Other - Family & Relationships - 23 January 2007

I love spending time with my boyfriend ( I look forward to coming home to him after work) I like doing nice things for him, I am incredibly attracted to him. I trust him, I respect him and I care for him very much. This is a very healthy relationship where we almost seem like friends but also have sex.

All of my other relationships have been drama filled and emotionally abusing as well as jealousy because of trust issues.

So here is where my problem is arrising. I am not jealous of him and therefore feel as though I dont love him anymore. I trust him and I feel as though if he left of course I could go on. In the past I couldnt even imagine my life without those losers.

So all in all this is very different for me. I enjoy the drama free lifestyle and think that I love him.

Is it true that since I am not jealous of him I dont love him?

I want to spend my life with him but feel as though I cant. And why do I feel like I could go on (not as happy) without him in my life?

2007-01-23 10:04:16 · 4 answers · asked by dawson190154 1

I know this may become heated but I am curious due to answering another persons question.Why do women feel they should have the right to do what they want with their bodies.In most cases we should not be able to be told what we can do but we choose to get pregnant by not taking the percautions that are need to not get pregnant.If we make that choice why should we be able to kill another life.Before you tell me that some women become pregnant against there will I know some women are raped and they become pregnant.That I believe is the only case in which you become pregnant against your will.If your not ready to face the consquences of having sex then don't.But it shouldnt be easy for us to just say I want to have sex and if I get pregnant oh well cause I can kill the fetus.That child should have the right just as anyone else to live.You should not be able to make the decision for another life just because it is in your body.

2007-01-23 09:51:30 · 31 answers · asked by spoiledgal85 1

I have a cousin who is one year older than me...he lives in NY and I live in Chicago...Well the last 2 recent trips my family went up to NY and I began to get mixed signals from my cousin...like he would flirt with me, he would always ask for me, and he would put his arm around my shoulder a lot...I havent brought this up to anyone because what if he doesnt like me and its all in my head...HELP does he like me or not?? and what should I do?

2007-01-23 09:49:28 · 43 answers · asked by ღIsrael's Mommyღ 3

how do i change that?.. how do i act happy, even when i am not?

before you answer.. dont say, see a therapist, or get medication.

im looking for things i can do to just be happier or give off that impression

2007-01-23 09:40:17 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous

I am a stay at home mom of 2 kids. My husband works full time and thinks that he shouldn't have to take turns getting up with the baby in the middle of the night. Also he does not clean, do laundry, dishes, or anything. Is it fair that just because he works and makes money that he shouldn't do anything around the house? Is everyone elses husbands like this? Would appreciate answers from men too!

2007-01-23 09:35:52 · 21 answers · asked by lovemykids 1

Ohh my ex used to stalk me many moons ago , i remember one time i was doing the dishes , which i have to say is a miracle in itself , I looked up and out of the window and he was staring straight back at me !!
He doesnt do this anymore due to the fact i cut his legs off and he can no longer reach the window ...
but seriously anyone have something similar ?

2007-01-23 09:30:06 · 26 answers · asked by jizzumonkey 6

I have only been with my boyfriend for a few days now. My family has a couple of problems. My mom drinks alot and used to be on drugs. I'm not too sure if I should tell him what's going on in my family. It's not that I don't trust him, I do. I just, I'm afraid that if I tell him, that he won't look at me the same anymore and think different of me. Any suggstions, please?

2007-01-23 09:21:35 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous

okay, i have aways tried to push being raped out of my mind. it happened when i was only 8 years old. at school the other day these boys were messing around and talking about me being a **** (everyone knew they were only joking). and then one of them said "oh, dont joke around. we all know she doesn't get any." (still joking) and then someone brought up virginity and it braught back scary memories (this is the middle of my algebra class) and i started crying. now they all think theres something wrong with me (not a making fun of me way). how do i tell them what was really wrong and how can i get this out of my head? i dont want to talk to an adult because its kind of embarrassing. im embarrasses writing this. and my uncle did it to me, thats even worse. even if i didnt want to it, does this mean im not a virgin anymore? please help me.

2007-01-23 09:17:59 · 17 answers · asked by hannah 3

what was it? and would it have been justifiable? I'm asking b/c my friend wants to get revenge on his ex girlfriend and i want him to reconsider! because it will probably start a vicious circle or something.

2007-01-23 09:14:51 · 16 answers · asked by Ms. V 5

My parents gave me the disicoin to move or not, i want to b i get everything i want, and a huge house, private school, and everything i could dream of, but i would be leaving behind my crush, my community, and all of my friends, what should i do??? My crush is the real reason keeping me from moving, i mean, i could get into an ivy league university if i moved

2007-01-23 08:59:03 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous

He is so hot. He is 23 and my mom is 30. So he is not much older than me. Should I tell him I like him or not say anything at all? I think about him all the time. I am so confused!

2007-01-23 08:55:11 · 29 answers · asked by katie m 1

2007-01-23 08:53:30 · 2 answers · asked by Heather R 2

If the person is sat next to you I'll let you lie and be nice.

2007-01-23 08:48:14 · 13 answers · asked by donk 2

2007-01-23 08:46:31 · 11 answers · asked by phil22153 1

Imagine Marcia and Greg Brady. Do you think this is morally wrong?

2007-01-23 08:37:43 · 5 answers · asked by 6th Finger 2

I never seen to do anything right! I had a good job and quit cause i can in drunk and cursed out my boss. (weekend drinking to forget a woman) Always getting caught cheating. I lost the love of my life cause i just couldnt stop lying to her. Finally got caught. And worst part is that i really do love her. I was going to ask her to marry me. She even help me to go back to school, (while she put her life on hold) just for me. How can i be such a bastard? I feel like the scum of the earth. What makes stupid bastards like myself do things like this?

2007-01-23 08:32:32 · 8 answers · asked by Javier S 1

My fiance was recently laid off work and has had little to no change in his daily activities. He's home during the day taking friends to work and playing video games in his spare time. What makes matters worse is that I'm 7 months pregnant with out first child. Work is becoming increasingly difficult and not to mention stressful. He gets angry with me because I try to help with Job searching- he says I'm telling him what to do and that makes him feel like a child. But if I don't, he does nothing. He was supposed to start a new job this month but it doesnt look likely to happen for a while. He's waiting to "get in" to the union. So for now, I'm stuck paying bills while he sits at home waiting for a phone call I feel will never come. What do I do? His mother says, cancel the cable-ok but we have DTV so they'll charge me an arm & a leg to reconnect it. I'm so lost and confused....

2007-01-23 08:28:56 · 6 answers · asked by Jessica S 1

I'm sooo SAD and UPSET!!! no one will get on at all in the house!! i'm not doing well at school because i cant concentrate because im so upset & sad, get home from school and straight on the computer all day. please this is getting so boring & upsetting now please what shall i do?? its soooooooo boring and sad!! please help ?????

2007-01-23 08:13:35 · 10 answers · asked by ♥HELLO♥ 2

Would you be hurt if your boyfriend/husband didn't get you a birthday gift?

I would rather give than receive ANYDAY. But sometimes it's nice to be spoiled. Not necessarily with something expensive, but with something that took extra thought and effort.

My 25th birthday was last Monday and my (live-in) boyfriend came home from work with a card and a cake (I hate cake and he knows that). Of course I happily accepted the card and cake and appreciated it. But it hurt my feelings that he didn’t put much effort into celebrating my birthday. (I didn't tell him this though)

I moved in with him about 7 months ago, not only did I move in with him but I had to move 2 hrs away from my family to do so. I didn’t have my friends or family to celebrate my birthday with so that is the main reason I was hurt he didn’t put the extra effort in it for me.

2007-01-23 08:12:47 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous

I have been dating my boyfriend "A" for nearly four months now. He's constantly calling me, he's so very sweet, and he spoils me rotten. He got me an iPod nano, && some other stuff for Christmas. I try to spoil him, too and we hang out constantly.

I have a good guy friend "C" I met at wakeboarding camp. He lives about two hours away, and we've met up twice since I've been dating "A." Both times we've messed around a bit.

The weird thing is, I don't have any feelings for "C." He knows I have a boyfriend and he knows I really like "A" but "C" thinks I'll eventually date him. If anything, cheating on my boyfriend just makes me like him more. Messing around with "C" was really lame compared to how "A" && I can be together, and I guess the cheating helped me realize that.

The problem is... I kinda like balancing two guys, especially since one of them is okay with it. They both have their uses. What's my deal?!

2007-01-23 08:11:08 · 20 answers · asked by Roni L 1

2007-01-23 08:08:40 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous

i love jimmy fallon but obviously i love my bf but my bf refuses 2 watch nefing to do with him. even doh several of him movies i kno my bf will enjoy but he wnt watch them , but he expects me to watch stuff i dnt like. thiers no way im ever gonna get jimmy fallon and i dnt want him i love my bf how can i convince him.

2007-01-23 07:47:20 · 5 answers · asked by vicky s 3

We were engaged in may of 06 and over the summer I neglected her. i really love her and have struggled to make her beleve that my eyes are now wide open and i realize that this was not an example of a person just being naughty, but a genuine example of someone pushed to the last resort. obviously this guy took atvantage of her sadness over me and filled the void. now i really feel that as time passes, she will regret this and try to come back. i know that if i ever bring it up, i will doom the future of our relationship. I also have my head screwed on straight and vow to never put anything before her (football,"the guys" or whatever) i took her to amsterdam and proposed to her on the beach and went to a concert where it was broadcasted in 25 countries and had a sound bite of my proposal to supllement the real one at the beach. the ring is 1.3 carats and i am still paying for it. we have a LOT of history been together for 7 years.

2007-01-23 07:47:11 · 3 answers · asked by James H 1

i have this crush on a guy at schoo...and everyone says that we make a good couple...one day he kissed me and was really close to me (or with me)...but i asked him why he did that to me three days later, he said i don't know as if he doesn't really want to talk to me. i still have the crush i don't know why, its clinging onto me for some reasons...but i know he's not gonna turn around and like me...my friend confronted him and found out that he was playing me all along..what should i do? yes, i do feel hurt, but at the same time, i still want him! its totally impossible for me to get rid of my crush on him, i don't know why...

2007-01-23 07:44:17 · 5 answers · asked by ChristopheraX 4

he usually spends lot of time and me just a few minutes

2007-01-23 07:35:48 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-01-23 07:30:02 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous

My boyfriend and I had a huge fight on about two weeks ago and as a result broke up. Since then I have tried to talk to him and at first all we did was yell at each other but the last couple times we have talked have been much more civil but im not really sure what to think about another girl. Less than a week after we broke up he added a 16 yr old girl on his myspace (he is 22) now the one day we had somewhat normal conversation he said she was just a girl that worked at a store that he went to all the time. I didn’t really think anything about it but then the morning after I drove out to see him and talk (he said he still loved me and thinks about me and misses me) the girl ended up one space ahead of me on his myspace. Now we talked on the phone Sunday night and I didn’t call him last night (when I do call he usually says he is busy and will have to call me back but doesn’t) now this morning she moved further up on his myspace and is the first person on his list that isn’t

2007-01-23 07:23:03 · 7 answers · asked by Angeleyes 2

hi i was dating this guy for a year and 2 months we lived together and was engaged but i caught him cheating on me and i kicked him out we are still talking just as friends and he wonts us to get back together i still love him but i cant trust him what should i do??

2007-01-23 07:21:59 · 6 answers · asked by got2luvbabygurl 1

2007-01-23 07:13:32 · 26 answers · asked by SUPERMAN 1

when ur feeling depressed..and HE comes and gives u the most warmest hug?
can u really fall for him?

2007-01-23 07:10:30 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous