Other - Family & Relationships - 19 March 2007

how do you handle days when you feel insecure about things in your life? i don't know why, but i get very insecure sometimes, and i was just wondering what i could do to get past this issue. thanks...

2007-03-19 12:59:32 · 3 answers · asked by *KiM* 6

We have been through arguments and so called " breakups" but we've always stayed together. Shes been trying to get the point into my head lately that she needs her space, that I dont have to get pissed if she makes plans with someone other than me. So last nite, we get into another argument. I said some hateful things and grabbed my stuff and left there believing we could be finished. Now she has always stayed with me and I feel if I just give her her space this time she will come back and realize wht we have together. Is this a reasonable assumption considering she feels i am always over her shoulder? Would it be wise to let her come to me, not call her or see her for a while until she calls. and HAS THIS APPROACH EVER WORKED FOR ANYONE? And trust me, she is the type of person that needs her time alone after a bad argument and i never have respected it.

2007-03-19 12:57:31 · 3 answers · asked by Carlos 2

We tried to raise a stable, interesting child. He is 19 now and wants to have nothing to do with us. He is depressed and confused. We are not overbearing, have given support, opportunities, love... He's ready to "be free", and he is old enough. But Mom's heart is broken, I hurt when he hurts, and I feel like a part of me is gone. I know I'll get over it, but I am overwhelmed with pain, like a bear losing it's cub. Support?

2007-03-19 12:56:33 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous

Some women, usually it is women, treat theri children as if they are dogs. They give them looks that would kill, tell them to shut up and act like they are afraid that people are going to feel as if the kids have no respect for them. Those poor kids must be afraid to move wrong. The look sare enough to make me afraid. Why does this happen? Insecurity?

2007-03-19 12:51:56 · 21 answers · asked by greenfrogs 7

Yes we have arguments in our relationship. But their over pathetic things. I let the coal fire go out. Which led to an all night argument where she brought up every argument we have ever had. She then went on to punch me, kick me, scram me and slam a door on me when I fell in the doorway. This seems to happen every time we argue. No matter what its over. I feel like I've lost every bit of confidence I once had. I dont feel like I can function without her. Its allways me that tries to make things better. And Id be willing to do that forever. Despite it all I still love her. I know she can be nice. But I cant take the hurt anymore. I guess this is two questions really. Can she love me and do this to me? How can I move on with my life? I wish I could put more detail here. Dont know where to start and theres just too much to say.

2007-03-19 12:49:55 · 18 answers · asked by doodle 2

but after the night i've had i feel like getting ratted,wanna join me,cheers

2007-03-19 12:49:21 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-03-19 12:48:46 · 35 answers · asked by jswen.nycq 1

Ok so my fiancee and I have been living together 3 years now. We both have full time jobs but his ends when he gets home. I have to come home to my 2nd job. I clean house, wash clothes, prepare his dinner and make his lunch and endlessly clean up after him. Oh and I do this on the weekends too. When I ask to eat out he gets mad and would rather have me cook at home. He thinks this is what being married is all about, but I disagree. Am I wrong? Guys?

2007-03-19 12:48:44 · 13 answers · asked by DIANE 1

give me answers!! please HELP ME!!

2007-03-19 12:40:06 · 8 answers · asked by imabetchh 1

if someone wrote this on there myspace what does this mean?"someone appears to be spamming your comments along with mine".

2007-03-19 12:31:42 · 6 answers · asked by JXSPhoenix 1

okay so i spent the weekend with this guy and i know him through one of my best friends and i have 3 main friends. well we had a good time and he knows that i kinda like him but i still don't really know him....well before today he's been actin like he likes me and he hasn't been shy but we spent friday day and then night with him (me and my friends) well he was being really cool during the day, but when he picked us up he was with some other friends and this other girl, and they didn't really look like they were together because i'd never seen her before. well today all of my friends were talkin with him and his friends and he didn't once look or talk to me....what does this mean? but he's been like really cool with me before this....

2007-03-19 12:17:55 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous

I have some friends, and my family's close to me. They look for me a lot and want to spend time with me.
But I feel as if no one ever has really known me.. deep inside.
I don't know, I feel as if I'm sorrounded by people yet at the same time alone.
Don't get me wrong, I like to be alone. But I also think that if no one really knows my special deep side, only my outside typical normal side, then.. I'm no one. I wish I could really show who I am.
But.. I can't. What can I do?, why am I like this?.
Thank you :)

2007-03-19 12:15:08 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous

She is gorgeous, whenever I see her I can't look away. I can't not listen to her voice. Her skin, her eyes, wow. I'm completely smitten. The last time I saw her I found out she has the same birthday as I do! The problem is - she is married - as am I.

It's not like I go looking for her but we frequently cross paths. I don't want to think about her this way - I wish I didn't feel the way I do. Will it just go away over time? Should I tell someone about it? Should I talk to her? What would you do?

2007-03-19 12:14:38 · 5 answers · asked by poncewill 2

2007-03-19 12:00:45 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous

i asked this earlier, but i really need help. here goes

one of my good friends and r having some problems. she has been ignoring me alot and trys 2 hide it. i know shes a flake and i cant rely on her 4 much, but she has sum issues that really need help. i wanna help her but shes always using me. she only talks about herself and im getting tired of her. my mom said maybe i need 2 let her just slide on but its hard bcuz shes friends w/ my sis so she just keeps poping up. idk if i should hold on 2 her and try 2 work things ot or if i need 2 let her go. we used to be bffs i hate having 2 watch her fall. i care about her, but shes draging me down. idk how much longer i can play this game w/her. 1 of my friends thinks i need 2 let her go but idk yet. please help.

(p.s. this is the exact same ? i asked earlier)( please help!)

2007-03-19 11:59:59 · 16 answers · asked by llamasrcool67 2

Not physically but emotionally. I've been betrayed and hurt in the past by women so I kinda want to hurt them back as revenge. I want to date them, gain there trust, and then cheat on them with a friend or family member of theres. I know it may seem wrong but I think its the only way to feel better again.

2007-03-19 11:57:44 · 42 answers · asked by cbcvb b 1

a very good character to a bad one, I ask him why he said he did not change, he talk to me anyhow, do things at my back, the most annoying of it all is, the more he hurt I cry, the more I love him I need help. dont even say I should sit him down, cos I have done that several times all he does is insult me and argue with me, we both behave like cat & dog Cos he just dont understand.. Am crazily in love can someone tell me what to do.

2007-03-19 11:55:15 · 24 answers · asked by Sammie T 1

A wet beer on a warm summers day , or a wet woman on a cold winters night?

2007-03-19 11:53:48 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous

Do you know anyone who has had the same type of mother ?How did the children turn out .

2007-03-19 11:49:26 · 10 answers · asked by ©smegma 1

enjoy it if you were the sunbather?

2007-03-19 11:49:21 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous

We dated for 3 ½ years. About a two months ago we found out his dad got offered 90,000 dollars to move and he had to move to Texas with his parents, so we broke up. ALL TOO QUICK its hard to come to terms that he is really gone. Within one week of being there, he stopped picking up my phone calls and now two weeks later has a new girlfriend i know this because i found his new myspace. I don’t get it, how can he not miss me? The first couple of days he was calling me non-stop & crying. I didn’t cry for the first 4 days, I stayed strong for him. Then the first day I broke down and cried to him on the phone… was the last day we talked. Im so depressed and I have no idea how to let go… or move on… I just want to get over it… it hurts so bad. ANYONE PLEASE HELP!!

2007-03-19 11:47:03 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous

How do I kiss my girlfriend who has never been kissed before I want to make it a memorable one (not just a peck!)
Also what should the process leading up to the kiss be like? What should I do?

2007-03-19 11:42:29 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous

I am 33 years old, single, and have never had kids. Whenever I tell someone this, or meet up with old friends from highschool, they say, "Ohh, you never had kids or got married? Is there someone special in your life? You live all alone?" They act like they feel sorry for me, and like I am some kind of freak. I have spent a lot of time on my education and creating a future for myself. Also, unlike them I know what birth control is, and use it! Why do people do this?

2007-03-19 11:39:03 · 10 answers · asked by jabegall 3

Do you think this is true and applicable to real life?

2007-03-19 11:34:19 · 5 answers · asked by Robert G 1

im afraid of getting rejected! what should i do .. please help....

2007-03-19 11:31:09 · 5 answers · asked by karmin 1

And I've done nothing with guys.... who's the normal one??

2007-03-19 11:23:43 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-03-19 11:23:13 · 1 answers · asked by helen b 3

i recently slept with this girl who i was dating but i didnt use protection she has had a test and said if she is pregnant she is keeping it and doesnt want me to be the dad and wants some one else's name on the register and and im not aloud to call it son or daughter, im so messed up at the moment, i would love to have a child and raise it and get respect of my child i dont wana have to walk around town whilst some one else is pushing my baby about calling it his child! is what she doing even legal? please help me im in need for some justice

2007-03-19 11:20:35 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous

I mean it hurts that I can't tell my mom I LOVE YOU. Or that I can't cry in front of other people. What can I do to stop being this cold :(

2007-03-19 11:19:28 · 6 answers · asked by Jate is Fate 1

If you're trying to get out of an abusive household, and you tell one of the adults you're leaving, and they become upset and have a heart attack (becuase of either sadness or happiness, you know, general emotional ill health), whether they survive or not, is the other adult allowed to sue you for it?

2007-03-19 11:10:36 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous