what was it? and would it have been justifiable? I'm asking b/c my friend wants to get revenge on his ex girlfriend and i want him to reconsider! because it will probably start a vicious circle or something.
2007-01-23 09:14:51 · 16 answers · asked by Ms. V 5 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Revenge is showing that you still care. Success is the key to piss your enemys off and by not reacting will confuse the hell out of her. Ive wanted to get revenge so badly that me thinking about it so much really messed my head up and started to overtake my life and the only way to stop it was too focus on something more positive not negative. Good luck in what you decide. Dont waste your time thinking about crap
2007-01-23 10:00:28 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
When my ex-husband "Informed" me that I was being divorced, he accused me of having an affair (no justification and no I wasn't, I had 3 kids and worked a full-time job like I'd have had time). It was out of the blue. Then he started divorce proceedings (filed, etc without telling me). I was devastated and 5 months later just a week before our planned court date I discovered HE had an affair and still was. Talk about wanting revenge. Well I got it, I stopped the proceedings, tore up the papers he had drawn up and filed against him. It took 18 months to divorce him (painful and slow, but he wanted it over with in 30 days and I didn't let him have the satisfaction. I froze the accounts up too in our joint names (i'd kept one in mine alone). Mine was justifiable and not harmful (physically) to anyone. Really I don't know why if he's with you he wants revenge on his ex. What did she do to him??? I think the best revenge is mental. I think if there's nothing that wrong then his best revenge is to let her see just how happy he is now without her in his life. Makes my ex miserable to know he's gone thru 8 "girlfirends" since our divorce but I have found my first true love again and been happily married for 5 years (and my girls love my husband - pisses my ex off to no end) Oh well, he did it to himself.
2007-01-23 09:24:10 · answer #2 · answered by Mickey 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Of course i think everyone wanted revenge once in there life.. I guess it's a part of life but there is times where people just need to let it go.. People spend years trying to get revenge and then when they confront that person its like WOW you remember that from 7 years ago, and revenge is- no has always been a circle its just up to one of the people or person to let go of there anger.
2007-01-23 09:24:45 · answer #3 · answered by Queens230 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My last boyfriend had an ex-girlfriend who was in need of some serious medication and a short stint in a medical facility. I came home one day and she had handcuffed herself to my front door and had a carving knife against her throat, she had cut her arms and was screaming that I had done it. And if he took her back then she would stop all the stalking they could live happily forever.
I never wanted to take revenge against her, I wanted to kill my boyfriend for somehow letting this woman have my address. We didn’t last long after that and its something I still wish I could punish him for.
2007-01-23 09:21:20 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
yes i did when my ex dumped me when i was 6 months pregnant with his kid for another gurl who was mean to him and later cheated on him. I jsut let it go and my pride is the best i carry wtih me. Getting revenge will lead to some trouble- i woudl leave it alone if i were him and it's your job to convince him to do so.
2007-01-23 09:19:13 · answer #5 · answered by mari d 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
do not i repeat do not get revenge it may sound sweet but your karma will catch up to you, believe me every thing i do out of revenge back fires at me, it may be fun while your doing but in the long run it affects you and the people you love.
2007-01-23 09:21:10 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
Youare right vengence belongs to the Lord. Your friend needs to cool it and let the Lord take care of it and all they need to do is watch. Of course it may take some time as God works very slow in most cases.
2007-01-23 09:21:17 · answer #7 · answered by justice 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
i always want to get revenge and even though i will never do anything about it i still wish a lot of people i know were dead and spending the rest of eternity in the lake of fire.
2007-01-23 09:24:22 · answer #8 · answered by mack j 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
I believe that the best revenge is living well.
2007-01-23 09:20:59 · answer #9 · answered by Tiger by the Tail 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
yes,my brother was hit by a car in a hit and run,the bloke who done it was found 10 miles away cleaning the blood of his car,it was a former friend of his,his day will come
2007-01-23 09:20:31 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋