Can it really be time to leave the relationship???? Read details!?

Question

Well, I have been with my current boyfriend for almost 3 years now. Recently, I think that he is losing interest in our intimate time together. When we are together, he seems to be caring and loving, but then I bring up the conversation about us spending some time ALONE and he justs tries to avoid it. I feel as thought he doesn't want to satisfy me and that is hurting the relationship because if he can't satisfy, how can I satisfy him? I don't have a problem satisfying him. Also, we talk less and less at night and that is something that has never happened before, because ever since we met and started the relationship, we have always talked at night. I am starting to think that he is talking to someone at night and having really "good" conversation with that someone. Recently, he doesn't bring up "sex" anymore and doesn't seem to be interested. Could it be time to leave the relationship? What can I do? We both love each other, but can there be a solution? Help please, with any advice.

Answer 1

Before you jump to conclusions talk to him. Tell him that you need to have a serious heart to heart talk with him. If he doesn't show interest in having the talk then write him a letter. If by chance you decide to move on you can at least say you tried to talk to him before doing so.

Answer 2

Yall need communication quick. It is OBVIOUS that something is bothering him and even more OBVIOUS that he does really wanna share. Let him know how you feel. Tell him you need to feel close to him. Set up something romantic. He has to realize his actions are detrimental to how you feel about your realtionship. If that doesnt work, maybe his interest is fading and you can ask what bring back that special something. If all else fails, you have to do what you have to do.

Answer 3

Talk to him about it..... sounds like you two are losing interest.. you have to keep it alive with new stuff...