Why to pretend?? Even if yu are married you'd be attracted to other women,..possibly fantasize about her...You cant definetely call urself faithful...
Why should people restrain their emotions?
2006-12-11 01:56:59 · 9 answers · asked by robin 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
I don't believe that's the nature of man as a whole. I believe somepeople do it for their own reasons--some people don't. I do believe it is human nature to look.
2006-12-11 03:52:22 · answer #1 · answered by smeezleme 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
They should not restrain their emotions...it only leads to problems. You are correct in saying that it is in our nature to be unfaithful. Men and women alike will always want to look at and will always be attracted to other people, in a relationship or not. Being married does not mean that you have to only want to be with your spouse. IMO, that is silly.
I believe that people who do not allow their spouses the freedom to explore fantasies and look at other people they find attractive leads to deceit. Why does a spouse cheat? Because they want something they can not have. Being open and honest about wants, needs, and desires is the only way.
Men cheat mostly because they are not getting what they need sexually, women cheat mostly because they are not getting what they need emotionally. Women need to be open to their husbands fantasies and men need to be emotionally supportive of their wives. This is all very general and there are exceptions to everything....but I believe that we all need to stop expecting people to be anything other than human and allow each other more freedom.
2006-12-11 10:29:39 · answer #2 · answered by idgogay4shane 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your right, it's man's nature - sinful nature.
I agree.
Most men are unfaithful because not only don't there wives satisfy them in bed, but they don't respect them.
Women cheat on there husbands because they have an emotional void that they need to be filled.
A void that only God can fill.
Praise God we have a choice and Jesus Christ to give us the strength & wisdom to chose.
2006-12-11 11:13:18 · answer #3 · answered by Louw D 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I starting to see ya point. Maybe we shouldnt restrain our emotions. And not to marry too.
2006-12-11 10:42:17 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
not all men are the same but 9 of 10 are!!!! its not always right to play there game but when the time comes you gotta do it!! so if u dont want to deal with being cheated on, then either turn lez. or just deal with it
2006-12-11 10:03:19 · answer #5 · answered by *(¯`ξŔ1₭4´¯) Ł4 (¯`₮Ř4V1ξ§4´¯)* 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It may surprise you to learn that women are just as bad as men... :D
2006-12-11 10:01:46 · answer #6 · answered by Forlorn Hope 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
pesky rules imposed by society and the church!
2006-12-11 10:41:52 · answer #7 · answered by Jim G 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I dont know
2006-12-14 13:39:30 · answer #8 · answered by Jasmeen 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
AIDS!
2006-12-11 11:52:03 · answer #9 · answered by Free Ken 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋