My ex gf and I talk on a regular basis. She started dating someone a week after our split, and they've been 2gether for 2 months. I've had various friends tell me it sounds like she's keepin me on the back burner in case this new thing doesn't work out. She's called at 11pm a couple of times (he obviously wasn't staying) and we've exchanged alot of emails and talk expressing our thoughts and feelings. we had a very deep feeling relationship that ended because of her intuition. intuition apparently is french for 'the other guy' LOL anyways Ladies, your thoughts on this? we've had face to face talks a few times and always end up in tears and long embraces, there is feelings still there...i think she's confused, i KNOW i am. i'll take any thougts on this, but mainly interested in what goes on in the mind of the woman in this situation. does it sound like back burner stuff? does this happen intentionally? what should i do? walk away & have nothing to do with the situation?
2007-03-19 08:09:28 · 6 answers · asked by Willie D 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
She still cares about you & can't have both of you. She still has you in her life, but chooses too have the other guy too.
I'd tell her that she needs to choose between the 2 of you.
2007-03-19 08:14:02 · answer #1 · answered by Michelle *The Truth Hurts 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
From the mind of a woman... yes! Sorry! ;) It definitely sounds like she's keeping you on the back burner... like she likes you, but she thinks there may be something better out there. Don't sit and wait. Get out there and do your own thing.
2007-03-19 15:23:06 · answer #2 · answered by Sugar Magnolia 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If this girl is your ex then your not on the back burner your not together! Shes dating other guys. If you want to get back together come right out and tell her so, if she says yes she wants to get back together and have a relationship then all dates are off.
2007-03-19 15:16:27 · answer #3 · answered by letthepartybeginnow 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's possible she's keeping contact with you as a Plan B...but it will only work if you allow it. There's no reason you cannot be friends with her or friendly toward her if you desire to do so, but be careful that you're not being strung along in case her current situation doesn't work out.
Move on with your (romantic) life and don't wait around hoping she'll come back to you...
2007-03-19 15:13:40 · answer #4 · answered by . 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
cant really explaine why we do this. i left my ex of 8 years in 9/05 and I still text him occasionally. I keep in contact with him because i still care about him even though i live with my new bf. if there is a lot of time invested in the relationship, the curiousity of the ex will always be in the back of your mind. dont sit around and wait for her and dont continue to hold her if you see her!
2007-03-19 15:15:14 · answer #5 · answered by smartie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
she is keeping you on the back burner..it just depends on what you want to do about it
2007-03-19 15:13:30 · answer #6 · answered by T 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋