I am 20 now.I love my friend.He is my classmate.He loves me too.But the problem is we belong to different religions,so there is no chance to get marrried.I am from a traditional family.I cant think of anyone else in my life.
He helps me a lot in my studies and supports me for anything i do.
He enjoys being with me,kissing me.But i fear i am doing something wrong.
I dont know but i need him forever.What will i do?
He is a nice guy.But he is not sure about marriage.He loves his parents.Might be because of that.
I have tried many times to go away from him.But i cant.He too cant.What should i do?
He keeps me happy and solves all my problems.I cant lose but how can I?
Please take it seriously and help me..
2006-12-11 02:14:30 · 10 answers · asked by kavya 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
If you love each other that much, everything else will work out!
2006-12-11 02:18:28 · answer #1 · answered by Anarchy99 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you know and feel it's wrong than let go, it may b hard now but it's get more difficult if you don't start now.
Imagine the lookes on your parents faces if they saw you kissing and making out.
If you really want this to stop and get over with than keep try intill you have no feelings for him.
I know it's hard to get away from some1 that makes u happy and loves you but if u love him so much don't put yourself through this and make his family hate him cuz u did say he respects his parents.
Let go and that all
if u do apart of him would be still with you just to guide you 2 be a better person for caring and loving him and understanding his problem.
Good luck and be brave....
2006-12-11 10:24:36 · answer #2 · answered by Unknown_Angel 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Now i wish i could tell the world this!! SO what if u are in different religions this is getting out of hand! If u love someone and someone loves u back what is the problem???????? So what your parents say thats wrong to say who and who not u can love and be with! Theres a reason for u two to meet and your both human beings and happy so go for it, not like god is gonna punish u for it and these religions are stupid in my opion theres only one god one earth we are all humans and all the same just different looks!
2006-12-11 10:20:37 · answer #3 · answered by smile114 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
When I was in college I had a couple of friends who had the same problem as you do. They stuck it out through everything. Battles with parents, family, religious communities. It was a hard fight but they made it through. They have been happily married for almost ten years. Dont give up. If this is your true love you two will find a way.
2006-12-11 10:20:48 · answer #4 · answered by BIGRED 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe there is a chance you can get married.. you could work out the religions.. I think. maybe one of you could change religions or something. If you love someone nothing should get in your way. It sounds like you two are meant for each other and just have some obstacles in your way. Try to work it out.
2006-12-11 10:18:42 · answer #5 · answered by Bored&Broken 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell your parents you love someone with a different religion. If you can't do it on your own, tell it together with your friend. Also tell his parents. If they don't support you in your choice, you have to make a very different choice. Then you have to choose between your friend and your family. Good luck and take care. I really hope it all works out for you.
2006-12-11 10:18:44 · answer #6 · answered by free_to_speak 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Seriously Kavya -- I would suggest that you must rather concentrate on your studies. Give your relationship a few more years and by then you would be self-sufficient and matured enough to take a better decision than today.
2006-12-11 10:18:12 · answer #7 · answered by keyman_o 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well if you guys come from 2 seperate religions and you guys love each other then you could make a decision on what to do......you and your parents sit down and talk and him and his parents should sit down and talk and when you guys so that both your parents and his parents should sit down and talk and come up with some kind of agreement.....then you and this special guy should join them in the converasation
2006-12-11 10:19:43 · answer #8 · answered by xxrlhoodratxx 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do you and your classmate both truly believe in your religions? Because I know that some people give up their religions because they never actually truly believed in their own.....But if you guys really love each other like you say you do, you should be with him.....
2006-12-11 10:18:27 · answer #9 · answered by Marsha 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
TRUE LOVE WILL FIND A WAY,....ARE THE RELIGIONS SO DIFFERENT ?
THERE IS ONLY 1 TRUE GOD, AND HOW YOU WORSHIP, IS TO EACH THEIR OWN WAY............YOU SHOULD TALK TO YOUR PREACHER...
2006-12-11 10:55:22 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋