I have tried spanking, time-out, and seperation
2007-03-19 08:31:01 · 12 answers · asked by diva_dan74 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Point rewards. Set the rules and if they obey them they get a point. If they brake them a point gets taken away. When they get to 10 points they have a chance to spin the dial for a prize
Prizes:
Pick a restaurant
Stay up in a school night
Have a sleep over
In the rules and rewards include extra points fro helping each other with homework or being nice to each other when one is not feeling well etc.
Good Luck
2007-03-19 08:36:23 · answer #1 · answered by Georgie 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
My mum's friend has 3 very hyperactive children.
She has a "token box" hidden in her bedroom. And a chart in the kitchen.. Its like a bar chart... She has the names underneath and numbers at the side. She let her children colour in there own backgrounds themselves. They had to share the pens and get on together! I was there and she asked them stuff like " Do you like the flower your sister just drew?" And just kept reminding them to only draw on there bit. Then when the kids had done something good... she gives them a token.. which are in all different shapes... Some stars.. and hearts etc. The kids also coloured these in together. Then when the got a token for being good.. she sticks it on the bar chart... when they get 15. My mums friend buys them a prize. it ony has to be like a £1 packet of sweets or hotwheels car. But sometimes she tells them if they get 20 they can have a bigger prize. But she only does this occasionally. If they are naughty she takes stars away.
It seems to work but i dno. i think she got the idea from super nanny on tv.
This might work.. Hope you find something that does.
Good Luck x.x
2007-03-19 09:36:25 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
sounds like a job for super nanny on that tv show,, you are doing something wrong with them, when spanking and time out do not work, there are other options,
where is the father? grand parents, someone,
2007-03-19 08:35:40 · answer #3 · answered by rich2481 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You need to watch ABC's Super Nanny or get Jojo to help you out. Spanking is not the answer.
2007-03-19 08:34:04 · answer #4 · answered by "Vallamkali" 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
do they have seperate space? Maybe they need a break from eachother? Reward them when they do get along. Like hey guys you have been so great tday, lets go get ice cream.??? I dont know every child is different. keep trying. Good luck!
2007-03-19 08:37:17 · answer #5 · answered by sandibum 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
May I gingerly suggest family counseling most insurances pay for it if not I'm sure there's some professional you cloud try maybe even the school guidance counselor at ether one of your children's school.....who know what can it hurt ..it actually might help....good luck
2007-03-19 08:39:37 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i have gotten some really good tips from super nanny. i have 4 boys and my 8 yr old has adhd. i couldn't believe how much some of her techniques worked
2007-03-19 08:35:11 · answer #7 · answered by darlene1989 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
when my nephew is nauty he has his playstation taken away. take somthing away that they really love. showing how much you appreciate when they do somthing good works well to as they see you happy and you praise them which makes them feel happy its an all round winner everyone likes to be praised rather then punished.
2007-03-19 08:35:40 · answer #8 · answered by NICOLA G 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
well...i guess...its an age whre such behaviour is normal....almost all d kids r like tht....dont worry its normal.....
2007-03-19 08:38:10 · answer #9 · answered by naturelover 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
send them to military school
2007-03-19 08:33:43 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋