My boyfriend and I have been together for going on four years. He'll be 21 and I'll be 20, both in May. We've talked about marriage and will (hopefully!!) be getting engaged soon. Our plan has been to move into an apartment not far from where each of us live now, stay there for a while, then after we're married and save up enough money, build our own place on his property.
Now his mom has a new idea and he LOVES it. Instead, she wants us to take over his grandmother's house, which is only a mile away from his property. He loves it down there, its out in the boondocks (ie: the neighbors are at least a mile away...). We'd also be living and taking care of his grandma, who LOVES us. I like the idea, but its 45 minutes from my home, my current job, and my family.
He's upset that I don't really WANT to move there right away, I'd rather get an apartment first. I'm so lost, I don't know what to do. And I need to make the decision soon so "he knows what to do". Help!
2007-03-19
07:40:54
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Megan Deann
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