My girl Tashi has liked this boy Jeff since we were in 9th grade & the more she talked about him the more I saw how sexy he was & I began to like him too & we talked about him all the time. Well I am really cool with his best friend Matt & me, Matt, & Jeff were in 3 classes together & we sit by each other. I would get to know Jeff & flirt with him and tell Tashi about what we would talk about. Well 1 day Matt told me Jeff wanted to go out with me so I asked Jeff about it & I was so excited when he said it was true...I couldn't wait to tell Tashi, but she wasnt happy, in fact she was pissed!! She was acting cold towards me & I aint like that sh!t. I am sooo happy with Jeff & we have been dating for a year now....She still acts jealous & I dont understand it because 1. She never even talks to him & Im way more outgoing than her 2. Not to be cocky but I am the cuter one & 3. Why is she mad when she knew I liked him too? Shes gettin on my damn nerves & I wanna correct her be4 I just leave.
2006-11-02 13:53:57 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Well, 2 years? Then she's had many chances to step up to the plate but never did, so you went for the kill. I'd say it's justified.
2006-11-02 16:51:25 · answer #1 · answered by Hefeweizen 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She has every right to be mad at you. You knew that she liked him and you went after him any way! That's such a selfish thing to do. Have you ever put yourself in her shoes and wonder how you would feel if she did that to you. Instead of doing what you did why didn't you be a friend and hook him up with her. You said you talked to him alot you should of been the kind of friend that helped your friend out. No but you had to be selfish! And you say that she needs to be corrected no I think it's you that should be corrected.
2006-11-02 14:21:15 · answer #2 · answered by babieshay27 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No you are not. Just because she liked him first, doesn't mean she likes him more. Plus, if she is your friend, shouldn't she be happy that atleast one of you got the boy? How is it fair, that she is mad at you because Jeff likes you? And you like him? If you weren't going out with him, he'd probally be going out with someone else anyway. She doesn't even talk to him.
2006-11-02 14:23:46 · answer #3 · answered by Some Girl from College 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
frankly she has every right to be ticked you already said she liked him first so how you could persue him and still call yourself her friend is kind of funny its a little too late now to worry if it is the right thing to do or not you have already betrayed your friend and there is no going back after that and her being shy is no excuse to do that to her. but my motto about chics growing up was trust them with your life but keep em away from your man and "friends" like you were the reason why not that i had any trouble finding new men or friends and she wont either just remember you reap what you sow
2006-11-02 14:11:26 · answer #4 · answered by aarika 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
OMFG this is soooo weird.... my boyfriends name is Matt and his best friend is Jeff. and we are all friends. i tried dating Jeff, but Matt is just more for me. but were all like really good friends.
and for an answer :-P
you probably shouldnt of done that, if you and a friend both like someone its not a good idea for one of you to date them, but you have been together for a year so if your in love then dont let her get in the way, but if she is still jelious, she probably really really likes him, ALOT.
2006-11-02 14:22:49 · answer #5 · answered by Angel 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
so pretty much she really liked him and you started to like him after.she liked him for 2 years but u went out with him anyway.no affence but u sound like a really mean, snotty, self centered, minipulating, brat! She was your best friend!
2006-11-02 14:07:43 · answer #6 · answered by blonde101 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think its kinda trifling and u shouldnt do it but if u wanna jeopardize your friendship for a boy then go ahead
2006-11-02 14:30:09 · answer #7 · answered by cutie1017 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes yes yes yes because If she still has feelings for him and you date him.....................yeah you better hope she don't end up killing you make sure you sleep with the lights on!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
yeah that's a good plan stay away from him or your liable not to wake up tomorrow
2006-11-02 14:19:55 · answer #8 · answered by bearcatz_07 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
she just jealous give her some time!
2006-11-02 14:06:31 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋