can someone please tell me if a man can be just a one time child molester?Can he start and stop at one ? Pleas

Question

Please someone tell me if a child molester can stop at one , and why would someone want to fondle a ten year old ?

Answer 1

Usually not. Pedophilia is a perversion that totally controls a person's way of thinking. They find children "sexy" Yes, it is sick, and no I don't understand why someone would want to fondle/have sex with a child, but they usually don't stop at one.

Answer 2

Child molesters tend to be unable to be rehabilitated, even with professional therapy. Treatment is mostly ineffective and it doesn't sound as if the man in question has undergone anything. Why think about why someone would want to abuse a child? To find a reason or an excuse? It doesn't matter, they did what they did end of story. Also, it's doubtful this happened only once and more likely they got caught only once. Get you and any children away from this man and don't feel bad about it at all. To stay says you condone it.

Answer 3

I personally think that molesters typically and usually molest more than just one time. It's some type of sickness and inbalance in their brain that allows them to do it more than once. Honestly I have no earthly idea why someone would molest a child at all, if they get that despearte they should use their hand on themselves :)

Answer 4

Most research states that child molesters are never cured. There is always a possibility for them to repeat. Unless this person is under constant supervision and going to counseling I would say away from them.

Answer 5

Not to get to personal with you here - but hell no. They cannot. NO matter how many times they promise to never do it again - they keep coming back and back and back.
As to why someone would want to fondle a 10-year-old? They are a sick and twisted individual who needs mental help and should get it immediately and never be around small children ever.

Answer 6

I think that it takes a very sick man to do that to a little girl like that. After that being said.....NO!!!!! THEY CANT CHANGE!!!! I WAS MOLESTED OVER AND OVER AND OVER BY MY STEP DAD AND TOLD MY MOM OVER AND OVER AGAIN. SHE NEVER LEFT HIM BECAUSE HE TOLD HER HE WAS CHANGED!!! I HAD TO GO TO COUNSELING MY WHOLE LIFE AND I AM STILL STRUNG OUT ON MEDICATION EVERYDAY DUE TO HIDING THE PAIN THAT I STILL FEEL. That being said. He could go to church and after a couple of years of staying religious and living right.....may be I would trust him a little then, but never with my children. NEVER!! I am very sorry that you are going through this. It is a train wreck. No man is worth this. There are so many more out there!!!

Answer 7

I no!! I can't even go there and would never want to enter the mind of these creeps. And no, the can't just do it ONCE! I have sit through programs and have listened to these people, and they themselves say that if they 'got out' they would not be able to stop the urge. Please we must protect our children and if you know of someone that has done this, keep your child AWAY!!!!

Answer 8

Pedophilia is like a virus. It does'nt go away. If you know this is happening, you need to report it. As a survivor of sexual abuse with no one who stood up for me, i took matters into my own hands. That guy ended up molesting his own two daughters.

Answer 9

Seriously,
You know the answer. You are just wanting to hear the opposite. Do you need that in the back of your mind? Move on..

Answer 10

they can mever stop and alot has to do with being molested or abused as a child themselves.