeping it that way for at least another couple of years. My boyfriend and I have been together for over 2 years on and off and we have had several discussions on our sex lives and whether or not we should do it. The agreement we have come to is that if it happens it happens, but we both have to be sober, emotionally ready, and proper protection needs to be used because you don't want an unexpected pregnancy or STD. There are other ways to show affection for one another than sex, and if you are having any doubts about it whatsoever, then do not do it. If he forces you to go through with it (rape) tell your parents (I know it would be awkward, but they need to know), call your local police, and talk to your doctor to insure you are okay physically. I hope this helps and be safe!
2007-03-25 02:33:29 · answer #2 · answered by hahtnamas 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, I'm sure he does. That is why he is your boyfriend. The questions you have to ask yourself is, Do you want to have sex, Do you have the appropriate birth control, and protection against STD's (and don't believe men when they say they have never had sex) and What will your life be like if this happens. It won't make you older. Another question is do you want to commit to a relationship with this person? There are so many things that you need to take into consideration.
Make sure you know what you really want.
2007-03-25 01:41:01 · answer #3 · answered by bettyboop 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are too young!! Wait til you are older and with a guy you seriously think you want to marry before having sex. No need to do anything just to see what it is like. It has much more meaning and is much better when you are with someone you truly love.
2007-03-25 01:09:00 · answer #4 · answered by 420Linda 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
DON'T! I'm pregnant now and I totally regret it! Wait till marriage or until your at least ready to support a child.
2007-03-25 00:37:04 · answer #5 · answered by Catherine K 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well if your not ready for that then just tell him and if he truely likes you and respects you then hell wait and drop the subject
2007-03-25 12:35:35 · answer #6 · answered by ~*Brianna*~ 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋