i love my boyfriend dearly but cant come to terms with his past. he recently confessed to me that he has slept with over 30 escorts.
would you be able to sleep with someone, knowing that he has been with them, or should i kick him to the curb, even though its in the past?
2006-12-12 11:10:33 · 10 answers · asked by Samiya 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
It is his past is he doing it now? no so get over it he is the person he is because of his past love him for what he is look to the future!!!!
2006-12-12 11:53:54 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
everyone has a past.
sleeping with 30 escorts is better than sleeping with 30 other women, surely he would of used protection, if not get him to get checked out for STD'S before embarking on a physical relationship with him.
if you really love him put the past behind you, after all you have to concentrate on the future and what ever makes you happy.
good luck
2006-12-12 19:19:22 · answer #2 · answered by Sarah S 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
IF its in the past and was a while ago, I would be fine with him ONLY if he takes a test to make sure he doesn't have any STD's or AIDS.
How long ago was it that he stopped?
Over how many years? I.e. for two years he slept with 30 escorts.
How long have you dated? Have you had sex yet? If you have, get tested!
2006-12-12 20:37:06 · answer #3 · answered by Terri 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
umm i dont really know. sometimes my bf brinsg up stuff in the past an my jealousy and feelings go whacked. i hate it why cant they just sit around being good little boys all their lives until we meet them?
the only problem id have if i was in ur situation is STD's i reckon and how much respect for women (you) he had.
2006-12-12 21:07:58 · answer #4 · answered by WomanSoHeartless 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Its up to you and if you can truly accept it go for it.But don't ever hold it against him.
Otherwise get out now,as it will haunt both of you.
Chat soon,
Love ya Babez
XX
2006-12-12 19:15:53 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
if u love him then deal with it and yall go on with yall relationship.
at least he told you the truth, and that means alot. the past is the past. try to work it out.
2006-12-12 19:28:27 · answer #6 · answered by Daya 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your call. Ditch him if you can't handle it. Stick with him if you can deal with it.
2006-12-12 19:16:30 · answer #7 · answered by mcfifi 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Were they all female ? Were they all human ?
2006-12-12 19:23:20 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
leave him ,he might be still doing it if its that much
2006-12-12 19:17:30 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
then get a new fella....why dwell....jeez
2006-12-12 19:22:28 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋