How old were you the first time you were asked out by someone?

Question

are you a guy or a girl?
i'm 14 (fish in HS) and still haven't been asked out by anyone, and even one guy hasn't showed any signs that he's interested in me.
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why do guys seem to only go by looks?

Answer 1

To answer your question, I was asked out for the first time when I was around 14 or 15.

However, this might be what you're REALLY looking for: I had never been in a relationship or even gotten to a SECOND date with someone until just before I turned 22. A little over 5 months ago, I met the man I love, who loves me more than I could ever imagine anyone ever loving me.

We met by chance -- when neither of us were even looking! I was his waitress (on top of that, it was Friday the 13th in October. I was actually filling in for someone else's shift, and he almost never even went to the restaurant in the first place). Since then, it's been wonderful.

So, life's pretty funny. Don't lose heart. I know you hate hearing this (I know I did, but it's true), you've got plenty of time. Let's say you live to a nice age of, say, 84-ish. That's 70 more years -- 7 decades more to go.

Oh, and as for why guys go for looks: Guys are *******, but there are some good ones out there (I somehow found one). I was an Ugly Duckling when I was your age. Time has been kind to me. I'm not model-ready, but I look a hell of a lot better than I did during puberty.

Answer 2

I was 18 when someone first asked me out. I don't feel lame for it at all. There are plenty of people older than you (and me!) who are in the same predicament.
Personally, I wouldn't want to be asked out in high school anyway. Most guys are still immature jerks at that time, too interested in sports or video games to be interested in real people. Not worth it.
Boys only go for the most incredible looks because everything they do is shallow, men often go for other positive traits, and even go as far as to admit that all (or most) women are beautiful...
So just wait, don't worry, enjoy being single and unhindered. Or go to a Latin American country where you won't want for anything... ;D

Answer 3

well I am 27 and I have never been asked out, I have asked several people out and been shot down quite a bit. Why do guys seem to go by looks?? well that is a question that is as original as the guy in question, I go not just by looks but by how a person presents themself, if they are cute but act stupid, it doesnt work..however if they are not that cute but act more intelligent, it evens out. So, if you have no guys interested in you, take it from a guy, it might not be your time yet.....you have the rest of your life and besides, alot of my girl-friends that went on to college say the best guys are in college...so just keep your chin up and everything will work out.

Answer 4

I'm a guy and I'm 21 years old. Not all guys ask girls with good looks. You just have to have a connection with them. To counter the question why does the guy always have to ask? There maybe a guy out there thinking about you but is just to shy to ask or even talk to you.

Answer 5

I felt the same way in high school, until I realized it's HIGH SCHOOL. Basically just go there to get all the A's you can get so you can attend a college like Harvard or Duke and make some friends, and the boyfriend will eventually arrive, and preferably in college where he's probably going to end up being very successful. Remember, patience is virtue.

Answer 6

first of all, i am a girl of 20 years. i have been first asked out by someone when i was 12 (he was pressured to do so). had a boyfriend by the time i reached high school (which was about 13 because everyone had one). went steady for a couple of years (approximately 2.5 years because i have come to love the guy) and dated around about 3 years since the "break-up" (because i thought it was the most sensible thing to do next). one tip: guys go for girls who are more natural and at ease with themselves and is accepting of who they are. sure guys like girls who are pretty and popular but the word "pretty" and "popular" are such a subjective descriptions of someone who likes a certain type or a certain somebody (angel aquino is pretty and popular to me but not to you).

don't ever think that you are unattractive because you're not. maybe that perfect guy for you is in another town so don't succumb to the pressures of your society that at that age or by high school you have to be dating someone or at least have someone taking you out or something. you're too young to be pressuring yourself like that. just keep on doing what you're doing and looking pretty by yourself. maybe the guy who really wants to ask you out is just mustering the courage to say something to you because he's too scared to ask you out because he thinks you'll never go out with him. just wait a little. your time will come soon;)

Answer 7

I'm female and 24. I was asked out the first time when I was 23. All the other jerks before never actually asked me out, we just hang out and that got me nowhere! Give it some time sweety!

Answer 8

i'm a girl (22), i've never been asked out... but life's not all about dating, relationships, and all that mushy stuff... just love being young, and soon enough you will be dating, and wishing you were single...lol... when the time is right it will happen for you... don't rush it.

Answer 9

meg. i'm 19. just remember that guys are lame. i haven't been asked out buy a girl. twice on two occasions i went to a mall with two different girls. both said it wasn't a date. i never met with them again. lol. this stuff takes time!!!
it's lame. as am i...

Answer 10

i'm a boy.actually she didn't asked me to go out with her but i'm the one who asked her.i was 15 years old on that time.
i don't care about the looks but in do care about the personality of a person.
we can talk if you want to..(^-^)