My boyfriend is making me crazy again. What do you make of this?

Question

He still had his ex wife on his checking account 1 year after we started dating
He hooked an old answering machine with his exwife answering it and hooked it up to his phone 2 years after we started dating and said he didnt realize she was on it.
He tells his ex wife personal details about my financial business
He and his brothers have his ex do their taxes
His ex wife was at the hospital before I even knew he was sick.
I feel like nothing is personal between us because he tells her my business.
She drives his car.
Do you think maybe he has a problem?
She has re married and seems to not be able to cut the rope.

I can say, I am divorced. I have been a single mother for 20 years. I do not feel the need to have any connection with my ex husband. I never involved myself in any of his business. No hanky pankey here.

Answer 1

dump him

Answer 2

In my opinion, his relationship with his ex seems to be a little inappropriate. It's great that they're able to be friends, but they seem a little too close, especially since he's in a relationship with you. You should definitely talk to him about it if it makes you uncomfortable. Having her do his taxes and maybe seeing each other once in a while (with you there of course) is one thing, but the fact that she drives his car, knows when he's sick before you, and the checking account thing is crossing the line. Him telling his about YOUR personal business is completely unacceptable. He really needs to respect your feelings about this and back off a little. If he refuses, it might be best to give him the boot.

Answer 3

Marriage is a union blessed and joined by God,so the question is,when two divorce are they really divorced?Does God see them as divorced?.....It's best to find someone who has the same amount of baggage as you.

Answer 4

dump him.