Other - Family & Relationships - 11 December 2006

we both realize this is hurting our relationship but, we misunderstand each other so much. We think completely differant and do have some significant trust issues. Both of us want to be with each other because when we get along it is like heaven and we care deeply for one another. What can we do to stop this arguing that happens so much. We are trying to trust each other, but hurts from the past have been pretty detrimental to us both. We have not been unfaithful to each other. We just have very differant opinions of the way things are. My friends thinks he treats me really bad and is very controling. His friends think I am not the one for him, but he does. His family doesnt like me, my family doesnt like him. Both of us have expressed to each other that if we would just quit arguing, our relationship would be truely great.

2006-12-11 03:53:36 · 11 answers · asked by Hawksflyn2u 1

we both realize this is hurting our relationship but, we misunderstand each other so much. We think completely differant and do have some significant trust issues. Both of us want to be with each other because when we get along it is like heaven and we care deeply for one another. What can we do to stop this arguing that happens so much. We are trying to trust each other, but hurts from the past have been pretty detrimental to us both. We have not been unfaithful to each other. We just have very differant opinions of the way things are. My friends thinks he treats me really bad and is very controling. His friends think I am not the one for him, but he does. His family doesnt like me, my family doesnt like him. Both of us have expressed to each other that if we would just quit arguing, our relationship would be truely great.

2006-12-11 03:52:00 · 5 answers · asked by Hawksflyn2u 1

When men masturbate do they have to use lubrication or can they masturbate with just there hand.?

2006-12-11 03:50:45 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous

Yes, this questions seems strange, and reasonably so. Here is my situation: I am a sophmore in college, straight "A" student, involved in campus ministry and student government, but I still live at home, as campus is only a 15 min drive away. Here is my question: Does a 9-10 pm curfew sound a little to strict?

I'd like to add on the fact that I'm not allowed to go to any of my friends houses (including my bf) as my mom can't monitor what we're doing.

I would like some parents to answer, as my dad doesn't care as long as I keep him aware of where I am (I do), but my mom believes that "If my boyfriend really cared for me he wouldn't keep me out past nightfall."

Anyone have any thoughts? If I try to approach her, she simply gets defensive on me.

2006-12-11 03:50:08 · 17 answers · asked by Denise W 4

what would you have picked and why?

I think I would stick with the one I have got (Lee), although when I was younger I always wanted to have been called trixiebellarina. I have no idea why!

2006-12-11 03:47:34 · 12 answers · asked by Liggy Lee 4

This is a "survey" for married couples or those living together.

Please give a quick sketch of how much domestic work (cooking, cleaning, childcare, etc), the woman does, and how much the man does (use percentages if possible, in your household.

Also, it would help if you gave examples or exceptions. Such as: the woman does all other domestic work EXCEPT cooking, which the man does.

If you feel like it, try to think of ONE thing that the man or woman would NEVER do, such as: "The man would never change a diaper", or "The woman would NEVER fix the toilet".

I'm using this info for an paper...so I'd appreciate serious responses. Thanks!

2006-12-11 03:44:18 · 14 answers · asked by Gwynneth Of Olwen 6

Should I let her go or should I make her do what is her womanly duty

2006-12-11 03:39:28 · 44 answers · asked by Anonymous

guys are intimidated by a girl who knows sports? my dad raised me on sports (think he wanted a son :) ) and I know alot...but if I let a guy know that, they freak out or get weirded out that I can keep up in the conversation...is it "man" territory?

2006-12-11 03:35:23 · 6 answers · asked by sd_andrea86 2

what is there to care about?
Why bother?


Do you get days like this?

2006-12-11 03:27:55 · 15 answers · asked by Jennifer L 6

I need some advice......I know I've asked this a few times, but the answers seem to stall out after a while and I'm just trying to get some advice from a bunch of different people....
I've read many posts out there regarding different things that turn me on, but my wife won't go near them, (specifically stockings, high heels & anal sex-though I know the latter is really iffy with some women) and it seems like many on here really get into that.
Anyone out there know how to help me? (outside of any snide remarks regarding divorce, looking at porn, etc If we ever do go out..her heels are the first thing off when we get home...even if I try to sweep her off her feet. And this is not all about me...I am asking because we do things her way all the time..she's on top (which I don't mind) and its right before we go to sleep...I love giving oral, but she doesn't always want that.

2006-12-11 03:23:46 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous

i still love the father of my son but he keeps dissing me and he only comes back to me to have sex, he says his girlfriend is a virgin and when i refuse to have sex he starts telling me how nice she is, so i threten to run away with my unborn child. he was the one who made me stop using contraceptive and got me pregnant.now he dosent want me, i cry for him everytime i see him and he dosent understand how much and when i chase him he just hits me and makes me run out in the cold barefoot. i really cant stop thinking about him, though i have tried lately but as im pregnant i know no one will want me. what should i do

2006-12-11 03:22:08 · 7 answers · asked by dashaan1 2

I was dating this guy who I thought was absolutely great. He seemed to be everything I was looking for in a guy and we had a blast whenever we were together. Then I found out he was engaged. We never had sex, but we did snuggle overnight and made out. Should I tell his fiance or let them get married without telling her?

2006-12-11 03:20:03 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous

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2006-12-11 03:15:21 · 16 answers · asked by dunsurfin1 1

2006-12-11 03:09:35 · 23 answers · asked by G M 2

Sometimes I get a bit frustrated that my partner doesn't have a very high sex drive. I feel that sex shouldn't be a big issue in a relationship and it should happen at the right times. The only problem is...my sex drive is so high that I just want it all the time. I'm 19 and hoping that my testosterone levels will reduce soon because it's not just annoying my partner, it's annoying for me too.

Any thoughts?

2006-12-11 03:07:17 · 32 answers · asked by Warlord 2

I am very quick in making friends but in the long run I found myself falling out of the relationship

2006-12-11 03:01:12 · 4 answers · asked by evi l 1

It all started when I started role playing on a site that's not too hot with the society...MySpace. I did, I guess you could say, a "bad" message and wanted to pretend I liked this roleplayer and then break his heart into a thousand pieces. My older brother, who is like my father, saw a part of the message and forced me to make him read it. He did and he told me to delete the account and I couldn't get back on. The next day I did, and got caught again, but I told him I was through with it and I'd stop. (No lectures please) I lied. I kept it up for about 2 weeks until I realized I wanted to stop and completely quit for good, and I really meant it this time.That was last Thursday. On Friday, my brother, told me he knew I was still logging on, I confessed and even logged on to prove to him that I told others I was through.He said okay, and that was that.Yesterday, I forgot to take back a movie, and he went off on me. He told me I could no longer play my video games and started to

2006-12-11 03:00:00 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous

When two people are married, or engaged. Is it ok to have a seperate life outside your relationship. I mean like a seprate group of friends away from your partner. People you hang out with without your partner. Is it healthy to maintain that seperate group of friends who you associate with outside your relationship?

2006-12-11 02:50:33 · 12 answers · asked by Princesa2dy4 2

i wrote : if I had a blank piece of paper I would send it to you cause you are the only one who can read my silence !
his answer : and because I can read your silence loneliness will never be an issue !

what do you think about this ?

2006-12-11 02:38:07 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous

she is a very sweet person amnd if u ask her what she wants she will just say "u dont need 2 get me nething" and she wont tell u! it drives me crazy but ne way how can i find out what she wants w/o being captain obvious?

2006-12-11 02:35:49 · 4 answers · asked by Muhh-liss-Uhh 2

2006-12-11 02:23:23 · 11 answers · asked by tcameron_2004 3

My boyfriend broke up w/ me 2 months ago.He never really gave me a reason.We celebrated his birthday & he said he loved(like normal)& ten 2 days later it was over.Wednesday night his mother died. I met him through her.Her and I were close friends.I met her @ work.I would have lunch w/ her 1-2 a wk for yrs. I met him about a year ago, she introduced us.I fell for him almost immediately.He is so caring & kind.He never gave me a reason for the break-up.I assumed it was b/c of his grief over his mother's cancer.Tonight, I hurt for the lose of my friend, but my heart breaks for him.I took him & his family a dinner last night.For the past 2 months though we've been apart physically but i have been going thru this w/ him. I loved her & I love him so much.I want to be there for him now in his time of need, but he shows no emotion really & I don't know what to do.The funeral was a lovely tribute to her. He kept glancing over at me. I hope that was a sign that he was glad i was there. Any Advice

2006-12-11 02:22:59 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous

In my seventh grade I "went out" with a guy, after six months he started to hit me and punch me in the stomach. I didn't leave him because he told me that he would kill me and my family so I stayed with him to save my family. After two years I got tired of it, so I put my life and my familys' lives in danger and told the police what he was doing to me, and I NEVER felt that nervous. He spent a few weeks in jail and got out, needless to say he kicked my a** I was in the hospital for a long time. When I was in the hospital he came by and said he was sorry, but I didn't take him back after I got out of the hospital he hurt me pretty bad, again I went to the cops and they this time put him in jail for a long while; he went to jail for raping me. Now he's out and I'm TERRIFIED of him, I have a protection order. He's not supposed to come with in 200 Feet of were I work, or my place. My question is how do I get over what he put me through? How do I honestly say I forgive you? He ask me to.

2006-12-11 02:19:20 · 5 answers · asked by lill_angel_07_88 3

I am 20 now.I love my friend.He is my classmate.He loves me too.But the problem is we belong to different religions,so there is no chance to get marrried.I am from a traditional family.I cant think of anyone else in my life.
He helps me a lot in my studies and supports me for anything i do.
He enjoys being with me,kissing me.But i fear i am doing something wrong.
I dont know but i need him forever.What will i do?
He is a nice guy.But he is not sure about marriage.He loves his parents.Might be because of that.
I have tried many times to go away from him.But i cant.He too cant.What should i do?
He keeps me happy and solves all my problems.I cant lose but how can I?

Please take it seriously and help me..

2006-12-11 02:14:30 · 10 answers · asked by kavya 1

And everybody hates you?

2006-12-11 02:06:04 · 27 answers · asked by Mariah 1

i want to leave my husband of 7 years i am scared. i doubt myself.i am still in school i have a learning disability and its hard. i need to pass the boards and he is the one tutoring me helping me get threw it. mean while he waits on me hand and foot and he supports me thats what makes me like him but its weird cause even though he educates me and waits on me hand and foot he is still mean as well. if some one puts me down he wont stick up for me he will like the person doing it. he as cheated on nme in the past and he even has a std. he aslo has a shitty attitude and i dont like him anymore for everything he has done. i can figure out why he waits on me and and foot pays all my bills and educates me but still cheats on me and is mean to me in the process with his shitty attitude. he doesnt give me love but out of the blue he will . what do you about this guy.i do not have an std i did wear protection

2006-12-11 01:59:30 · 17 answers · asked by sophie 1

Why to pretend?? Even if yu are married you'd be attracted to other women,..possibly fantasize about her...You cant definetely call urself faithful...

Why should people restrain their emotions?

2006-12-11 01:56:59 · 9 answers · asked by robin 3

I am tall, have a short browen hair, fit and smart

2006-12-11 01:53:10 · 5 answers · asked by Ahmed N 1