My mom slept with my kids dad!!! While I was pregnant him and I spilt up for a couple of days and my mom went and got drunk with him then went back to his house and slept in our bed together!!! She told him not to tell me, and if that's not the top of the cake she told me to get back with him. Which I did and had another baby by him before I finally found out the truth. When I found out I was raged and broke up with him what should I do to my mom?
2007-03-19 08:27:24 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
It's not about what you should do to your mom.
You have to take a look at the way you were raised. Apparently, there weren't enough boundaries btwn parent and child in your home (not your fault, your mom's). It's not appropriate for mother and child or mother and children's friends/spouses to socialize to the point where they go out and get drunk with each other. Boundaries.
Remember, parents are not supposed to be your buddies. In the future, don't hang out at moms and drink and party. You have to take some responsibility for setting the stage by allowing certain behaviour (going out an getting drunk, infidelity (you had 3-somes)) to exist in your household. You may be surrounded by people who live that way, but it's not normal.
Your mom is a skank ho. She betrayed you in a most horrendous way. You have to forget about her and focus on yourself. After you are grown up and strong, you will have a new perspective; then you will know how to deal with your mom.
2007-03-19 08:51:00 · answer #1 · answered by limendoz 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
get her on the jerry springer show theyll teach her a thing or two about sleeping with relatives;and i would not allow her to be around the children either because she stepped over the line your kids will not suffer they just might be saved from another saga as such ya never know
2007-03-19 08:36:09 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I do not know if you confronted your mother already. If not, you can let her live the rest of her life with the guilt. throw simple remarks here and there and make her wonder if you found out. Dont ever say you know it. Play her game to her. I feel sorry for you girl. But hang in there.
2007-03-19 08:44:07 · answer #3 · answered by "Vallamkali" 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That is a tough deal. I am glad that you broke up with the bf. Your mom hurt you bad and I wouldn't blame you at all if you never talked to her again. Ultimately though, that is your decision and when you make that decision, you need to make it clear to her what you want.
Good Luck!
2007-03-19 08:31:57 · answer #4 · answered by Jo 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
thats up to you and you only if it was me im afraid to say i dont think i could talk to her ever again if you cant trust your own family who can you trust. imagen you meet another guy would you trust him and your mum alone? before you know it your argueing with your new partner because of what you mom and ex did. not worth the hassle cut ties now is what i would do.
2007-03-19 08:38:41 · answer #5 · answered by NICOLA G 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Move away, and never allow her to see her grandchildren. I wouldn't ever trust her again . She knows what she did was wrong also , but she didn't care to think about you .
You have every right to be angry , Be sure to sue this man also for custody and child support. Its much too hard for you to swallow his non-sense as well.
2007-03-19 08:41:06 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
I think you should leave him. As for your mom I would not speak to her. This is my personal feeling on this. He should have known better and not put him self in that situation and she should have known better she is your mom.
2007-03-19 08:34:07 · answer #7 · answered by titalu1963 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
go on springer & beat the crap out of both of them! Then sell the trailer & move!
2007-03-19 08:32:15 · answer #8 · answered by halloweenbride97 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i would never trust her again-that just went too far
2007-03-19 08:52:25 · answer #9 · answered by darlene1989 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
thats something jerry springer should handle..
2007-03-19 08:55:19 · answer #10 · answered by cryingtree1979 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋