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We have been through arguments and so called " breakups" but we've always stayed together. Shes been trying to get the point into my head lately that she needs her space, that I dont have to get pissed if she makes plans with someone other than me. So last nite, we get into another argument. I said some hateful things and grabbed my stuff and left there believing we could be finished. Now she has always stayed with me and I feel if I just give her her space this time she will come back and realize wht we have together. Is this a reasonable assumption considering she feels i am always over her shoulder? Would it be wise to let her come to me, not call her or see her for a while until she calls. and HAS THIS APPROACH EVER WORKED FOR ANYONE? And trust me, she is the type of person that needs her time alone after a bad argument and i never have respected it.

2007-03-19 12:57:31 · 3 answers · asked by Carlos 2 in Family & Relationships Other - Family & Relationships

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Life is only a game to people who play games. Strategies only work in games and warfare.

If you are serious about this relationship then to need to communicate this to her as soon as possible. If you can't do this face to face, then at least buy a card. Tell her that you went too far this time and said things that you did not mean. BUT only say this if it is the truth.

Then tell her that you wish to honor her request for her own space and you will leave her alone until either she calls or until you cannot tolerate life without her any longer. Again do not say this if you do not mean it.

At this point it is a waiting game. If she never contacts you, she made the choice that you are not important. If you contact her first (and especially if she is not ready), then you made the choice to meet your own needs and ignore hers.

For future reference, if you can figure out how to communicate with getting bent out of shape (emotionally hot), you might find that your relationships will get closer.

2007-03-20 02:52:28 · answer #1 · answered by Richard 7 · 9 0

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2016-10-19 03:02:07 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

First, call her up and apologize to her for the argument.
Then tell her you will give her space but still love her.
Dont wait for her to come around, cause you are a man, so act like one.
Good Luck!

2007-03-20 03:37:18 · answer #3 · answered by sunflare63 7 · 0 0

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