well m 15 yrs old n the love between my 24 old sis n me...is finishin and the fun, njoyment we did earlier is nothin but a dream today...she does job so she finally arrives at home at 7 or 8 or 9 pm...n we hardly get to talk t each other..but tht also is gone..coz of talkin to his bf..in night........well although she gets plenty of time fr his bf..on weekends...n wekdays too..she doesnt evn spare a moment fr me....shell soon get married to him ....n ever since he has come into her life<6 yrs> ..she has frgotten tht she had a small sis....n too she thnks watevr she talks to her friends..she cant talk to me cz she thnks m to small but m not.....plz help she has only 5 mnths wid me or evenn less....i love her........help me!!
2006-11-02 05:49:19 · 6 answers · asked by akanksha 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Hi Akansha...
Well ..i can undertstand your feelings..and would try to solve your problem as per the best of my knowledge...
See first of all totally agree with you that whatever your sister is doing with you is bit wrong..but maybe following are some reasons....
Before marriage or in young age ,in todays new generation,once someone gets a special new person in ones life the world for her or him changes...the same is the position with your sister...she feels that in her life the only important person is his life partner..becos...its something new in her life and she is quite exiceted ....and no one can blame for that..becos then thats life..maybe same might happen with you too...
Anyways in such conditions what the best u can do is to try to come infront of our sister as and when time permits..but at the same time u should not feel dismotivated even if she doesnt talk to you......i hope you are a sweet understanding girl...
Tk cr..bye bye
2006-11-02 21:16:20 · answer #1 · answered by lalit_jain123 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe she's unaware of how you feel, write her a letter telling her you miss her. People at 24 are busy trying to take over the world. After a while things will settle down.
Don't you have any hobbies or things you like to do (without her) in the meen time?
2006-11-02 13:57:38 · answer #2 · answered by MamaJupe 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It may just be a phase she is going through, something new. Once the newness wears off she will most likely spend more time with you. I would defiantly talk to her about it. Plan an outting with her. Good Luck.
2006-11-02 13:59:44 · answer #3 · answered by Teresia 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell your sister that you miss her since she started spending all of her time with older peoples. She's your big sister, she loves you, she's just started getting side tracked by things that are starting to happen in her life. Remind her about times that you use to have together, and I'm sure she'll start taking time again to have sister times.
2006-11-02 13:53:48 · answer #4 · answered by EnglishKitty 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
of course. you are a kid and she is a 24 year old woman, it is normal. both of you are going to go through changes.
for god sakes learn to spell, maybe she can't understand you anymore.
it will get better in time, for now be happy that she is happy
2006-11-02 14:02:55 · answer #5 · answered by robkim04 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Talk to her about it. Let her know you don't want to drift appart from her.
2006-11-02 13:52:16 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋