He is so hot. He is 23 and my mom is 30. So he is not much older than me. Should I tell him I like him or not say anything at all? I think about him all the time. I am so confused!
2007-01-23 08:55:11 · 29 answers · asked by katie m 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
You are too young. Don't say anything at all. Think about something else, like a guy in your class that you have a crush on. I don't think he likes you that way, what you are thinking. He is nice to you because he is with your mom. I am 34. I wouldn't meet a 23 year old to date with anyways. that is my preference. My friend is 37 and she likes 21 year old guys. Each to their own.
2007-01-23 09:16:16 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
That's rediculous! Wait until you're older there are a billion guys out there. Some sleeze-ball who would dump his girlfriend to be with her daughter is not worth your time or your mom's time. This reminds me of Imatation of Life (the movie). Anyway, stay away from him and wait on the right guy. There's close to a 0 likelyhood that he'll marry you in oh say, 7 years.
JMO...
2007-01-23 17:06:18 · answer #2 · answered by Ashley S 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Mom is 30, I suppose you are about 15....isn't it about time for you to start having kids?
The boyfriend sounds like a great candidate
I say go for it.
you can probably move into the trailer next door and he can go back and forth between the two of you.
and you can also make your mom a proud granny at age 32 (if you hurry)
GOOD LUCK
2007-01-23 17:05:44 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Obviously if mom is only 30 you are way below the legal age... sure go ahead and try to get with mom's bf. But you better get use to the idea of visiting him in prison. It's also ridiculous that you would even consider stealing mom's bf.
You need to grow up and if mom's bf is interested in you...he needs to go to prison.
2007-01-23 16:59:58 · answer #4 · answered by westfield47130 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That's a big no - no ... unless you want to start a never ending battle between you and your mom ... love her - and talk to her about your feelings ... there's no reason for the two of you to like the same man ... too many out there ... if you don't talk to your mom about it and let him continue flirting or hitting on you whatever it is he does to make you feel he's attracted to you ... it will get worse ... your mom will start to notice and by then who knows what can happen ... I say get out of this situation - both of you ... asap ... for the sake of your family ... !
2007-01-23 17:04:57 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are very close to causing a terrible situation with you and your Mom. Find things to do other than being around when he's there. You'll get over it. But if you hurt your Mom, it will be so bad that you may never get over it.
2007-01-23 17:01:28 · answer #6 · answered by Suzie 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You don't want to ruin your moms happiness. There are plenty of hot guys out there. You don't just have to fall for the one your mom is bringing home. Go out and get your own guy. Besides, love comes natural.
2007-01-23 17:00:55 · answer #7 · answered by Lawrence H 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Girl that is a HUGE no no...why would you even have these thoughts running through your mind? That is a horrible way of thinking..no disrespect but you should tell your mom is he is making moves on you out of respect for her...she is your mother for crying out loud!
2007-01-23 17:02:28 · answer #8 · answered by Ambitious27 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wow sounds like Jerry springer lol I honestly would not say anything it will make things way to awkward in your house just see what happens as time goes on
2007-01-23 16:59:39 · answer #9 · answered by bkgrl718 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
wow
why not say to your mom...."THANKS MOM for all you have done for me, I think I will screw your boyfriend".
You really should think about dating someone else
NOTHING good can come out of this.
If he does 'pick' you, do you really think you have a chance with this guy long term?
If he cheats on your MOTHER with you, he wont care AT ALL about seeing other women while you are at school all day.
If you mother finds out, your relationship will NEVER be the same again
EVER!
I think you should NOT try to do anything with this 'man' and if he says something to you
REFUSE
besides, if he does go out with you, your mother (If i was her I would) can call the police and have him arrested.
2007-01-23 17:02:20 · answer #10 · answered by kissmymiddlefinger 5 · 1⤊ 1⤋