Everytime we have sex, and after he ejaculates or gets his orgasm, he always hops off the bed and puts on his clothes!!! Its like hes not even turned on no more!!He would even get irritated if i gently touch him or even ask him for a kiss. He never spends time with me after we make love. It really bugs me, and his answere is that he doesn't want my parents catching us like that!! But I know he loves me and i love him & we have been together for four years. I don't want my sex life to be miserable after I get married to him, but he says after we get married it would be different. I want to know if other guys face this same problem-and maybe other girls have got the same problem with their man?
2006-12-12 17:31:43 · 21 answers · asked by MeaMea 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Because you haven't trained him yet. LOL He will stay if you train him that is what you require and need.
2006-12-16 02:05:45 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all it's not your fault! Second he's meant to respect your wishes he can't force you to do anything you don't want to..and third of all id this guy really worth dating if he has such a stink attitude..I know what its like when boys have testosterone running through their young bodies and they're wanting to have sex and they're got sex on the brain but if the boy has good parents or good role models/influences he will respect a woman..Honey don't make this your problem and don't blame yourself this is something that is purely your bf's problem!
2016-05-23 17:07:42 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's a strange phenomenon, but a guy's mood can frequently and without control do a 180 after coming.
Especially if there is a chance of the parents waltzing in, which lingers in the back of his mind.
In a place where there aren't such stresses he may very likely be more at ease and not jump into his trousers after sex.
2006-12-12 17:36:49 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Trust me and listen to what I'm going to say here.
Your sex life will NOT get better after you get married.
IT WILL GET MUCH WORSE.
Your bf has a very immature attitude towards sex.It will NOT get better after marraige.It does not mean he does not love you,or you him,just that he has a lot to learn in the bedroom.
Sex is the ultimate expression one human can give to another,and it should not end with him hopping off the bed and putting his clothes on.
What you describe is not a true expression of mature love.
2006-12-12 17:42:17 · answer #4 · answered by Mark K 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Nope, this is common when parents are in the house. I had to do it all of the time with my first girlfriend and another girl I slept with wouldn't even bother to take my shirt off just in case. Don't worry about it. He's attracted to you, so much so that he doesn't want to be faced with the prospect of not seeing you because your parents forbid it.
2006-12-12 17:34:46 · answer #5 · answered by Takfam 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Stop having sex with him & see how he will react then! but really, a guy that does not care about you after sex is not worth the trouble, women need nurturing and assurance after sex & if he cant give you that, you need to consider if ur relationship is worth keeping. In the meantime, love yourself, respect your body and live happily.
2006-12-12 17:38:32 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like he wants to get his and doesn't give a damn about yours. Where do you live and why would your parents catch you? I'm confused,I think you should try to talk about it with him again or get a place for the 2 of you if that's his issue.
2006-12-12 17:38:04 · answer #7 · answered by Ebony M. 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He comes to get what he wants. Sex. He leaves when he has gotten what he wants. Sex. All he wants from you is sex. If that is all you want. Fine. If you want more, move on.
But, you won't. It has been four years and you have not figured it out!.
2006-12-12 18:11:02 · answer #8 · answered by Khushro G 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Tell him how you feel. That you need to feel loved. Maybe yall should do it where no one can catch yall. If he can't try to compromise to make you happy, the he isn't a good guy for you. Hope this helps.
2006-12-12 17:35:11 · answer #9 · answered by iknow 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
that is normal behavior maybe if it's cuz of the parents you could ask him to snuggle close whith his clothes on.. or you can just stop asking and see if it changes..you know try doing the same thing he is doing..never know he may just start to wonder why you don't wanna kiss afterwards
2006-12-12 17:38:20 · answer #10 · answered by Carol J 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
that let you know all he wanted was to get his rocks off. that's all he want you for is the sex. you say he love you if he really loved you he would let you kiss him after sex and wouldn't get mad if you touch him.
2006-12-12 17:37:13 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋