a very good character to a bad one, I ask him why he said he did not change, he talk to me anyhow, do things at my back, the most annoying of it all is, the more he hurt I cry, the more I love him I need help. dont even say I should sit him down, cos I have done that several times all he does is insult me and argue with me, we both behave like cat & dog Cos he just dont understand.. Am crazily in love can someone tell me what to do.
2007-03-19 11:55:15 · 24 answers · asked by Sammie T 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
You must understand that people change and all relationships get boring. Most likely yall are bored with each other and are still bored when you argue. Your not "crazily in love".... Dont you hate it when people tell you...you are too comfortable with him? Let me explain what they really mean....your HUMAN INSTINCTS tell you to hold onto those you love. Why? Because they are your protectors. You love this man...but hes not....fun...for you...all the time and your bored with each other. Your love is your HUMAN INSTICT for preservation. Your situation sounds like your willing to let him break your heart and drag you through the dirt..with him since hes already there (if you do be prepared to break your own life). You best bet is to understand...this is your bodies instincts...there is MUCH better in the world (problably a couple hundred around your neighboorhood), and you could be having...SOO...MUCH MORE FUN.
2007-03-19 12:05:17 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
There are a lot of females with the 'bad boy syndrome', where they seem to keep choosing guys that act bad. I've heard that the trick is to find a good guy and rough him up a bit...lol Anyway, if he's as bad as you say, you really need to think about leaving. If he won't change, it sounds like you'll just be hurt over and over.
2007-03-19 12:00:11 · answer #2 · answered by merlin_steele 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Nobody should be with anyone who insults them, you should leave before the insults change to ASSAULTS it is almost guaranteed to do so. On the other hand you say the two of you are like cat and dog so it could turn out to be you who eventually insults him and then ASSAULTS him. Try mediation and if that doesn't work then leave before someone dose get hurt.
Good luck.
2007-03-20 10:04:40 · answer #3 · answered by Big wullie 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I just got done with a relationship like that, the guy i was with seemed like the greatest thing in the world. i then found out he was making bad choices and he began to change completely. i had to let him go, i tried talking to him but, it just didn't seem to help. when i broke up with him i felt like a part of me was gone but, over time I've realized that i had made the right decision. if things are continuously getting worse and you're not being treated with respect, you need to stand back.
2007-03-19 12:02:10 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
What i think the both of u need is space from each other , not saying as a break up term but just talk on the phone and date but dont be around each othereveryday
2007-03-19 11:59:23 · answer #5 · answered by jada 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Unfortunatly, I extremely have undesirable information for you. appears like he grow to be basically hiding this area of him for you in the initiating and now its popping out as he turns into extra mushy with you. be careful. He sounds dominating and can be abusive sooner or later. i understand you adore him yet dont be worried to leave a relationship. you will locate somebody new, dont stay with an abusive companion. Thats what he's. no person is MAD each and all of the time until eventually they have some psychological difficulty. leave and do it now in the previous you get in too deep!
2016-10-02 10:06:10 · answer #6 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Open your eyes and realise he has no care or respect for you is this the relationship you want because it's obviously not going to change you either accept it or realise he's not the guy who thinks the world of you and would do anything for you and move on and find that guy he will be out there you desreve better
2007-03-20 01:23:30 · answer #7 · answered by suzy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just leave your bf now, he's hurting you. You try to talk to him about this, but all he does is argue with you, so why bother trying to work this relationship if he wont listen to you? Thats not how a loving relationship is suppose to be. You dont deserve to be treated like crap, so move on.
2007-03-19 12:04:00 · answer #8 · answered by =P 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dump him as fast as possible. You're in the very beginning
of an abusive relationship and it will only get worse. BTW,he
didn't change. He's just letting you see his true colors for the
first time.
2007-03-19 12:04:01 · answer #9 · answered by Alion 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
pack a bag and stay with a mate for a couple of days:
give him the chance to miss you
give him the chance to think
give you the chance to think
give you the chance to live life without him, that way if you decide to break up then your used to being without him
2007-03-19 14:10:04 · answer #10 · answered by laneyb_1983 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋