Other - Family & Relationships - 2 November 2006

limited to alot even when I ask for help [heavy stuff getting out of car or slower] it seems to fall on deaf ears not a whiney person but what can i do diferently I'v asked outright falls on deaf ears[family church] not working so I guess family thinks I can still do the same help

2006-11-02 17:09:20 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous

Ever since my husband immigrated here, he has doubled up on his cigarrettes. Now, I know he is adjusting to the culture and he smokes as a way to relieve stress, but his chain-smoking (more than a pack a day) is becoming too much that I don't phsically want to be around him. The smoke (and I HATE the smell) gets into our sheets, in my car, and he smells so bad that I can't kiss him anymore and don't want him to touch me. I often tell him that the smoke is too permeating that we can't have sex. I tell him to at least take a shower to get rid of the smoke, but he just doesn't do it, so we end up not having sex.
Am I acting out of line in not wanting to be physical and feeling repulsed by his body odor? His smoking never really bothered me before, but now he chain-smokes and I can't be physically close to him.
Anyone know what I can do to get rid of the horrible smoke stench and make it tolerable to be around him?

2006-11-02 16:42:13 · 8 answers · asked by Ms.Kimchi 1

How often and why?

2006-11-02 16:39:45 · 14 answers · asked by candy 3

2006-11-02 16:17:02 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous

2006-11-02 16:10:06 · 14 answers · asked by Rexang 1

2006-11-02 16:02:16 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous

2006-11-02 15:57:01 · 6 answers · asked by jody.payne@sbcglobal.net 1

I have a good friend who is chinese. I think he is a very nice person! But he is always worried about how people see him. How can i help? He is a very good person underneath.

2006-11-02 15:47:41 · 13 answers · asked by Magda W 1

My girlfriend and I are relatively close; we've been together for over six months and I knew her before that. Anyway, at the moment, we live in different cities so we don't see each to often. In December I'll be in her city for about two or maybe three weeks. Here's my question:

I want to ask her if I can stay with her at her apartment while I'm there but am nervous she might think I just want to stay there so I can "make a move" or something. As of now the relationship hasn't gotten too physical and I am totally cool with waiting till we're both more comfortable before moving forward.

Would it be okay to mention my concerns to her and assure her that our relationship wouldn't change while I'm there and that I wouldn't expect anything different from her?

Thanks

2006-11-02 15:43:03 · 5 answers · asked by sam 1

We just found out my son abused my daughter repeatedly. We knew he had done it once and he was prosecuted for the one time. Now we find out it happened often. It was four years ago and he is out of treatment and is married. He says it only happened once but my daughter has no reason to lie. I want to love both my children but am torn. I support my daughter but am uncomfortable around my son. What kind of mother does that make me? Should we go to the police? If I do my mother will never speak to me again and my son won't admit it. Help!

2006-11-02 15:36:57 · 8 answers · asked by loved one 2

2006-11-02 15:31:22 · 11 answers · asked by ? 5

2006-11-02 15:30:48 · 21 answers · asked by ? 5

He keep calling her and portrayin he wants her but behind her back he is still involved with his ex. It seems he want her but he doesn't treat her very well. Actually she busted him again. She really would like for some man to defend her and tell the guy he should not treat her like crap. She is a independent woman supporting 6 people. She is beautiful very and she have a great heart. She helped him out financially and got him his job. Matter of fact she was getting him another job to bounce in clubs. Is there anyone who could help me with my friend. I wish I was a athletic man who could kick his butt

2006-11-02 15:21:37 · 3 answers · asked by OMG I thought I saw A Kitty Kat 2

Ok so I found me and my friend's mortal enemies SN, so I gave it to my friend, I'm starting to feel bad about it, but I'm not sure if it's wrong because it's in the name of getting even, balancing things out basically. What do you think, is this bad karma. More info: She put a very mean thing about me on her blog, and she blocks everyone who even unthreateningly talks to her. Like she's scared.

2006-11-02 15:20:50 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous

2006-11-02 15:20:15 · 5 answers · asked by KS Girl 1

2006-11-02 15:09:41 · 22 answers · asked by saleem q 1

Ok this happen to me a few years back this girl that called her self my friend told me in these exact words wen she saw that I had gone to get braces “why would u put braces on women should never wear braces they look bad on women Ur. are not going to get hit on by men and Ur. boyfriend is going to break up with you” I did not pay attention to her because well she needs them worst than me but I still don’t understand why she told me that why did she if she called her self my friend?

2006-11-02 14:49:21 · 5 answers · asked by me 3

How do You feel about it? Do they go often, not to mention the preparing the lease? Spend money that could be used at home?
Tell Me Your Story.........Please Vent......

2006-11-02 14:32:44 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous

My fiance and I are planning on getting married in a couple of years. I am divorced, but kept my ex-husband's name because I have two young kids. My fiance doesn't really like his name, as he was teased because of it growing up. I don't want to keep my ex-husband's name. My children are young and not close with their father, so they want to change their name to. Now, we need help choosing a name. Please help us choose from the following: Stark, Drakkar, Sterling, or Merrick. Or if you have anything similar that you would like to add- feel free.

Thanks so much!

2006-11-02 14:31:27 · 22 answers · asked by ladydavonia 2

I have been in a relationship for 5 yrs and one summer my girlfriend did alot of mess up stuff to me. And I just put it to the back of my mind. But now it seems to pop up more then ever before. I mean songs things that she says. Just make me think about things that made me feel some kinda of way. Now how do I forgive her? What would some of you do?

2006-11-02 14:27:23 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous

My boyfriend has a daughter who is 25, maybe 26 yrs old and she moved in with her dad with her 2 kids, and her husband. This is the 3rd time she has come back home to stay because they financially cannot make it on their own. She has spending problems.
I am 42 yrs old, raised 2 kids alone with no spousal support. I obtained a degree after my husband deserted and I make a very good living. I work a 12 hr a day job and my parents are both deceased. I am respected in my community
My boyfriends daughter stood outside his bedroom door listening to us while we were in bed and yelled in and asked her dad if she should call the police to have me removed from the house.
She is dirty, she doesnt clean up after her kids and never offered to do dishes, vacume or clean the whole time she lived with her dad. The house was filthy. Her dad says I should be kind to his daughter. I think he is cracked. He left a note on his fridge telling her how proud he was of her. She is a user.

2006-11-02 14:10:02 · 10 answers · asked by happydawg 6

So many things have happened, and now I feel like *BOOM*, I feel like I have no right to talk to anyone, I feel like laying in bed all day, i feel like failing all my classes, i feel like I should be on drugs, I feel like sh*t, and I have so many problems, and so many people that hate me right now...I have shakey legs, bags under my eyes. What do I do,

2006-11-02 14:09:26 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous

Like yor cousin, uncle or even brother?

2006-11-02 13:53:58 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous

My girl Tashi has liked this boy Jeff since we were in 9th grade & the more she talked about him the more I saw how sexy he was & I began to like him too & we talked about him all the time. Well I am really cool with his best friend Matt & me, Matt, & Jeff were in 3 classes together & we sit by each other. I would get to know Jeff & flirt with him and tell Tashi about what we would talk about. Well 1 day Matt told me Jeff wanted to go out with me so I asked Jeff about it & I was so excited when he said it was true...I couldn't wait to tell Tashi, but she wasnt happy, in fact she was pissed!! She was acting cold towards me & I aint like that sh!t. I am sooo happy with Jeff & we have been dating for a year now....She still acts jealous & I dont understand it because 1. She never even talks to him & Im way more outgoing than her 2. Not to be cocky but I am the cuter one & 3. Why is she mad when she knew I liked him too? Shes gettin on my damn nerves & I wanna correct her be4 I just leave.

2006-11-02 13:53:57 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous

2006-11-02 13:46:08 · 10 answers · asked by ♥Angelita29♥ILY♥ 6

My girls have recently found their younger brothers which they have never met and nobody has the money to arraign a reunion for them. Is there anywhere ,even a television show ,that would do it and how would I go about it ?

2006-11-02 13:35:37 · 2 answers · asked by mary s 1

My sister is 17 she beats up my mom all the time ...shes completely out of control...well my mom occasionally "defends" herself by like hitting her back...my sister went to school and told the teacher and the teacher called my mom and said that they could report her for that...? wtf??!?!?! she skips school all the time...and the one time she does go she tells on my mom??! My mom asked what she was supposed to do with her...and she said they cant make erica do anything! To me she needs her azz busted...i think this whole we cant spank our own children is a big fat joke! Yeah i mean if you black your kids eye youshould be introuble but i mean kids really do need displine!!! Why do they think theres sooo many school shootings and kids killing each other...i remember when it was actually cool when the teachers and the prinicpal spanked you in front of everyone....It's crazy how everyones dressing in "gothic" and acting out...why? most of them are just spoiled brats

2006-11-02 13:34:10 · 9 answers · asked by cutenwild1769 5

How dose your question get kicked off of this site? What do ppl do for that to happen? What do they click. It's so gay.

2006-11-02 13:29:42 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous

2006-11-02 13:17:37 · 28 answers · asked by scoreboard96 1

moved in with you, even tho you are sick, and they never cleaned, picked up after themselves, or helped in anyway, but you can't kick them out because of the little grandchild? They all live in a 2 bedroom apartment, so there are now 6 of them all together. One of them refuses to work, and spends his days laid up in the bedroom.

2006-11-02 13:16:36 · 5 answers · asked by pupcake 6