i still love the father of my son but he keeps dissing me and he only comes back to me to have sex, he says his girlfriend is a virgin and when i refuse to have sex he starts telling me how nice she is, so i threten to run away with my unborn child. he was the one who made me stop using contraceptive and got me pregnant.now he dosent want me, i cry for him everytime i see him and he dosent understand how much and when i chase him he just hits me and makes me run out in the cold barefoot. i really cant stop thinking about him, though i have tried lately but as im pregnant i know no one will want me. what should i do
2006-12-11 03:22:08 · 7 answers · asked by dashaan1 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
well im 18 and i do have a job. i live on my own as well
2006-12-11 20:10:25 · update #1
Hallo,
How are you now? I can understand you because I´m in the same situation. I´m married and my husband has a relation with a girl batiful, intelligent and ..... 18 year old. I´m pregnant for the second time and the first children is only one year old. I hav any lust for sex but he obliged me and it is so stressfull.
How old are you? Do you have a job?Do you have someone who can help you if you decide to leave from him?
I wait for you answer
2006-12-11 03:48:07 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's time for you to rethink your priorities. You are pregnant and will soon be bringing a new life into this world...your life will no longer be the most important thing on your mind. This guy sounds like he doesn't treat you right , so think, do you want your baby to be treated this way? The life you are carrying should be first and foremost on your mind right now and not some guy who threatens to hit you while you are carrying his child. I think you should stop chasing around after this jerk and start putting your life and your baby's life first. As a Mother, your first priority is your child and the well being of that child. He didn't force you to stop using contraceptives, he pushed and you said ok...it was ultimately your decision....now take responsibility for this innocent child you decided to bring into the world. It is up to you to keep it safe and healthy and away from harm. The baby's father sounds like he is all about himself and doesn't really care about you or this child. Make the right decision.....to put yours and your baby's best interest first. There will be plenty of time for relationships.
2006-12-11 03:41:30 · answer #2 · answered by vanhammer 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Stop the abuse NOW and you are the only one that can do that and do you want your new born to have any of the traits of the man that fathered your child I HOPE NOT,,,Get him where it hurts,, make him support the child and get some help through the legal system and stand on your own two feet and you are worthy of a much better man ,,,Good Luck
2006-12-11 03:27:05 · answer #3 · answered by Gypsy Gal 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to grow up and take control of your life. You are going to have a baby and you don't need this "child man" in your life. Your baby didn't ask to be brought into the world. As soon as you have the baby you need to take him to court for child support. The next time he lays a hand on you call the police, and why are you chasing some low life who is just playing with your feelings.
2006-12-11 03:32:10 · answer #4 · answered by LasvHall 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Gosh you'll be a stupid if you keep on allowing him to do that to you. Hey girl wake up...let go of him he is not worth it. You are pregnant focus on your baby, how make it healthy for her/him, remove the stressor in your life for there are lots of guys and you deserve better than him.
2006-12-11 03:36:16 · answer #5 · answered by shyn 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have no idea why you could possibly still love this guy. You know you have to leave this guy. Kick him to the curb. Stop having sex with him. If he hits you again call the cops.
2006-12-11 03:27:30 · answer #6 · answered by Firespider 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ditch this guy! you deserve better! someone wants you. there is someone for everyone! but you cannot let someone else love you until you love yourself!
2006-12-11 03:26:16 · answer #7 · answered by should be working 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋