Other - Family & Relationships - 12 December 2006

Was thinking of dressing up for my fella at christmas as the sexy santa (tiny santa dress, red stockings, suspenders and hat of course) and wondered what other guys thought of this, do you think its sexy and fun or naff and a good way to make an **** of yourself!!

2006-12-12 13:02:15 · 10 answers · asked by Budapest1 2

Do they get it from watching too many soap operas? Is it genetic? I do not mean sound angry but you all know what I mean

2006-12-12 12:51:30 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous

i love a girl for some seven years. she knows that but she is married and innocent (mean - she considers she has given a promise though her husband is a criminal, sorry). they have two grown up children but she doesnt love her husband. should she stay innocent?

2006-12-12 12:46:25 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous

That I'm adult and I can make my own decision without her interfering...every time I want to do something..she will say her opinion and I step back...deep inside I know she is right...but still I want to choose my own path.

2006-12-12 12:29:31 · 26 answers · asked by Aquamarine 5

but not the other. This came about because she rang her mother the day after Christmas complaining that she didn't like anything that she had received. We were all there at the time and witnessed the phone call and were disgusted at how ungrateful she was. For years she has bought everyone cheap crap and we had bought nice things. Now, someone in the family has leaked that we buy for one sister. She will never confront me or say anything to my face, so have we been wrong all this time? Should I get something little for the ungrateful woman in the spirit of Christmas or keep the secret that we have for the last 5 years?

2006-12-12 12:28:36 · 9 answers · asked by Kylie 6

ok my husband and i are in a HUGE fight about this. He does not like my parents due to the fact that he hit me and they found out and said something to him. They also helped me get out of his house and get my own place. He went to counseling so we are trying to make things work (its not going so well) anyway.... I wanted to take the kids to my mom's to open presents on christmas eve. He will be working anyway so its not like we're leaving him home alone. He said that his son is not allowed at their house and if I take them he or someone else will "kick their door in" He says that if my mom and dad want to give them presents I have to pick them up and bring them to our house.

I totally disagree. I feel like my parents have just as much right to see our son as his do. I cant help it if his mom lives out of state. I also think it is rude and disrespectful to go pick up the presents they got our kids and rob them of the joy of seeing gifts opened.

what would you do?

2006-12-12 12:08:08 · 17 answers · asked by Miranda 2

It feels like the world is stopped, for some reason it feels depressing after?

2006-12-12 12:07:15 · 10 answers · asked by DannyC 2

2006-12-12 12:05:07 · 14 answers · asked by black barbie 1

I'm pretty much already in debt, am in between jobs and live at home. Next year, I'm looking to make a career change, as well.

Life at home has been getting quite stressful. My parent has a pretty strong personality, and due to my upbringing about respecting your elders, etc.. I take a lot of guff.. and now, inside my head, it's getting to a near boiling point...which is not good.

Thus, I figure, to save my relationship as a son, as well as to live on my own, which I definitely crave, I'm considering taking out a large cash advance on my credit card...and remember, I am already in debt... I'm wondering if this will be worth it.. now, I don't have any other places to 'crash' at, like friends' houses or those of extended family members'.

Should I take the financial hit (I'm sure I'll land work and probably find a second job, too) in the short-term, but pay it off gradually so I can make this move? Living at home has definitely affected my eteem as a man, as well..

2006-12-12 11:59:50 · 1 answers · asked by StantheMan 1

2006-12-12 11:58:56 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous

My wife used to love wearing lingerie, stockings and high heels but now finds if I ever mention it it becomes a taboo subject and she refuses to discuss it ?

We love each other but this matter is non-negotiable

2006-12-12 11:55:25 · 14 answers · asked by raythecat 2

It's me and my family is taking too personal, am I wrong for not wanting presents for my b-day?

2006-12-12 11:36:49 · 29 answers · asked by me me 3

I personally--from experience--do not believe it can buy you happiness.

2006-12-12 11:26:08 · 13 answers · asked by Addicted To Abercrombie & Fitch 2

Why do people have to follow the siciety in putting their lives through school. I mean God made us, why can't we be able to do whatever the hell we want with our lives.
Like trying to enjoy it. Without having to do as we're told by going to school and all..

2006-12-12 11:19:42 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous

My parenst always fighting each other. they never be happy. It is so painful when I watching them. . life is so sucks ...

2006-12-12 11:14:28 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous

2006-12-12 11:12:19 · 36 answers · asked by KuriousK 1

i love my boyfriend dearly but cant come to terms with his past. he recently confessed to me that he has slept with over 30 escorts.
would you be able to sleep with someone, knowing that he has been with them, or should i kick him to the curb, even though its in the past?

2006-12-12 11:10:33 · 10 answers · asked by Samiya 2

I love some of the funny and quirky answers here and was wondering who your favourite person is right now..............i'm expecting sarcastic answers...but that's cool! I want to hear all your answers regardless of the content......
Not sure who mine is yet but have one or two in mind....will let you know another time

2006-12-12 10:57:03 · 17 answers · asked by Samiya 2

what do you guys like in girls what do you like them to wear,smell like ,there hair,fat,skinny??

2006-12-12 10:55:50 · 8 answers · asked by results please!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! 1

if so, why do you not like them and would/could you forgive them?
feel free to vent. it makes for a better read.

2006-12-12 10:51:36 · 10 answers · asked by trooper (canine bad citizen) 3

First question I have ever asked, kind of awkawrd moment. Alright I honestly fell like **** from my parents. I'm not really proud of myself either but I wanna retaliate and tell them my life isn't easy. I'm 22 & walking down a dark road. Starting from when my sister left for college I didn't see my parents that much, they were always working night shifts. I saw them maybe 1 hour on weekdays & 5 hours on weekends, but they talked to me like 10 mins on weekdays & an hour on weekends. They were never there & my sister treats me like her kid & yells and makes me feel worthless when I do bad in school which was actully a lot. Everytime I spoke to them it would always be about school & education, nothing else. So I grew up not really knowing my parents and under very strict conditions, which I followed even though they weren't there. In high school I was dianosed with depression & I drank a lot.
After high school, I decied to join the marines, "war on terror". But I was discharged dishonora

2006-12-12 10:51:26 · 10 answers · asked by Sirus M 1

ok i was sitting around the house all day today while my bf was watching tv. we work full time jobs but right now is our off time for two months,, so we were doing things like going here and ysetserday we wen to the aquarium and i am so tierd today, well he says that hes going to wash the dishes and i say no thats ok just leave it alone , and im not trying to be controlling but he keeps insiting to help and when he strted to clean ...i got mad and said no i can do it its okay and he got mad tooo!! i dont know what to do he keeps whanting to clean it when its my day to rest and i didnt whant him to. y dont he listen and prevent the argument from happening?? i give up he never listnes to me what do i do?? and when he dont say nothing about it how do i know that he whants me to clean it?? help!!

2006-12-12 10:48:12 · 11 answers · asked by chika_cherry_cola007 2

2006-12-12 10:40:53 · 9 answers · asked by fromatoms2adam 1

I need ot buy a good gift for my mom and dad. Any suggestions for a joint gift or 2 seperate one?!?!? im willing on spending 20 on each...im a student so i know i sound cheap.

2006-12-12 10:37:17 · 23 answers · asked by elizabeth r 1

Which house for Christmas? My girlfriends parents or my family? Little complicated when you read details?
Me and my girlfriend have been together almost 6 months. She has some sort of prejudice against my family because most of them are older(over40) and not married. She is very close with her family and I with mine. She met my Mother under protest and is very unhappy about meeting the rest of my family(2 brothers and 3 sisters) We spent Thanksgiving at her parents house(slept over, 1.5 hours away) she says her family makes a big deal of Christmas eve and they exchange presents then and I said I would like to be with her on xmas eve and spend the night at her parents house. So I said my family does presents on Christmas day and I would like to be with them and I would like her to be there also. She does not want to travel back on xmas day so she says its okay if I do not want to spend the holiday with her but instead with my family. I feel like she is making me choose between my family or her, is this fair? What am I missing?
Thanks

2006-12-12 10:34:19 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous

I know this mother that is so close to her 60 year old son. She has a picture of him @ 60 years of age on her key chain. She also has another photo with him and her hand is on his lap. She always talks about him day and night. Even when she dreams about him she wakes up yelling his name. As a housekeeper, they even go on vacations together, and I talked to her friends, and they said when the go on vacation "they play with each other". Can this mother and son really being sharing the same bed.
And when they stare at each other across the table it's as if they are in love with each other and communication like lovers. Would sleeping with mom be elder abuse? Or your thoughts?

2006-12-12 10:24:30 · 15 answers · asked by * 1

i am 22 yrs old , and i have a bf for almost 5yrs, i think his allready tired of me but i dont know what to do i really love and i want to be with him he drive me crazy he tells he wants to be with other womans and then later he says he loves me his is in college and am not because i am under immigration process and i dont have family here i keep on trying to work it out but i dont think he cares much about it i dont know what to do or where to be safe at i feel very depressed and theres too many emotion i can't tell him about all i really have is amodeling career but i cant do much with it do my papers. someone help.

2006-12-12 10:17:25 · 2 answers · asked by Barbie01 1

I like this guy A LOT and i think he might like me back but, i cant tell, please help me! He stares at me a lot, and when ever i touch my hip or so someone where im getting my tattoo in a few days, his eyes get really big and his mouth sort of drops. he also started following me to class and leaving whenever i left. he's tried to talk to me a few times but, chickens out and walks away. and just today i was walking past him and we made eye contact, then we both looked down and got really quiet. i dont know what to think of this? am i just overthinking everything or does he really like me?

2006-12-12 10:12:31 · 8 answers · asked by viva!theadicts 2

2006-12-12 10:11:37 · 19 answers · asked by trooper (canine bad citizen) 3

2006-12-12 10:06:11 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous