Other - Family & Relationships - 12 December 2006

I left my soon to be ex husband in june this year and moved home. I started making new friends using friends reunited and I met a bloke who I really liked. He knew my situation and he said he wanted to help and support me and that he wanted to be with me so we got together. Family was fine with this. Just after I moved back home my mum suffered a brain hemorage was has been on the sick ever since, whilst this happened her partner ( who is an alcoholic) left her. With no money comming in and bills to pay, when I started working most of money was used to keep us afloat. My bro wanted to go to uni, and I also put the money forward for that. About a month ago my mum decided she wanted to go away and felt that the time away from here would help her recover better, so off she went, leaving me the house, the bills and the dog to look after. She is not in the best financial state to say the least, so I was also paying for the rented TV and stuff. With my boyfriend having recently been made

2006-12-12 19:23:49 · 12 answers · asked by Need_to_know 5

I cheated on my ex and now I realized that I made a hugh mistake, and she is def. the one for me...but should I go back with her or is it to much for her to take back?

2006-12-12 19:03:14 · 7 answers · asked by Chris 1

My boyfriend is not at all environmentally conscious. He'll leave lights on when he leaves a room, lets the water run for upto 30mins before he'll get in the shower (to warm up the bathroom), can't stand to be ever so slightly cold so the thermostat is usually up pretty high.

It drives me nuts. I try do as much as I can...turn the lights off behind him, lower the thermostat a degree but it gets tiring and it's expensive! How do I get him to be a little more respectful of the environment w/out sounding like a nag??

Any advice would be greatly appreciated.

2006-12-12 18:59:09 · 5 answers · asked by silv2078 4

2006-12-12 18:53:39 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous

2006-12-12 18:42:34 · 13 answers · asked by Cheers 2

2006-12-12 18:32:04 · 21 answers · asked by mm 2

I got my uncle for my family christmas secret santa. He and I don't really get along so this is a chance to extend an olive branch but I'd rather tell him to stuff it. He's in his early 60's, bible thumper, adverage hipocrit self ricous kind of guy. Dollar limit is about $20. I'd love to be able to pick it up at Wal-Mart if possible. Ideas?

2006-12-12 18:16:20 · 8 answers · asked by thetyranyofevilmen 2

Just seeing how it feels to others. Is it a physical pain, mental pain, or both?

From the crying, the sleeplessness, and the lack of appetite, its physical. The aguish, the loss of the love...all mental, for me.

2006-12-12 18:14:31 · 7 answers · asked by noxregrets 2

Which is a good song for my boyfriend on our anniversary?? I plan on doing a slideshow of our pictures with a song in the background. I have 2 choices.

One of them is WONDERWALL. I sang that song to him in front of everyone on karaoke night. I never did something like that before. I thought it'd be cute.

The second song is called THE BEGINNING by Alice Peacock.

Here are some of the lyrics:

Step out with me into the great unknown
The world’s at our feet
Let’s make it our own
I’m looking at you with stars up above
It must be true; we’re falling in love

Look at us now
It took so long to find out
This is the beginning of a new life
Baby keep holding on

It’s time to start living
And open our eyes
Open our eyes

Another good choice because we've been friends for a while before we started going out. The lyrics "It took so long to find out" really relates. He's always liked me but I didn't like him like that before. We're also practically engaged.

I CAN'T CHOOSE

2006-12-12 18:13:49 · 5 answers · asked by ( Kelly ) 7

2006-12-12 17:54:59 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous

Should I ask this guy at work how the xxxx in the world he didn't answer any of my calls tonight? (think 4 times plus messages)

We usually talk every night-either he calls me or I calls him. He is usually really good at returning my calls, but not tonight. Should I ask him what's up when seeing him tomorrow? or should I just ignore the whole thing?

2006-12-12 17:53:26 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous

2006-12-12 17:48:17 · 5 answers · asked by brianlr2000 2

Everytime we have sex, and after he ejaculates or gets his orgasm, he always hops off the bed and puts on his clothes!!! Its like hes not even turned on no more!!He would even get irritated if i gently touch him or even ask him for a kiss. He never spends time with me after we make love. It really bugs me, and his answere is that he doesn't want my parents catching us like that!! But I know he loves me and i love him & we have been together for four years. I don't want my sex life to be miserable after I get married to him, but he says after we get married it would be different. I want to know if other guys face this same problem-and maybe other girls have got the same problem with their man?

2006-12-12 17:31:43 · 21 answers · asked by MeaMea 1

There are people that commit suicide. what kind of problems lead them into that way? Everybody has up up and downs but they are still iving their life. Should be a serious traumatise? In other countries, people are starving, are sold by parents as prostitute at a very young age, sleep in from of a manufacters cuz they don't have a home and it is the place hey work, have home destroyed. I consider that this is serious enough. I think that children here are spoiled...this is just my opinion. They all have the basic needs. Yes I also wanted to kill myself for some stupid reason but grabed myself and live with it. I met a person at my school and she lost her legs, and her parents killed cuz of car accident. she's strong than ever. Parents who are commit sexual abuse over their own children. That I know has asked for help, and lives with another family. what else can be worse than that?

2006-12-12 17:31:30 · 11 answers · asked by LadyXSakura 3

2006-12-12 17:23:19 · 4 answers · asked by Silver and Black 2

He goes online first thing in the morning, before showering! As soon as he gets home from work, he is online for hours until he goes to bed. I get so frustrated because I want us to be doing things together, maybe not going out all the time but at least living in the real world and not online.
Its not like he is looking at porn or anything bad. He just pays SO much attention to it that I feel like a piece of the background...like a lamp or something. Ive tried talking to him but he doesnt understand my problem. Without the internet here, he would DIE... I dont want to be controlling and disconnect internet (im a student, that would make it rough) or do something like steal his laptop but how do i show him that I cant be his wallflower forever??
Im sick of playing second fiddle to the damn internet!

2006-12-12 17:21:58 · 26 answers · asked by KPotterFan 2

Pl do help help help me..frank suggestions..?
i have been in love with a person since 4yrs and we used to be very loving..
but then he started to take "over care"(thts wht he says)on me and even till today never allows me to meet friends or even talk on phone to others.i ought to inform everything...
all thse yrs,i got used to it,but once i promised him i will be the girl as u wish to be..unable to see his sadness...may be i thought i could come down a bit..
since then we didnt hav any prob,though i could feeel the decreasing love..
now,at present,he still more decreased the ways of showing love...
he feels i dont love him enough..
there is no more passion and love as it was before..i did really love to have it all over again..by my man doesnt seem to understand and each time i say so,he keeps reducing love.

pl give me some tips..i m really getting depressed..Pl tell me HOW DO I MAKE HIM FEEL MY LOVE?we stay far from each other..only phone..

NO MEAN COMMENTS PL..

2006-12-12 17:10:53 · 14 answers · asked by For peace 3

When my bf comes over to my house and before we make love, he always goes to the washroom and comes back out. I have noticed everytime he has gone to the washroom he always has a thicker penis and he seems to last long during sex. But when he doesn "go to the washroom" he doesnt seem to last that long and his penis seems alot softer I guess. I have asked him if he aplied anything on but he always says no-or changes the question. But i have also noticed sex is always alot beter when he does seem to last long. It always has some sorta smell to it too ...like some cream i guess. So my question is, is there any sort of formula, pills, or some sort that makes him last longer or somthing??? Since he's not telling me I decided I need to do a little reserch.

2006-12-12 17:02:37 · 12 answers · asked by MeaMea 1

2006-12-12 16:55:07 · 12 answers · asked by webster56 1

normal?

2006-12-12 16:50:15 · 7 answers · asked by isabela d 1

I have been married for 23yrs.I found out 3yrs ago thah my wife had a 2yr affair.I trusted her more than any thing in the world.Well she lied saying that they were just frinds,well it only happend 1 time,to the motel,s for 2 yrs.I want to make it work but how do I learn to live with thoes memories and learn to trust again?

2006-12-12 16:46:53 · 21 answers · asked by hardcopy_hrdcopy 1

I'm 15 now and still a virgin so I would like to know

2006-12-12 16:43:09 · 8 answers · asked by Oh Dee! 3

HELP ME PLEASE IF YOU HAVE A HEART!

2006-12-12 16:39:35 · 10 answers · asked by isabela d 1

When its in the middle of the night and you dont turn on the light and u fall in the toilet....do guys ever fall in too cuz they didnt put the seat down???

2006-12-12 16:39:28 · 8 answers · asked by hey u 1

When its in the middle of the night and you dont turn on the light and u fall in the toilet....do guys ever fall in too cuz they didnt put the seat down???

2006-12-12 16:38:21 · 8 answers · asked by hey u 1

My sister is making so much noise during phonecalls during the night time.I keep going to her room telling her to be quiet and she doesnt do anthing.I tell my parents and they yell at her,then she gets back on the phone.She talk really late like at 12 or 11 so how can I stop her from talking so loud?(this also effects what time i wake up from school...hearing someone laughing like a walrus is not a pretty thing to hear.)

2006-12-12 16:31:30 · 6 answers · asked by Deanna 3

BYE AND DONT FORGET, THERE IS A NEW DAY TOMMAROW!


WELL IM OFF BIATCHS AND TAKE CARE! :)

2006-12-12 16:18:26 · 1 answers · asked by Anonymous

My boyfriend and I have been together for almost 6 months. He asked me what i wanted for Christmas and i told him i wasnt sure. He told me to just give him a couple of things i might want (that way he'll pick one thing and ill be surprised). But i have no idea what i want lol. Any suggestions?

2006-12-12 16:11:10 · 10 answers · asked by BeachBum 2

Or, do you know anyone whose family had huge blowups over a pet?What did you/they do? Did a family member move out/divorce?I realize everyone has minor disagreements over pets....such as whose turn to walk the dog, etc...I am wondering about ongoing arguments over a pet.

2006-12-12 16:10:56 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous

you could buy a gift anytime, why wait until 11 month to buy a gift? just to put it up under a tree ,if you want him or her to have a gift buy it anytime of the year and when christmas come around give them money and let them but what they want I understand buying kids toys and clothe and shoes please tell why ao how come this day is so special that you have to wait this long to buy a gift I just don't understand

2006-12-12 16:01:31 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous