We dated for 3 ½ years. About a two months ago we found out his dad got offered 90,000 dollars to move and he had to move to Texas with his parents, so we broke up. ALL TOO QUICK its hard to come to terms that he is really gone. Within one week of being there, he stopped picking up my phone calls and now two weeks later has a new girlfriend i know this because i found his new myspace. I don’t get it, how can he not miss me? The first couple of days he was calling me non-stop & crying. I didn’t cry for the first 4 days, I stayed strong for him. Then the first day I broke down and cried to him on the phone… was the last day we talked. Im so depressed and I have no idea how to let go… or move on… I just want to get over it… it hurts so bad. ANYONE PLEASE HELP!!
2007-03-19 11:47:03 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Remember, men mature a lot slower then women...A LOT! He misses you, and he's hurt, but unlike a woman, he's not going to cry about it, he's going to talk to his friends and they're going to stupidly advise him to move on with another female.
That's exactly what he did...Listened to his friends who are thinking about, not what's best, but what sounds good or "manly"! After 3-1/2 years, he hasn't forgotten about you. Cry a little, vent with your friends, and hang out with some guy friends...
Once you take your mind off of him, you'll have more time to assess yourself and whether you really want to be with him. If the two of you are meant to be, you will eventually get back together and he will appreciate you even more because you weren't sitting around waiting for him.
Guys love a good chase. If you make yourself too available, he will know he can come back to you whenever he wants to. If you are unavailable, he's going to come crawling back.
Make him work though...After all, he did move on rather quickly!
2007-03-19 12:56:21 · answer #1 · answered by Ins2 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You sound young so this may fall on deaf ears but if he moved on that fast it was just an infatuation and this girl will end up getting the same treatment. If he is that important to you, wait til this girl's gone and strike up afriendship with him again. Trust me when I tell you that you'll find someone who wants to be with you and won't dis you like he did. Chalk it up to young love and immaturity.
2007-03-19 11:53:57 · answer #2 · answered by Rae 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It hurts, I know, but you have to move on. Apparently he wasn't that great if he just moved on really quick. Pick up the peices. Leave him and let the pain go to Texas.
2007-03-19 11:51:30 · answer #3 · answered by Nikki 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Most guys dont get so emotionionally attached to women they think in realistic terms he probably just thought that he moved and its over and you will never be together and thats what happened. Sorry to say it may take a while but move on.
2007-03-19 11:53:02 · answer #4 · answered by unknown 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Wow...i don't really know what i can tell you. The guy is either a real jerk or he cares about you and wants you to move on and be happy with someone else since you can't be with him.
2007-03-19 11:51:36 · answer #5 · answered by Brandy N 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
he obviously isnt a good person to just move on. i mean thats just wrong.
move on sweetie, you are so much better off.
go out with your friends and have fun. try not to worry about him anymore. he has moved on...why shouldnt you.
and if he tries calling you, answer it and say "you blew it" and hang up.
he isnt worth your time.
2007-03-19 11:52:14 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Hes a guy
2007-03-19 11:49:58 · answer #7 · answered by troble # one? 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
What else is he supposed to do? Nobody likes to be miserable.
2007-03-19 11:59:49 · answer #8 · answered by mike Z 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
life happens...just role with it!
2007-03-19 11:55:06 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
he's a wise guy
2007-03-19 11:50:55 · answer #10 · answered by schuschtermat 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋