Other - Family & Relationships - 18 October 2006

MY boyfriend and I have been together for 2 1/2 yrs. and 6months living together. He wants to have a child with me. I have a son and I had him young. I vowed to not have any more until I was married but I am considering it. I have had some problems with it and am now on fertiliy drugs. I have tried everything and continue to do so. He makes me feel bad for not conceiving quickly as if I have any control over it. He also belittles me in front of our friends with this and threatens me with a time frame or he's leaving. HELP ME!!!! What should I do?

2006-10-18 11:23:05 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous

He still had his ex wife on his checking account 1 year after we started dating
He hooked an old answering machine with his exwife answering it and hooked it up to his phone 2 years after we started dating and said he didnt realize she was on it.
He tells his ex wife personal details about my financial business
He and his brothers have his ex do their taxes
His ex wife was at the hospital before I even knew he was sick.
I feel like nothing is personal between us because he tells her my business.
She drives his car.
Do you think maybe he has a problem?
She has re married and seems to not be able to cut the rope.

2006-10-18 11:22:16 · 4 answers · asked by happydawg 6

Never in trouble just plays golf and pitch and putt but cannot do what he is told without answering or questioning why he has to do it

2006-10-18 11:21:15 · 9 answers · asked by cha 2

my problem it that when i like someone i have the urge to not keep it to myself like there is always a girl at your highschool that every word you say to her will some how be a untruthful rumer well i am always tempted to tell a girl thats i nmy class who i like and i know that my crush will hear about within an hour but i need some help how to not spill the beans...plz don't give me dumb answers liike tell him yourself and be yourself =) --DONT SAY THAT IT BOTHERS ME-- i need some real advice like what can i do to keep from telling everyone and to occupiy myself before the whole school knows who i like and my personal buisness

2006-10-18 11:18:49 · 4 answers · asked by Aycilla 3

Im still friends with my ex boyfriend and he wants to hang out with me and chill. my current boyfriend says he doesnt want me to go see him because he thinks my ex will try something. should i go see him ?? i also kinda want to.

2006-10-18 11:14:40 · 5 answers · asked by Evergreen 2

My boyfriend told me last week he did not intend to take off for a high school football game this coming friday. I told him, since the game is 50 miles away, I planned to go shopping in a city nearby and then go to the game afterwards. I have followed the team all season.
He never once invited me to go with him. He told me he did not know if he planned to go and then he calls me to tell me he plans to go because he will use it as a vacation day off work. He went into great detail about going and never once said "would you like to go with me". I told him I would meet him there, but now I feel like I am being pushy and showing up at a ball game where I am a 3rd wheel somehow. He is mad because I told him I was on to another one of his shinnanigans. He cannot or will not leave his ex wife out of our picture and he goes to events where he knows she will be alone without me. What do I say now? I feel stupid. She is remarried and seems to have gotten on with her life.

2006-10-18 11:13:39 · 3 answers · asked by happydawg 6

Do you think they are able to remember the times of their lives?

2006-10-18 11:12:03 · 13 answers · asked by mstrywmn 7

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2006-10-18 11:07:29 · 10 answers · asked by JistheRealDeal 5

2006-10-18 11:06:48 · 5 answers · asked by MS.KNOW IT ALL 3

They want you to be quite when they are in bed
{sleeping} but when you are there they slam the doors talk loud on the phone ect....

2006-10-18 10:55:36 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous

i dream about my mother (who past away 2 years ago) who was helping me moving out from my ex boyfriends place when he suddendly arrive and i simply slap him in the face, i did not want to be there anymore. My question his what his the signification of my mother and my ex, thank you....

2006-10-18 10:48:06 · 4 answers · asked by pbpbpbpb 1

im deployed in iraq 4 the past 9 months and somebody told her that every body that is here has sex with somebody but that coundnt be farther from the truth and i would never cheat on her anyhow cause i love her like no other

2006-10-18 10:45:24 · 12 answers · asked by b-dogg 1

I want some real answers on this. I have no intentions on attempting this myself nor would I suggest anyone else try. I just want to pick your brain and see if you can think of any situation where cheating on someone can make the relationship last longer.

2006-10-18 10:38:58 · 22 answers · asked by JustAskin 2

Let me first say...Not ALL of you. There are many women on here that seem to be very understanding when a man has serious questions to ask. But there are also a lot of you who refuse to believe that a man could be doing everything he can and that it really is the womans fault when things are going arye. Do you not beleive that "good men" exist? Or have you just been stuck with a bum for a husband/boyfriend? Why all the hate?

2006-10-18 10:37:02 · 12 answers · asked by Bad Pookie 2

My man & I R seperated (living in different houses in different states) he has cheated on me before that's why I moved but we are currently working on our relationship & seeing each other every other weekend. We also have a 2 year old together. I told him that if he really loved me & wanted to be with me that he would move to where we live. He says he does & that he is willing to do anything to prove his love & show that he has changed. Should I take it into consideration & haope that he has changed by him moving to be with us?? Please be honest & respond as soon as possible because he's planning on moving here in a week. Thanks..

2006-10-18 10:34:25 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous

i dreamt there was something evil, lurking in the bedroom, i could feel it looking at me, feel a presence, i woke, heart racing, feeling spooked, when all of a sudden, my 7 yr old son, burst in to our room screaming his head off,nearly gave me a heart attack, said there was an "alien" in his room. Coincidence? We do have strange happenings in this house, but this was freaky.
It was around 3am.

2006-10-18 10:33:32 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous

Does anyone know if there is state paid childcare for low income families? I have never asked for assistance but I have the opportunity of a lifetime to go to school and get a degree in two years...my husband works full time and we have four children, we have recently relocated. We make it without help but are considered low income. If I could go to school it would change our whole life forever. I have two older children in elem. school and a three and four year old at home....I have heard of other people that have state paid childcare at no cost! Is this possible? I'm going to call and find out but I was just curious if anyone had any personal knowledge.

2006-10-18 10:33:11 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous

Me and my ex boyfriend are going through a lot of drama lately since we were so close and he suddenly left me. I recently found out it was because he thinks my parents hate him and for that reason we can't work out. First of all, my parents do not hate him, but he won't believe my no matter how many times I tell him. Also, we're too young for those things to matter [we're just in high school] and I don't see why my parents opinons matter especially at this age.

He wants me to move on and forget him but I think he's being way too dramatic, and I know he will regret this later. I know him too well and we were too close for him to just give up on us like this. He can't just run away when the going gets rough.

Whenever I'm cloes to giving up I get this gut feeling that I need to keep going. This feeling wont go away and is sucha huge feeling I think it has to mean something. What do you think ? =/

2006-10-18 10:32:03 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous

i FEEL DEAD..UNSURE?? dont know what to feeel??
hey .. i had a confrontal talk with this guy .. the ***** he was he said touching etc.. was justa form of affection..
so if a guy touches..strokes awomans hair..face ..its platonic????
it ended.. on a note i dunno what to make out of it ..can some one please HELP me!!!!!!!

2006-10-18 10:29:09 · 4 answers · asked by barley 2

It my 2 year anniversary with my GF and i need a present to give her. I've already done jewelery, roses, watches, chocolates, perfumes and she dosen't like it when i give her clothes.
I want to give her something new any ideas?

2006-10-18 10:24:26 · 3 answers · asked by JOEY 2

He makes me laugh and he can do something that Beau can't do that i have wanted for so long, hug me. I thought Beau was the only type of guy that would call a girl beautiful, but i was mistaken. I'm always thinking about him now, just staring into space when my mind is supposed to be set on Beau. No doubt i love Beau to death but he may have competition. His fun to be around and has a great personality. Why can't this be any easier on me? I have a guy who wants to marry me and have kids with me while i have another guy who really seems to like me. Is it weird if i feel funny around Leigh when he hugs me, or looks at me. I told Leigh that i keep getting teased in class and he told me not to worry about them and im a great girl. No doubt he likes me, he tells me all the time; in messages that is. Every lunch and recess he comes and sees me. I don't know what to do.....has anyone got any ideas? Beau is the love of my life whos been wit me for about 2 years and he hasnt came to see me yet.

2006-10-18 10:23:42 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous

My wife has not had sex with me in exactly 11 months. The day our baby was conceived, and that was the only reason she did then. She doesn't think sex is part of a healthy marriage. I don't know how much longer I can stand it. I love my wife very much, but like any mae, from any species, I NEED SEX!!! What should I do?

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2 minutes ago
Let me add to this. I DO give my wife love and attention. I also do all the house work; dishes, laundry, cleaning. And to Sarahsmam.....I get up with the baby almost every night. I stay up late with her, feed her and put her to bed. I also take care of the yardwork, feed the pets, and keep up with the cars maintenance, along with working 40+ hours a week. And I'll let you guess at who the cook is. Now tell me what you really think?

0 seconds ago
Oh yeah, and I still hold my wife in bed every night. Even if we have been arguing.

2006-10-18 10:23:22 · 12 answers · asked by Bad Pookie 2

So, I've got a friend & she says she's been raped by this one guy. I told her that people would believe it cuz of the way he is. So, I told her about this one time when he touched me. I told her not to say anything about it though. But ended up & she did. She's probably gonna take him to court, but she has no evidence & she needs back up & she wants me to go with her. I don't want to get my family into this. I haven't told my mother or dad. I don't want to walk in school & have people say I'm a liar & ask questions. He'd deny it anyway. I don't even know who I believe. I don't think she'd lie about it. but he's 18 & is messing up his whole life.....just doesn't sound like him. Should I go to court & get involved or leave it alone & stay out of it. Please help me. This is serious.

2006-10-18 10:18:08 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous

how old were u when u lost ur virginity....how long were u goin out with the guy?

2006-10-18 10:10:26 · 10 answers · asked by snowgirl281 1

2006-10-18 10:08:22 · 24 answers · asked by Anonymous

My car keys were stolen by a friend and locked inside his truck. After begging him for 20 minutes, i called my mom and asked her to bring the extra set of keys. 3 minutes later, his girlfriend finally coaxed him into opening the truck and getting my keys. She does not lie me by the way. My car was parked with the windows down in the middle of the road. He reached in and took them from the ignition. My friends were there putting toothpaste on the windows of his truck and he thinks i did it but i was standing there talking to him the entire time. IT seems every time i am with this group of friends i get into trouble. I need to stop hanging around them. BUt my mom thinks i am the one that instigated it and is now taking priveledges away from me.

2006-10-18 10:07:21 · 5 answers · asked by aloneforeverinmyworld 2

2006-10-18 10:07:06 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous

I don´t mean to offend anybody, it´s just that once I read in a book that men need some time to think before they give an answer because it is difficult for them to think and talk at the same time. I want to know if this is true. What do you think?

2006-10-18 10:04:23 · 12 answers · asked by Mónica 3

I want to ask the man who I have been dating is he seening someone else. But I don't want to sound insecure, jealous, and crazy. I been worrying about it for about 3 days know. I don't know what to do. I am so confuse, I think he is cheating, but don't know defitently.

2006-10-18 10:03:42 · 3 answers · asked by angle2005star 4

2006-10-18 10:00:54 · 3 answers · asked by peacehands1 1