hi i was dating this guy for a year and 2 months we lived together and was engaged but i caught him cheating on me and i kicked him out we are still talking just as friends and he wonts us to get back together i still love him but i cant trust him what should i do??
2007-01-23 07:21:59 · 6 answers · asked by got2luvbabygurl 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
That's entirely up to you. If you still care for him and want to give him another chance, I'd make sure he does "whatever" it takes to win back your trust.
Only you know what type of relationship you shared and you know if he's truly sorry for what happened. However, the fact that he cheated on you and you weren't even married yet, would give me cause for some concern.
Play it by ear and go with your instincts. If you want to give him another chance then do so. He's the one who cheated so he's the one responsible for proving to you that he can be "trusted" again. He needs to be willing to work on your relationship.
Best of luck to you both.
2007-01-23 07:29:15 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you need to follow your heart. Trust is one of the single most important things in a relationship. No matter how much you love him it can't take away the fact that he cheated. If you can't get past that fact then you can't be in a relationship with him. If you hold anger for him it won't go away with him just promising u he won't cheat anymore. You need to find that forgiveness in yourself before you can accept him back, some never find it in themselves to forget a cheater. If that is your case you can never have a healthy relationship.
hope this helps!
2007-01-23 15:27:38 · answer #2 · answered by Sam s 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no your right about that--you can't trust him--and he prob wants you back for reasons other than love--so he can use you some more while he continues to cheat---you think you know him and love him and he's convincing you he made a mistake....please......let it go in one ear and out the other....there's a reason he's not with the other girl either---she realized he was a loser!
2007-01-23 15:50:51 · answer #3 · answered by Virgo 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you did good. i would have did the same thing . In fact i did . My best friend caught my boyfriend walking another girl home from work , which was his other girlfriend. yeah i loved him , but hes not worth it. any man that wants some one else besides me , doesn't deserve me.
2007-01-23 15:27:43 · answer #4 · answered by c-sexy 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Find a new guy. If he had feelings for you, he wouldn't have cheated on you. What makes you think he won't do it again
2007-01-23 15:25:50 · answer #5 · answered by Donna D 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Love equals Trust
Trust equals Love.
What part of two-plus-two, do you not understand.
If you don't trust. You don't love. Get on with the respect part of Life. YOURS!!
2007-01-23 15:27:02 · answer #6 · answered by Goggles 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋