Other - Family & Relationships - 2 November 2006

I was at a party recently with my sister, 53yrs old. I'll be forty in a few months. My sis & her friends all in their 50's now, said that for a woman the forth decade of her life is the best. By then the kids are not so demanding, the husband has softened, she still looks & feels good, she can focus on herself for once. I've been dreading the big 40 but now I'm not so hesitant. Tell me more...

2006-11-02 06:27:27 · 8 answers · asked by maryquast 3

I've been chillin with this guy for like 3 yrs and the other day I text him how I feel about him he never brought it up or anything. We chilled with him and spent the night like 4 times after that everything is all good and but still no answer. So this Fri. he told me to come over and his daughter was there for the weekend and I spent the night there and she knew it cause she saw me in the morning. anyways We still haven't talk about what I said to him. What does this mean, I'm sure he just doesn't bring anyone around his daughter she's 12 she's no's whats up. So like I said what does this mean??? someone help

2006-11-02 06:25:30 · 4 answers · asked by cutie 1

i dont understand whats happnin. im 14 goin 15 in a few weeks. it seems as though everything in my life is wrong. i love a guy whos hooked on drugs and my friends at school seem like they dont understand me anymore. its like we are worlds apart i hate this feeling its horrible :(
also i cant stand school its so boring! seems like such a waste of time like all we do is bus it there, walk round the place, sit around and write some crap! and also me and my bf are also drifting apart!
please can some help me!

2006-11-02 06:19:30 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous

I am about to turn 21, and I have been with this guy since I was 14. Needless to say, that is over a quarter of my life. he has not allowed my to have any friends, and I haven't seen or talked to most of my family in years. He has not let me work in 2 years, and He is very mad about me going back to school to get my GED. I am not allowed to leave the house without his say so, and I have to call and check in with him once an hour. I know that this is not a heathy relation ship, and that I an the only one who can change my situation, but I don't know how. I just started a new job a few weeks ago, and I have found a house to rent, but It is in the same town I live in now. He has never hurt me phisically before, but I am scared that if I leave that might change. I am afraid that if I leave I may not make enough money to make it on my own. I know that I can't stay but I don't know how to leave.

2006-11-02 06:16:55 · 42 answers · asked by cc_broad3 1

i met a man on true.comi want to send him a email is to expensive i really like this guy how do u find him to let him know or give him my phone number is there a free way i can send him a email please help

2006-11-02 06:08:49 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous

I have who loves to beat on women he never fights men if he do fight a guy he'll get a weapon instead. Also if he gets really mad he'll get a knife and try stab is girlfriend. So what should be done about his situation?

2006-11-02 06:04:24 · 18 answers · asked by ken31pop 2

what should i do just found out my sister was arrested yesterday evening for writing bad checks im going out of my mind trying to figure out what to do cause it aggravates me to know that she actually did it and she should know better.... what should i do go ahead and bond her out or let her sit there and try to learn her lesson?

2006-11-02 06:01:09 · 11 answers · asked by SHORTY 2

I have a situation that I'm hoping I can get some good advice on.
My boyfriend and I live together. He has a 4 year old son who lives with us every other week. My b/f started a new job a couple months ago and upon him starting this job, it was assumed on his part that I would take care of his son while he was at work (I am a stay at home mom). So I've been taking care of his son every other week, while he works. I am beginning to feel very resentful of having to watch his kid, not because of the kid, but because I feel very taken for granted and unappreciated by my boyfriend for it. I never hear a "thank you for taking good care of my son for me while I work." ...Or "It means a lot to me that you're doing this for me", etc. I don't even thinks he takes into consideration that by me watching his son, I'm saving him tons of $$$ in childcare expenses. I've tried to talk to him about it but he says his appreciation should go without saying. What should I do?
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2006-11-02 05:59:24 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous

My mom says that i am not....but I have found some papers when i asked her about it she took the papers and hid them can i do anything with out the papers?? I need to know the truth??

2006-11-02 05:58:59 · 13 answers · asked by Steakhouse 2

well m 15 yrs old n the love between my 24 old sis n me...is finishin and the fun, njoyment we did earlier is nothin but a dream today...she does job so she finally arrives at home at 7 or 8 or 9 pm...n we hardly get to talk t each other..but tht also is gone..coz of talkin to his bf..in night........well although she gets plenty of time fr his bf..on weekends...n wekdays too..she doesnt evn spare a moment fr me....shell soon get married to him ....n ever since he has come into her life<6 yrs> ..she has frgotten tht she had a small sis....n too she thnks watevr she talks to her friends..she cant talk to me cz she thnks m to small but m not.....plz help she has only 5 mnths wid me or evenn less....i love her........help me!!

2006-11-02 05:49:19 · 6 answers · asked by akanksha 1

I am 19 years old,i have a two year old son, I have two jobs, going to school, have my own place to live BUT... i want another baby????
even though im young i LOVE being a mommy and ima damn good one at that. Im not married or with my babys father but Hes always around and helps take care of his son...And he said he'd consider having another baby.... Is this wrong?

2006-11-02 05:46:38 · 13 answers · asked by luvbuggy!!!! 2

2006-11-02 05:44:33 · 17 answers · asked by Batman has left the building 3

I'm the Team mom for my son's soccer team and I am ordering a plaque for the Coach. Can anyone help me? I don't know what to engrave in the plaque. Anyone have any ideas? The coach is very dedicated to the team. We are the #1 in our youth and it's all because he has train the kids so good. The thing is I need something good to put in this plaque to show our appreciation to him. The problem is i only have 4 lines to work with. Any idea is appreciated. Thank you!!!

2006-11-02 05:35:05 · 7 answers · asked by hazelshine 4

Please someone tell me if a child molester can stop at one , and why would someone want to fondle a ten year old ?

2006-11-02 05:34:28 · 13 answers · asked by sadwife66 1

What would u ask as ur last if its your wish & why?

2006-11-02 05:24:08 · 6 answers · asked by tania 1

Did it lead to anything...?

Did you think about them all the time?

2006-11-02 05:19:39 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous

Your ideal guy or girl .

2006-11-02 05:17:53 · 3 answers · asked by Geedebb 6

Bud , wine , jellow shots ?

2006-11-02 05:17:03 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous

i cant understand this theory of love?? hahahah

2006-11-02 05:16:29 · 13 answers · asked by Tabbu 1

This may sound ridiculous. We are friends, but it's weird with us. The beginning of our story months ago was very spontaneous. No dates, nothing, but meeting from time to time on campus...I was hinking it gonna turn to a typical love relationship, especially when he asked me out after a long time...but today I find this sickening because days are elapsing and he is saying nothing at all.. I see affection and care in his eyes, but I want something palpable...I am on shaky grounds with him, and I don't want to ask him because I am shy and because I don't want to put myself in that position, for I imagine he gonna shut up and look at me when I ask him what's all this about!
Please, tell me what I can do. I feel angry at this.

2006-11-02 05:13:55 · 11 answers · asked by rosyrose 3

So let's say your mate couldn't be all of them. Which one would you choose over the others?

Best Friend - connects in all areas of the heart
Soul Mate - connects in all areas of the head and soul (just for this purpose not really much of the heart)
Lover - connects in you know where.

2006-11-02 05:08:29 · 18 answers · asked by Batman has left the building 3

My b/f just found out on Halloween that his ex's child is his. The story with that is she told him she was pregnant while they were still dating, he caught her cheating 5 times. So, they broke up, and she told him she was putting the child up for adoption and wasn't sure who the father was. Fast forward, he gets a call saying the daughter is a year old, she kept her, and they live in the Netherlands (we live in the USA). She asked him to take a paternity test, he did, and he just told me that the child is his.

1. Question: How can I deal with this? Since he knows, he's talking about traveling there to see her, and for some reason I'd like to go as well...but I don't know how I should handle this. What about the future? How does one go about a relationship after finding out that your partner has a child they're dying to see and never knew about?
2. What's next? How does he go about things like child support? Since we're in college, does he get leniency (like a discount)?

2006-11-02 05:02:02 · 13 answers · asked by nyrockfan 2

i have always been told that love is unconditional, but if u think it deeply, being unconditional is also a condition!! may be we can expect only love from our partner but expecting love is also a condition.. isn´t it so?

2006-11-02 04:57:30 · 12 answers · asked by Tabbu 1

The "Bully" isn't my boss or in any offical position over me but she has clearly shown her dislike of me from day one. She doesn't talke to me unless she has to for work purposes. If I say good morning or hello, there is no response from her. Not even a nod. She will bring breakfast for everyone else but me. When she does look at me she gives me these looks like she just ate dog doo. I have tried to talk to my boss about this but all he says is "that is how she is, she can be a B*tch, just deal with it, b/c she is good at what she does" I took that to mean that her position in the company is too important for him to say anything to her and that since I am just the lowly receptionist I just need to deal. Can someone please help me and let me know what I should do.

2006-11-02 04:43:00 · 9 answers · asked by j22 1

Love is a feeling which cant be expressed.

2006-11-02 04:34:06 · 12 answers · asked by Tabbu 1

Wondering how big of a difference it makes to have your parents along in court. I'm 19 and back in court for sentencing in a few weeks and have been told to expect 12-18 months. I don't really want them to be there as it will be upsetting for everybody when I'm sentenced but would it look bad if they weren't?

2006-11-02 04:33:06 · 7 answers · asked by Mark 3

the reason of this question is because me and my husband been trying to have everything we need for our kids,enjoy life like a family,go to vacations,have a normal life.but everytime,that we try is too hard,and my husband and me are getting more tired,and my husband sicker,the kids are growing and we are hardly enjoy thing that they one.are we always going to be like that,are going to be able to enjoy life with our kids and ourself?

2006-11-02 04:29:16 · 5 answers · asked by johanna f 1

We have deeper emotional depth.
When something bad occurs we feel it more no matter what it is

2006-11-02 04:26:23 · 34 answers · asked by Gossip81 4

other girls calling her their sister or mom

2006-11-02 04:05:33 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous

I am finding it very difficult to cope with every thing in the my life right now.

2006-11-02 04:01:03 · 24 answers · asked by cerene 1